All About Small Cocks. What is your experience? Having one, being with one, positive or negative (please no dick pics or rude behavior)

[Somerandomdudepnw]

This is not 1977. I don't know many guys who refuse to eat pussy. Even the hung guys eat pussy.

The pussy eating Renaissance is upon us

 

[MorlockIam]

For the men:
1) If you have a small cock what has been your experience?
2) Have you had a really negative experience because of your small penis? (don't be rude)
3) Have you had a partner who was looking for or really into small cocks?
4) What has been the positives about having a small cock?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

First SPH was at school in change rooms by the other boys, I never thought of myself big or small before that. I never played doctors and nurses due to that either as by that stage I knew I was small. Some of the girls knew from what the boys said and they would look at me with an understanding smile sometimes.

As I got older I relaxed and when I became sexually active I was told often I was average or even above average. I still had that Small Penis thing though and I finally ended up exploring SPH which I loved and found carthartic. I enjoyed revealing myself to women on request via cam and having them comment, laugh or whatever. I also like CFNM so one sided nudity is a turn on for me.

Negative experiences? Just at school and once I was in a brothel and the prostitute was a bit rude as she was not fond of my size.

Kind of, they liked gentler sex and I guess a small cock would hurt less.

Positives? I have always thought having a huge cock hanging there would have to make you aware of it all the time and probably make you want and think about sex a lot, I could be wrong. But having a small(er) one, I am also a grower not a shower, I tend to forget it is even there a lot of the time.

No, new here not tired of discussion.

 

[NormalMarriedWhiteGuy]

I too have a small cock. I am about 4.5 and only when chemically enhanced these days. I knew from my days in the HS showers and watching porn as a teen that I was undersized when compared to the average guy. Add that to the fact that I am over 6 ft. tall and it makes my cock look even shorter.

I am about to retire from working and though I have never counted, my guestimate is that I have had sex with 30ish different women in my life. Some were one night stands, some were FWB situations and some were LTRs. Just as it is with alot of the women who have replied to your questions, my guestimate is that dick size is not an issue for 90-95 % of the women I was with. (Either that or they were being polite- LOL) I know because back in those days I was very self conscious and would bring it up to them because I needed reassurance. Over the years it has bothered me less and less because I have learned that you don't only have to use only your dick to get a woman off. Tongues, lips. fingers and toys will get her there and the intimacy that it brings means more to them than an 8 inch cock. Plus, they are more willing to suck your cock because they can get in all thier mouth. And hell. what guy doesn't need more blow jobs?

But yeah for a minority of women it is a big issue- no pun intended. I have had a (very) few women tell me outright that they needed more and I just didn't have enough for them. Those are the comments that stung and stuck in my mind but in a painful way. That was a deal breaker and I stopped talking to women like that. I am glad most women aren't like that. My attitude is that if cock size is thier sole criteria then they deserve the guys they end up with.

The last thing I can add is that while it doesn't matter to most women, it matters a lot to gay men. Don't ask me how I know but I know.

 

[van_delay]

Downside for me is that some positions just don't work. A longer cock would allow penetration without wide open direct access.

On the plus side, women's underwear fits better.

 

[Olderwiserstillhorny]

I was once told years ago " It's not what you got, but how you use it. "
Many years later it still works for me.

 

[Plasmaball]

To the ladies:
1) What has been your experience with small cocks? I haven’t been with a lot of guys, but my best sex has been with the two guys who were smaller than the others. My ex-husband is very well endowed, but a lazy lover. My most recent ex and my current partner aren’t as genetically “blessed” in penis size, but they are much more attentive, exciting, creative, etc.

Do you think this had to do with the idea that he thought his large dick would do the work for him?
This seems to be a common theme if so

1a) Has it been positive? Why? Yes, as explained above. Plus my mouth doesn’t get tired during oral and anal is nice.
1b) Has it not been negative? Why? This feels like the same question, lol.
2) If you are a woman who prefers a small cock. Why? I don’t have a preference. I care about the man and his brain and who he is.
3) If you would never have sex with a guy who has a small cock. Why? N/A
4) Honestly; you don't care either way. Why? Already answered
5) Are you tired of this discussion? It’s a discussion that will never go away due to insecurities.

 

[bps]

Been with close to 100 different women and am below average. Quite a few repeat encounters also. I am turned on by fun, kind, funny women not a specific body type. I'd imagine there are women out there that have the same turn on.

a great post. That’s a lot of tail, btw

 

[dodgeboy2]

I'd like to have an honest discussion about this. So often this topic is all about "fake" reassurance, crass humor, or guys with big cocks feeling the need to one up. This isn't what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a mature conversation about this topic. I believe an equivalent discussion is body image for women. If people can talk about this subject with respect and dignity I'm sure we can talk about small cocks with dignity and respect. Obviously you don't have to answer all the questions just giving people something to think about and discuss

For the men:
1) If you have a small cock what has been your experience?
2) Have you had a really negative experience because of your small penis? (don't be rude)
3) Have you had a partner who was looking for or really into small cocks?
4) What has been the positives about having a small cock?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

Lets be mature about this conversation.

