Anal sex for women... ??

hi

my ex guy liked anal mostly and I am used to it now. In fact it is better than normal for me.
 
there is nothing like a discussion of anal play to start out the morning. *sips first cup of coffee* i used to swear i would never have anal sex, but.... yeah. that didn't last. the first handful of times, it was pretty painful. :D yep. i was hooked. i have anal sex a couple of times a month, and enjoy it very much now. there is nothing like the feeling of having your ass fucked while being fingered. i love it. it's like a switch being flipped. i just go fucking crazy. hmmmmm... yes. anal is good. i think someone mentioned earlier about it being a very submissive act, and i completely agree with that. shoulders on the bed, ass in the air, breathing calmly to relax the muscles, arch of back pressed down, cock inserted, pain and pleasure running through body, gripping of hips, then the fucking. phew. good morning!
 
Well Shysweet and neci_please_me are killing me with their enthusiasm. I am still dreaming (literally) of a first time anal experience, I can almost feel the sensation as the head of my cock would slip past the resistance of the anal sphinceter, slowly bearing down a bit as she rocks her ass back onto my giggle stick... it's surreal. Then I ususally wake up, at times I'm even covered with a load of nocturnal emission!

One day I swear, she's gonna describe it like neci_please_me does... or I'm just going to tell he I am looking for a woman who'll let me take her ass... that outa do it!
 
I am revisiting my quest. Having read some of the posts again I think women want us men to drive the bus. If we don't take it, we don't get it.

Now, what lube should I get. I've seen some specifically for anal. Don't want that sitting out on the counter when the inlaws visit. Would be too redneck.

If women want us to drive the bus I guess I should just be direct and say I want it and I am going for it later tonite... prep yourself accordingly. Perhaps less lead time is better.

hmmm.. pondering the approach shot! ;-)
 
I am new - sorry if I am barging in, but if I may, i love anal. Here's what got me to crave it. Start the evening off with a little wine. You don't want to be smashed but a relaxed is good. During foreplay, start touching her anus a little, first with your finger. Eventually penetrate it a little.

After that initial penetration, I desperately wanted more. Hope it goes that way for you.

I saw a video where the couple had planned it, and he used a small vibe before actually mounting her. I think that might help her comfort level.
 
So, do you do it?definitely yes

Do you enjoy it? Candid reply please! again definitely yes

Did you come to enjoy it or was it a hit to start. Loved it from the beginning but then the guy who initiated me into its pleasures knew what he was doing.
 
So, do you do it?(Y/N) - Not as much as I would like (hubby doesn't enjoy giving as much as i enjoy receiving)

Do you enjoy it? Candid reply please! (Y/N) - I love it (for many different reasons)

Did you come to enjoy it or was it a hit to start - hmmm, the first few times were when he didn't know what he was doing, and I didn't either actually; so I supposed my answer is "come to enjoy it."
 
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