Anal Intercourse: yea or nay

[Milkrunner]

Well, I just had my first anal experience with my new GF. We've been together for about 8 months, the sex is incredible and last night she pulled me out mid thrust and just pointed me into her ass like it was nothing... Bit of a happy surprise but what really shocked me was when she said.

"I want you to cum in my tight little ass."

And she never talks dirty, ever.

It was also the most intense orgasm she's ever had with me.. no idea where all of this is going but I'm the last guy in the world to complain.

Amazing.

 

[Astaylith]

The short answer is no

The long answer is fuck no, not being venomous, just honest.

I respect and understand that many people get pleasure from it, but it's something that has never appealed to me sexually. It's about 10% "Ick factor" (thank you for putting that so eloquently, MsQuote) and 90% I don't want anything in my anus that isn't bodily waste, it's a one-way street, 0 negotiation. I've never tried it and I don't intend to. Does that make me "frigid"? I don't think so, I just know what I want and what I don't want. It does annoy me when people tell me I should "give it a try and not knock it 'til I try it". I've never stuck my hand into a wood chipper either, and I don't need to try that to know I won't like it.

 

[kelloveslit]

love it

After thinking for most of my life that it was gross and weird, one of my friends mentioned she liked it. I started touching down there to see what it felt like, eventually asking my hub to do the same. He would rub outside during foreplay and sex, and it felt so good! One night I told him I wanted more, so he used his fingers; all I could imagine after that was his cock in my ass. After sticking with fingers for a couple weeks, I got the nerve to ask for the real thing; hub was prepared with a quality lube,and he was slow and careful. He finally got it in, and I came in a matter of seconds. He popped soon after, and the sensation was interesting. I knew I wanted to do it again (and again). Hub isn't a big fan (I'm the one who asks for it), but he indulges me as I give him his kinks too. Now, just about every session involves my ass-no always penetration, but touching and fingering, even a lick or two. I love it and make no apologies for my desire. It feels good to me, but I respect those who aren't interested or don't like the feeling.

 

[satin_and_lace]

I used to be in the 'hell no to anal' category until a few weeks ago. During Foreplay my bf started rubbing my asshole through my panties. It felt so good, I kept on grinding against his hand. Slowly we started getting more adventurous and he'd start sticking a finger inside and would finger my asshole. It makes my pussy so wet that the sex would be amazing. Now I love a finger in my ass while he's fucking me from behind and I'm excited to buy some toys and progress to full out anal

 

[Jessika_Femme]

NO. There is no way in hell anyone is going in my back door.

 

[Z924M]

yea or nay???

oh yea!!!

 

[Puffynsweet]

a definite yeah!!!

 

[raekiel]

Giving or receiving? I haven't done either, but I'm interested in trying both out with the right partner.

 

[Ike_The_Spike]

I know the OP said for the women, but I love to be on the receiving end of anal. I've never really been on the other end of it.

 

[CBM514]

Both giving and receiving it are great...but in different ways

 

[lemmesee]

I was pondering your question....and considering my feelings and position on the subject....when I absolutely got lost in your avatar, if you get my drift ;-) ....I'll have to come back and answer the question another time

In my experience, when done properly can be quite pleasurable. Done wrong it's just a pain in the ass.... What do you think ladies? Guys, we all know you (many of you) "love to pound that ass". This question is for the girls.

 

[Parkwild]

a definite yeah!!!

Good to know.

 

[klippert]

YEA....Mrs has finally admitted to me. She really ReALLy likes Anal. Fingers, tongue, toys and especially my cock.
When we were dating she let me take her anal virginity (is that a cliche). Then several anal experiences where she had a mind numbing orgasm... For whatever reason...I can't explain. She stopped letting me in her ass... fingers on the rim...that was it...

In this past yr. I started sending her erotic txt's, images. and emailing her .Gif files... one was a hot fucking .gif file, my thrill, are her responses. she replied..."that was nice, been hotter if he was up her 'A'.....

From then on...I started sending her anal pix..then a .gif, reply...."OH that is HOT, Sizzle"...up to date, we have slowly gone from playing with her ass..to fingering her, fingers in her ass and pussy....to a deep anal fuck just the other night...

