Affection between men

[rickdickerson]

As a man, I enjoy watching girl on girl, and love to watch them kiss passionately. However, when I watch gay porn, I enjoy watching men kiss as well, and believe that men kissing is fine, and essential to a the intimacy that makes a sexual encounter more passionate. How do feel about men kissing?Would you kiss a man if you were having sex?

I would love to kiss a man while having sex with him. I find it far more erotic and enjoyable if it's not just sex, but the intimacy aspect and kissing adds chemistry and just thinking about it makes my dick hard.

 

[rickdickerson]

I like the kissing because in my mind set I'd be thinking I'm his girl friend. I really get off thinking of being a guys GF, in my sissy thoughts. So yes I have guys I think of kissing and being like their Gf, or wife.

I agree with this 100%. I am turned on by the thought of being the "girl" in a sexual scenario with a man, I want to get fucked like a woman, which in man/man sex would make me a bottom. kissing and being kissed as part of that equation would create fireworks for me and make it so much more pleasurable and erotic...

 

[rickdickerson]

I have always loved affection and kissing, particularly in foreplay. I envy women and their natural tenderness, and like yourself like female love scenes. Men often have trouble being affectionate with each other, especially if one or more are still insecure in their sexuality and fear to be less than masculine. Part of coming out (a lifetime process) is learning to put aside these insecurities and enjoy the full spectrum of gay sexuality.

Gay tenderness is usually something that has to learned as gay men realize that they can act on their own desire and not meet heterosexual norms. If a gay man accepts himself and gains pride and learns to love what he was created as, then he is free to be himself and enjoy the life he has been gifted with. We are different than straight people, and we should embrace that difference, realize that we are special, and enjoy all of our sexuality. This is a different journey for each gay man, and our coming out can take many different paths. Hopefully, they all end in self-acceptance and pride, and the understanding that we are free to be ourselves in every way. This is true liberation.

I love each of you that is on this journey.

Quoting: "Part of coming out (a lifetime process) is learning to put aside these insecurities and enjoy the full spectrum of gay sexuality."

This is so true - It has also taken me my whole life up to this point to accept myself for who and what I am, and to feel ok about it. I am still closeted, but even getting to the point of self acceptance is a very difficult battle. I am no longer ashamed for being attracted to men and fantasizing about sex with Men.

 

[rickdickerson]

This is one of the most tender and loving things I have ever read. No, I do not consider myself as gay since I prefer women, but I cannot deny that I have gay desires which I fought and denied for so long. My journey has taken me from becoming aware of my gay desires to admission of my gay desires to acceptance of my gay desires. This feeling of self acceptance is exhilarating and liberating as I finally allowed myself to enjoy the pleasure of those feelings. I think we (by "we", I mean our society) get so hung upon labels, their meanings, and arbitrarily assigning positive or negative connotations that we miss out on fully being the person we were meant to be.

This is so true, thank you.

 

[Hitchiker69]

At first when I had sex with men I avoided kissing. Some guys were disappointed, some didn't care. I often felt awkward being naked with a guy, but I was so horny that I put that aside, and got on with the sucking and fucking. And at first I was always the 'top'
When I finally got comfortable being naked in bed with a man I relaxed, let down my inhibitions and began to fully enjoy all that gay sex could be. One night, when I was very comfortable with the guy, and with plenty off alcohol involved, I tried letting him fuck me, and I liked it. Then I decided to take the final step, and kissed him.
It was different, unique and very intimate. Also very masculine somehow. It wasn't like kissing a woman, but at least as good.
Now whenever I'm with a man I want it all...sucking, being sucked, kissing, fucking. I'm 'all in' with nothing held back. And I feel complete, true to myself. I want a man in every way he came be enjoyed and satisfied

 

[wishywashy1956]

I love giving affection to a man. My tongue & lips telling him how physically attractive his face & his body are & how much he is loved by me.

Again here you are with the right words again sexy