Ok so I am a guy with a small guy around 4 1/2" on a good day that includes meds to help me out. So here is my input on the.

1) I have been with both men and women before marrying my wife, been together over 40 years, luckily I married a girl much younger than I and one with at the very most a little pool of guys to compare me with. Only one time during my after high school years did I have one issue was one guy whenever he saw it or touched it always said I had a cute little thing there, but it wasn't a turn off for me.

2) Negative experiences were mainly in my late elementary school & high school years, back in the early to mid 70's guys in the showers & locker rooms could be very brutal and aside from the hurtful things that were said the couple of us that were not so well endowed had many towels snapped at us which isn't fun if you know what I mean!

3) I haven't found anyone into or just looking for small cock, I have had a few with some surprised looks on their face but nobody turned away from it.

4) Positives I have never had one of those omg looks when someone sees it like that "I might choke on it look", well guess that could be both a positive and negative LOL.

5) No not just as having a abnormally huge cock has it's place in discussions so should ones that fall below the normal curve too.

 

[IIXIV]

I'd like to have an honest discussion about this. So often this topic is all about "fake" reassurance, crass humor, or guys with big cocks feeling the need to one up. This isn't what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a mature conversation about this topic. I believe an equivalent discussion is body image for women. If people can talk about this subject with respect and dignity I'm sure we can talk about small cocks with dignity and respect. Obviously you don't have to answer all the questions just giving people something to think about and discuss

To the ladies:
1) What has been your experience with small cocks?
1a) Has it been positive? Why?
1b) Has it not been negative? Why?
2) If you are a woman who prefers a small cock. Why?
3) If you would never have sex with a guy who has a small cock. Why?
4) Honestly; you don't care either way. Why?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

For the men:
1) If you have a small cock what has been your experience?
2) Have you had a really negative experience because of your small penis? (don't be rude)
3) Have you had a partner who was looking for or really into small cocks?
4) What has been the positives about having a small cock?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

Lets be mature about this conversation.

I have a 2.75 inch cock that is 2.25 in circumference hard. The head reaches 7/8ths inch long. You bet I've received the looks and mind changes. And yes I am the best pussy eater.

 

[Domdonordad]

To me, it's about connecting with someone, not necessarily about the specifics of the hardware.

I've been with some smaller sized cocks and still had plenty of fun. Sometimes the mechanics can be a bit different but if you are both into it, you will find a way.

Pro to smaller cocks: easier for blowjobs, especially since I have TMJ and can't open my mouth all the way. I appreciate something a bit smaller.

I think it's worth talking about because many cultures have so many hang-ups about size and performance. We can't really change our automatic thinking unless we challenge it and talk about it.

Well said

 

[IIXIV]

Sometimes it sucks bad. Then I get horny and jerkoff to fantasy of being a cuckold, my gorgeous wife humiliating me with your tiny little dick remarks. Them she opens the door and strides in a tall, big black man totally naked as she tells me no more pussy for me and a chastity cage to shrink my little bitty sick smaller. The she proceeds to slurping and gobbel that giant cock up.

 

[IIXIV]

Ok I’m going to be completely candid and long-winded on this topic, so if you decide to read this entire thing I jovially thank you in advance for joining my “TED” talk. First, regarding cock length, not necessarily width: in my experience with smaller cocks I feel more sexually skilled performing blow jobs on shorter length cocks. It is easier for me to perform the kind of blow jobs that I enjoy when I can physically fit more of a shorter length cock in my mouth and breathe easier through my nose. It makes me feel like I have a better blow job technique. TBH I feel like I’m a bit less sexually coordinated performing blow jobs on thicker and longer cocks. BTW I know my inbox is about to be filled with offers to help me hone my blow job technique. I’ll ask that you only PM me regarding this if you and your cock happen to be in Harrisburg, PA. Please note, I respectfully reserve the right to ignore any PM from anyone who is not able to present their cock to me in person.
Secondly, the negative experience with shorter length cock is that I can’t feel it enter my pussy, which is a major disappointment for me. I personally prefer a longer cock for the sake of my pussy’s need to be filled to my g-spot. However, if my partner with a shorter length cock and I are able to get in a position that allows his cock to reach my g-spot that is preferable, because a shorter cock is less likely to hit my cervix. BTW, please don’t intentionally hit my cervix! A bruised cervix is painful and an immediate turn-off. Also my cervix is where I keep my IUD, thank you.
Thirdly, I would say that I prefer shorter length cock in the context of attempting anal sex. A thicker or longer cock causes me too much physical pain in my ass. BTW, don’t hurt my ass unless I consent to being spanked, thank you. Finally, I would not refuse to have sex with a man based on the single factor of his cock size. The end.

How about one under 3 inches?