When we talked about her re-kindled anal pleasure....I was curious as-too why we stopped...Mrs k has never been one for expressing her feelings (up bringing). she said; After giving birth, she did lose her sex drive. Got it back, but (no pun), started feeling embarrassed about her anal pleasure... Their was more to it...but, that's for another time...

Big Yea for us...heck, I'm willing to let the mrs give it too me with a strap-on

 

[MatveiPavlovitch]

I do anal but without enthusiasm

I do anal sex if the woman want's it. but I'm not a great fun of it. I had once a very bad lover, whose vagina was tight but soft and absolutely boring. She was a very troublesome lady. When I do anal sex, I remember always that unpleasant lady, whose vagina was like anus. It makes me uneasy.

 

[CBM514]

I do anal sex if the woman want's it. but I'm not a great fun of it. I had once a very bad lover, whose vagina was tight but soft and absolutely boring. She was a very troublesome lady. When I do anal sex, I remember always that unpleasant lady, whose vagina was like anus. It makes me uneasy.

I can 100% say that anal feels nothing like vag sex to me...very different in almost every way

 

[stlman22]

I love it. But just as a treat. When you get sex consistently, it is nice to have something special every now and then. It took a while of my slipping a finger in her ass during regular sex before she would entertain the idea. She would playfully fight me when I would slip the finger in, but I could tell it was because she was embarrassed that she liked it. Now we have anal sex probably two or three times a month. As we aren't married and not looking to get pregnant, it is a great to be able to cum in her instead of on her.

 

[CBM514]

I'll agree with that first part! It's a regular part of our "line up" for sure but we do save it enough to keep it "special" if that makes sense?

 

[shewantsmore]

i totally love it.Its so different to normal sex and ive been a fan of anal since my teens.True ive had both good and bad experiences but its not but me off

 

[MatveiPavlovitch]

Size problem

Anal sex has been difficult to me because of the size problem. I love women, I don't want to make them cry. It is not nice to hurt a lady. I have to admit, that I do it with some reluctance. I'm always very worried not to hurt and remembering that bad lady friend I once had.

Some women like it, it is true. But for me it is very hard to do it without causing injuries, so I prefer the old way.

 

[Humbert_Humbert]

I like the old joke about it that goes, "Some people like anal intercourse and some people don't. People don't like it because it's painful, dirty, humiliating and it makes you feel dominated and used. Other people like it ...for exactly the same reasons."

 

[DarkPleasures]

Anal is something I've struggled with. In theory (and in the brain) it's fun. With a finger, it's enjoyable. With a cock, it's nearly impossible. Though I have experience in pain=pleasure, and various aspects of Sadomasochism, oftentimes anal is a "bad pain"; as I've grown to describe it. I struggle taking an average cock anally. There is no way in hell I could ever take an above average one.

Yes, there is always plenty of lube. Yes, my partner is a patient man and understands the added difficulty with anal. In the beginning of our relationship I was able to give it to him; a first for him. We have had it a few-ish times now, but in all of our attempts it has only successfully worked a handful of times. Also, I know my body is relaxed and "ready", per se, as I always use a buzzer on my clit for added stimulus.

It's just one of those things that happen to be an enigma in my life.

 

[LoveHerNow]

I tend to favor anal above any other sexual act. Over the years I've heard lots of people (both male & female) state that anal turns then off and even grosses them out. What?!? This saddens me! I think if done right it can be sooo good!

Totally agree! When done right....love it!

 

[redpan]

oh yes...giving and receiving!

 

[carol_will1]

Done properly it's quite pleasurable.

 

[jakediamond550]

something new for us

My wife and I are just experimenting with anal sex.

Early in our relationship she offered me her anal virginity, probably because she wanted me to have a "first" Even though I took it slow I hurt her. Despite the pain she came, twice, but she has not allowed me in there since.

Lately, I've been slowly re introducing anal to our love making, licking her when eating her, placing my finger on her anus or even penetrating her when fucking her from behind.

Last week she gave me a signal she wants more, she purchased a new toy ..no mistake what the smaller cock is for. When she showed me what she bought I just about came in my pants. I love my wife and how she keeps our sex life alive.