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Peaches; do not worry your pretty little head, we would miss you & wait for you to return. Bound, you know we can never get enough of your locing.
 
Hi BoundLife

Your original post touched me very much. I was married to a beautiful man for 13 years until he passed away this Sept. Although my hubby was not in a wheelchair he had no use of his right arm and his right leg had atrophied from polio. He was able to walk but with difficulty. I remember a co-worker that replied , when she found out that we were dating, " How can you date him he is damaged". She was so ignorant. Our sex life was wonderful but of course some adaptability was needed. Even when he was dying of cancer and getting weaker we still had some form of sexual intimacy.
It is such a shame that people are so blind and fearful that they only look at the outer picture.
Last thing I would like to share is that I pursued him and it was pretty aggressive. In fact I think I scared the shit out of him in the beginning. So my thought to you is go ahead and let those in your life know you are looking for a man-lover-whatever and I hope you can find him. Use opportunities like going to water therapy, Drs. appt. etc.
I also agree and have thought myself that people with disabilities need to let the world know that they are sexual too.
Anyway I don't know your personal situation or many details as I am a new member but I sure know that you deserve to be loved and to be sexual. Blessings to you.
 
Well thank you" Please". What bound wrote about not finding porn that represents her really struck home for me. I remember thinking the exact thoughts. I should also mention that not only was my husband handicapped but he was also 20 years my senior and 5' 4 inches tall and I am 5'6 inches tall.But what a cute ass. Plus you can't imagine what he could so with only one hand. Sexually and other skills.
 
Well, indeed

It only takes one hand. A question; were you and he in love before he was handicapped, or did you fall in love with a handicapped person?
 
He had polio in 1941, 19 years before I was born. Spent 5 years in hospital as a child. Oh and I forgot how tall I am, I am 5' 7 inches. I was 38 yrs old when we got married and he was 58 but he looked like he was 50.

I just never saw him as disabled. That cute ass of his probably distracted me. Actually I feel in love with him because of his heart and loving nature. And once we fucked I was never going to let him go.
 
WynneWynneLife said:
Your original post touched me very much. I was married to a beautiful man for 13 years until he passed away this Sept. Although my hubby was not in a wheelchair he had no use of his right arm and his right leg had atrophied from polio. He was able to walk but with difficulty. I remember a co-worker that replied , when she found out that we were dating, " How can you date him he is damaged". She was so ignorant. Our sex life was wonderful but of course some adaptability was needed. Even when he was dying of cancer and getting weaker we still had some form of sexual intimacy.
It is such a shame that people are so blind and fearful that they only look at the outer picture.
Last thing I would like to share is that I pursued him and it was pretty aggressive. In fact I think I scared the shit out of him in the beginning. So my thought to you is go ahead and let those in your life know you are looking for a man-lover-whatever and I hope you can find him. Use opportunities like going to water therapy, Drs. appt. etc.
I also agree and have thought myself that people with disabilities need to let the world know that they are sexual too.
Anyway I don't know your personal situation or many details as I am a new member but I sure know that you deserve to be loved and to be sexual. Blessings to you.
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I am so dreadfully sorry to hear of your loss - thank you for sharing your story - the world needs more loving, clear-sighted people such as you:rose:
 
Thank you Peaches, I miss him terribly. I hope you are having a good morning?

Silly me I have been up all night now I have to get some sleep. That is hard to do after being on this site. LOL Everyone have a great day.
 
WynneWynneLife said:
Thank you Peaches, I miss him terribly. I hope you are having a good morning?

Silly me I have been up all night now I have to get some sleep. That is hard to do after being on this site. LOL Everyone have a great day.
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Sleep well hon' I'm sure you do miss him! Welcome to LitE:rose:
 
WynneWynneLife said:
Your original post touched me very much. I was married to a beautiful man for 13 years until he passed away this Sept. Although my hubby was not in a wheelchair he had no use of his right arm and his right leg had atrophied from polio. He was able to walk but with difficulty. I remember a co-worker that replied , when she found out that we were dating, " How can you date him he is damaged". She was so ignorant. Our sex life was wonderful but of course some adaptability was needed. Even when he was dying of cancer and getting weaker we still had some form of sexual intimacy.
It is such a shame that people are so blind and fearful that they only look at the outer picture.
Last thing I would like to share is that I pursued him and it was pretty aggressive. In fact I think I scared the shit out of him in the beginning. So my thought to you is go ahead and let those in your life know you are looking for a man-lover-whatever and I hope you can find him. Use opportunities like going to water therapy, Drs. appt. etc.
I also agree and have thought myself that people with disabilities need to let the world know that they are sexual too.
Anyway I don't know your personal situation or many details as I am a new member but I sure know that you deserve to be loved and to be sexual. Blessings to you.
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Thank you:rose: and welcome to Lit:D
Truthfully, because I have realized I can have a caring sexual relationship, all the feelings of hurt caused by burying that part of me are coming up too. I've found Lit a safe place to vent:eek:

{You must be a special person to see how special a person your husband was:heart:}
 
Boundlife said:
Thank you:rose: and welcome to Lit:D
Truthfully, because I have realized I can have a caring sexual relationship, all the feelings of hurt caused by burying that part of me are coming up too. I've found Lit a safe place to vent:eek:

{You must be a special person to see how special a person your husband was:heart:}
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BOund you know a whole bunch of us would come & "kidnap" you for a wild time. If it wans't against the law etc.
 
Perhaps if having sex with handicapped people (apologies for the poor choice of wording here) was illegal or considered immoral, there would be more interest in it. Sort of tongue-in-cheek here, but I think that drives a lot of people's interest in "sex" in general. Especially those of the 14-yr old boy mindset, which I think is the primary audience of porn, at least from a financially-motivated viewpoint.

The problem is that there *isn't* anything shameful or embarrassing about it, and those feelings are closely tied into what you're seeing as more interesting.

If it's any help, I don't consider myself in the generally "attractive" category -- along several factors -- and I get the same feeling from porn as well: that it doesn't represent something that I am capable of doing, either because of opportunity or natural ability. I don't watch because my boobs are double-Ds or because my dick is 11" long, etc.

I’m frustrated in too many ways to count…Having it so hidden, says that because who I am physically, a sexual relationship with me is extremely kinky, super freaky, and so taboo even the internet pushes it into a corner
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Your feeling is just like the rest of us I'm afraid...those who haven't found what we need. I don't agree with your "super freaky" conclusion, but I can understand, I think, where your coming from otherwise.

Honestly though, I've seen so many kinks on the Internet, that I'm quite surprised that someone who needs a 'bound' girl that they can take care of isn't out there searching for you, and given the odds, probably several men...assuming a man is what you're looking for. I personally considered the idea at one time years ago, but couldn't get past the feeling of pushing my kink onto someone who was in the situation (in a wheelchair) involuntarily. I wasn't quite sure how "I love you because you wear diapers and I have to change you and wipe your ass" would sound. Unfortunately I didn't have the courage to try.

But your question was about porn, and not about finding a lover, and I don't think the genre is going to pick up anytime soon in that industry. The "skinny unattractive guys with average dicks" category isn't either.

Please accept a hug from a stranger who would enjoy worshiping your beautiful body - from what I've seen anyway ;)

And if I've said something wrong to upset you, then please say so, so that I can apologize.

:rose:
 
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