Advice on sucking cock

[MrWhite707]

I’m hoping to have my first time soon. When he is close to cumming, is it best (for his orgasm) to keep him in my mouth or let him finish with his or my hand and shoot into me?

 

[Escierto]

I’m hoping to have my first time soon. When he is close to cumming, is it best (for his orgasm) to keep him in my mouth or let him finish with his or my hand and shoot into me?

Normally my girlfriend wants to finish down my throat but sometimes she will take hold of her cock so she can shoot all over my face. That doesn’t happen to often. Just be responsive to your partner’s cues. Usually she is holding my head to her groin so I know what she wants - keep doing what I am doing until she cums.

 

[Jaime1493]

I have done it a lot. Most importantly keep your lips out front, do not rake it with your teeth. Taste your own cum prior to doing it, so you know what to expect. I will not do it with any smokers as I am allergic. I like all kinds of gay sex, not just oral.

 

[carln3346]

I’m hoping to have my first time soon. When he is close to cumming, is it best (for his orgasm) to keep him in my mouth or let him finish with his or my hand and shoot into me?

I have found that most men would prefer to finish in my mouth. Some want to do it deep in my mouth, but I can't handle that. When they are close, I pull off until just the knob is in my mouth.

 

[Iwant2be]

Where all different on our likes and dislikes, me, I love to suck one to complition, you dont have to swallow it if you dont like , just spit it out, me I love to swallow the whole thing. Start out by licking and sucking on his balls, then run your lips up and down on the shaft, when you see him getting hard, then take it in your mouth and let him finish there if he wants , or he may want to take it out and cum all over your face.

 

[carln3346]

Where all different on our likes and dislikes, me, I love to suck one to complition, you dont have to swallow it if you dont like , just spit it out, me I love to swallow the whole thing. Start out by licking and sucking on his balls, then run your lips up and down on the shaft, when you see him getting hard, then take it in your mouth and let him finish there if he wants , or he may want to take it out and cum all over your face.

You're good!

 

[nassauguy_2001]

So after 36 years I’m Finally going to suck my first cock. Suppose to happen Monday night I keep over thinking it and going back and forth if I’m going to back out or not. Just wondering how other ppl have gotten that courage to try and when you did how was It? Did you feel like you didn’t know what you were doing or does It come Natural?

All the replies here are good, but I would like to add one more thing.

Spend some real time with his balls. Kiss them, lick them, suck them into your mouth, fondle them as you are sucking his cock. I find many guys I have been with only spend a few seconds at the start, then they ignore them completely.

I love my balls to get some attention, and likewise when I am the cocksucker I offer full service including making love to his balls!

Have fun!

 

[Newer2155]

The experience is wonderful. Don't let it be to planned or programmed. Let it be spontaneous and you will enjoy it better. And let him cum in your mouth. It is worth it.

 

[Newer2155]

The soft velvety texture is awesome but the pulsing, throbbing just before the cum arrives is worth every bit of the trip

 

[fitandfresh]

So after 36 years I’m Finally going to suck my first cock. Suppose to happen Monday night I keep over thinking it and going back and forth if I’m going to back out or not. Just wondering how other ppl have gotten that courage to try and when you did how was It? Did you feel like you didn’t know what you were doing or does It come Natural?

Sure hope it was even better than you had hoped for.

 

[betamale30]

So, what's the story? What happened? Inquiring minds want to know! ;-)

So i actually chickened out the monday that i was suppose to meet him.. I just kept getting paranoid how its a small world and what happens if he knows someone i know.. if It got out i feel like my life would be over.. I apologized alot to the guy and he is still talking to me so hopefully i get the courage one of these days.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I've imagined all sorts of things that might happen to ruin my life/marriage/health. But so far, I haven't been found out and I haven't caught anything. Life's too short?

 

[Dusty753]

For me (anyway) when I began to get curious about sucking and the whole tasting thing,I started out tasting my own cum first to give me some idea what it tastes like. As I done it more,the more I found that it had no taste,but always made me feel horny done it.

 

[tristantrotsky]

It Makes Perfect

So after 36 years I’m Finally going to suck my first cock. Suppose to happen Monday night I keep over thinking it and going back and forth if I’m going to back out or not. Just wondering how other ppl have gotten that courage to try and when you did how was It? Did you feel like you didn’t know what you were doing or does It come Natural?

I advise practice... lots and lots of practice...

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

That's okay

So i actually chickened out the monday that i was suppose to meet him.. I just kept getting paranoid how its a small world and what happens if he knows someone i know.. if It got out i feel like my life would be over.. I apologized alot to the guy and he is still talking to me so hopefully i get the courage one of these days.

Hey, that's cool. If you're not comfortable yet, there's no rush. At least you apologized, and it seems he is still interested, so you're doing good. I was going to experience my first man in November, and wasn't going to hesitate, but he ghosted me. We had a date, and time of day to meet, but when I asked him how he wanted to proceed, he just disappeared.

The odds of him knowing someone you know are pretty small, BUT.....there is always that possibility. There was an obviously gay man that came to the gym I used to workout at, and I never considered anything with him. Several years later, I was introduced to him by my wife! She had known him for years! Although I had never spoken to him, I recognized him, and thought to myself just how awkward that would have been if he and I had played.

 

[dacoach44]

I loved it!

So after 36 years I’m Finally going to suck my first cock. Suppose to happen Monday night I keep over thinking it and going back and forth if I’m going to back out or not. Just wondering how other ppl have gotten that courage to try and when you did how was It? Did you feel like you didn’t know what you were doing or does It come Natural?

Its so easy, and you can be in charge of the cock. Put him on his back, go slow, and when he seizes up and starts to spurt, ease the pressure off, keep the cock in your mouth, and swallow it all. Then, as the cock softens, take out of your mouth, and lick it clean, look him in the eye, and say "Thanks."

 

[yestryitlikeit]

I sucked my first cock ( danny in garwood are you there? ) when I was a teenager, my 2nd cock when I was in my 20's my 3rd cock when I was in my 30's and that was 30 years too damn long ago to suck my 4th cock.

And so the hunt is on! My advice, keep an open mind and let your body tell you if you like it or not

Personally I am looking to be a submissive ( somewhat ) and I can't wait that long! Anyone in south/sw fla?

 

[Samsacks]

I remember thinking after my first time giving head that... I wasn't sure whether I would ever do it again. It was a quiet, introspective time, sexually speaking. As I rationalized it, it was as if I'd satisfied that curiosity and could move on.

In fact not more than maybe a month later I wanted to try it again! Then the more I did it, the more enjoyable and matter of fact it became! I'm definitely glad I took that first nervous step.

I totally get that. Though my first was when I was 18, I had fought the desire until my late 40s. I set up a few CL meets, chickened out, back and forth. Finally set one up and followed through. I loved it while I was doing it, especially when he came in my mouth, but afterward, going back to my car I was like, "Well, I did THAT."

And, like you, the hunger returned. I'd suck cock every day, if I could.

 

[klippert]

tongue fuck his cock-slit (|).
Practice deepthroat
swallow or facial
....and don't forget too lick and suck his balls...

 

[oralgami]

My first time happened when I was 45. I was near the end of a sexless marriage and sexually frustrated. My mind began to wander and I started to think about how cool it would be to find another guy in the same situation and discretely take care of each other’s needs.

I eventually came to the conclusion that I could either do something to make it happen or else spend the rest of my life wondering what is was like. So, I got my courage up, placed a totally honest ad on CL explaining my situation and that I was looking for another married guy willing to help me have my first experience. After wading through dozens of responses that I rejected out of hand there was one response that seemed perfect, so perfect it almost seemed to good to be true.

A few days later, his wife was out of town and I found myself nervously knocking on a strangers door. As I heard him approach the door and unlock it, I realized that for the first time another person would see me as a man who wanted to suck his dick. I was incredibly nervous but found the experience to be very intense and exciting. I was inept, and more or less attacked his dick, choking and gagging all the while. He reciprocated in a skillful manner and I wished I could have done for him what he did for me. He was the perfect partner for a first experience. I left with no regrets.

My advice for sucking cock is this-
-slobber profusely to get it wet
-be gentle
-watch those teeth
-make eye contact so he can see his dick in your mouth
-let him know that you’re enjoying what your doing
-make an effort to figure out what he enjoys - he’ll let you know

 

[cyberking001]

So you posted your original question almost 3 weeks ago ...
not sure if it has actually happened yet or not, but if it hasn't
happened yet and you are still thinking about it....

I had my first experience when I was 40 with my then-best
friend who was 30... it just happened spontaneously one night.
All I can say to you is, don't overthink it. You have seen lots of
porn where girls (or guys) suck on a cock, and you will know
what to do instinctively. If you really think you want to practice,
pick your favourite substitute object and just practice, but when
the time comes, you will know what to do.

As for what to do when he is ready to cum, that is up to you.
I wanted to see my friend shoot, so I finished him off with my
hand ... his first shot went right over his left shoulder (so hot!!!)

The best advice is, just go with your instincts and don't over-
analyze. Once again, you will know instinctively what you want
to do, both when you are sucking him off, and when he is ready
to cum.

Hope this helps.

Sam

p.s. If it has already happened, please update us on this post.
Tell us what you felt, how it went, whether you want to do it again ...
enquiring minds want to know

 

[Always5]

A few times while I've been swapping head or just giving a good BJ. I usually tell myself while I'm getting into position to suck that I'm going to give the most passionate blow job I can. That means trying to make it feel so, so, good. Even asking what they like best and trying different things while I suck. If you are doing a good job sucking a dick and you stop and tell your partner that you really want to lick their balls and then go even lower and rim them, they will cum hard, lick up every drop. Even guys that I stroked off like it if you clean them up after they cum, mouth or tissue. a few times I've ended up jerking off a cock, after they cum if you take out a tissue and clean them up, they enjoy it so much.

 

[carln3346]

My first time happened when I was 45. I was near the end of a sexless marriage and sexually frustrated. My mind began to wander and I started to think about how cool it would be to find another guy in the same situation and discretely take care of each other’s needs.

I eventually came to the conclusion that I could either do something to make it happen or else spend the rest of my life wondering what is was like. So, I got my courage up, placed a totally honest ad on CL explaining my situation and that I was looking for another married guy willing to help me have my first experience. After wading through dozens of responses that I rejected out of hand there was one response that seemed perfect, so perfect it almost seemed to good to be true.

A few days later, his wife was out of town and I found myself nervously knocking on a strangers door. As I heard him approach the door and unlock it, I realized that for the first time another person would see me as a man who wanted to suck his dick. I was incredibly nervous but found the experience to be very intense and exciting. I was inept, and more or less attacked his dick, choking and gagging all the while. He reciprocated in a skillful manner and I wished I could have done for him what he did for me. He was the perfect partner for a first experience. I left with no regrets.

My advice for sucking cock is this-
-slobber profusely to get it wet
-be gentle
-watch those teeth
-make eye contact so he can see his dick in your mouth
-let him know that you’re enjoying what your doing
-make an effort to figure out what he enjoys - he’ll let you know

great story and great advice!

 

[Wageslave]

Lots of good advice for a guy waiting to suck his first cock

 

[jackstud]

tongue fuck his cock-slit (|).
Practice deepthroat
swallow or facial
....and don't forget too lick and suck his balls...

The Cock is a beautiful organ