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That's a step in itself - do the friends know about Sissy Hub?

A few more friends have commented to me or Hubby about his 'look' lately. In a couple cases (both women), he has outed himself... once as a "sissy" and once as a cross-dresser (no sexual connotation). To their credit, both appear to have taken the news well and haven't changed how they act around us.

But in general, he isn't telling people and most days he wears sufficient guy clothes to not reveal himself. If someone picks up on his panty-lines or a garter clip bump, they don't appear to say anything.

Sometimes the journey SH seems to be on is about taking a series of steps, steps which can't be untaken, and progressively lead to an endpoint - Telling you (huge first step); dressing for you; dressing femme full time; Sissy sex with you; Sissy sex with a third; going out as Sissy (think you did that at a Con?)

You are correct that this is moving forward in stages. He has dressed as a woman in public a few times now though the Halloween party will be with at least a few people we know whereas previously we were away from home and in places with strangers.

There is definitely an aspect of "can't take it back" steps. When he started taking the herbal hormones, that was a big step. Throwing out all his male underwear was a big step. Not exactly irreversible but it was very emotional and powerful.

How are you with it?

Long discussions, therapy, etc. I support his journey. I know this is more than just a sex thing for him. It has big implications for his personality, his happiness, his self-confidence. It is also a big sex thing and since we're probably both clinical sex addicts, I can appreciate that as well.

Does anyone (friends) know about your lesbian lover? Would people knowing be a problem?

No one but Hubby knows about her. Well, except her roommate. It wouldn't be a legal issue since she is not in my classes anymore but I'm sure many people would not understand my marriage and how I can be in a relationship with her as well. So I don't plan to advertise.

FWIW, I think it is a good idea to take it all to your therapist, and that you are doing incredibly well to cope against the backdrop of your mother. Is your GF being understanding about the (presumed) lack of attention, as you are so committed physically and emotionally with your mother?

We see our therapist together once a week and separately once a week.

My girlfriend is so understanding, just makes me love her more. More on that in a moment...
 
My girlfriend has been very supportive the last few weeks as I deal with the issues with my mother's health. She also knows that I need sexual relief even when I can't seem to find time to see her or make it happen. Knowing when my office hours are, she did the following for me...


She was trying to get my mind off real-world worries and I was glad that she did. She slowly texted me a series of pictures.

1. Her apartment building has a sort of lobby lounge area where residents can hang out. Her first picture was a selfie there and I could see others nearby her studying or talking. She looked very sexy. "Lock your office door.

2. Another selfie, this time of her in the hallway by her apartment, smiling naughty. "Get comfortable."

3. Now inside her apartment, she set her phone up on a counter or something and posed for me, hands on hips. "Are you ready?"

4. Unbuttoning her blouse, already seeing some of her breasts. (Oh I should mention that she dressed up the way I like just for me: blouse, short skirt, satiny undies). "Do what I do..." So I unbuttoned my top.

5. She is pulling her blouse off her arms, leaving her in red satin bra, skirt, etc. "Off with it." I took my top off.

6. Next image she was turned away from me, teasing her skirt down over her satin panty covered bottom. "Take it off, honey." I stood and stepped out of my skirt and sat. I was pretty aroused by this point.

7. She was wearing a garter belt I'd bought her and thigh highs. Her fingers were on top of her panties on her pussy. "Rub a dub dub..." I started to massage my pussy through my own panties.

8. Her fingers slipped into her panties. "Are you as wet as I am?"

9. Glistening finger. "Slip one inside and taste yourself." I complied, sucking my finger clean of my juices.

10. Hand deep in her panties, clearly with fingers inside herself. "Feel me fingering you..." I followed along eagerly.

11. Close up, her panties pulled down a little, thumb rubbing her clit. "Oh god..." I did it too and came almost immediately.

12. A close up of her flushed face, obviously post-orgasm. "Love you..."

At that point, I called her as I got dressed and I returned the sentiment (I told her I loved her). It wasn't the first time but each time is still very powerful as we have only recently said it to each other.
 
This is amazingly erotic...do you have any idea what this has done to me?
Hehe, I am sure you know. My panties are so wet. :heart:
 
My girlfriend has been very supportive the last few weeks as I deal with the issues with my mother's health. She also knows that I need sexual relief even when I can't seem to find time to see her or make it happen. Knowing when my office hours are, she did the following for me...


She was trying to get my mind off real-world worries and I was glad that she did. She slowly texted me a series of pictures.

1. Her apartment building has a sort of lobby lounge area where residents can hang out. Her first picture was a selfie there and I could see others nearby her studying or talking. She looked very sexy. "Lock your office door.

2. Another selfie, this time of her in the hallway by her apartment, smiling naughty. "Get comfortable."

3. Now inside her apartment, she set her phone up on a counter or something and posed for me, hands on hips. "Are you ready?"

4. Unbuttoning her blouse, already seeing some of her breasts. (Oh I should mention that she dressed up the way I like just for me: blouse, short skirt, satiny undies). "Do what I do..." So I unbuttoned my top.

5. She is pulling her blouse off her arms, leaving her in red satin bra, skirt, etc. "Off with it." I took my top off.

6. Next image she was turned away from me, teasing her skirt down over her satin panty covered bottom. "Take it off, honey." I stood and stepped out of my skirt and sat. I was pretty aroused by this point.

7. She was wearing a garter belt I'd bought her and thigh highs. Her fingers were on top of her panties on her pussy. "Rub a dub dub..." I started to massage my pussy through my own panties.

8. Her fingers slipped into her panties. "Are you as wet as I am?"

9. Glistening finger. "Slip one inside and taste yourself." I complied, sucking my finger clean of my juices.

10. Hand deep in her panties, clearly with fingers inside herself. "Feel me fingering you..." I followed along eagerly.

11. Close up, her panties pulled down a little, thumb rubbing her clit. "Oh god..." I did it too and came almost immediately.

12. A close up of her flushed face, obviously post-orgasm. "Love you..."

At that point, I called her as I got dressed and I returned the sentiment (I told her I loved her). It wasn't the first time but each time is still very powerful as we have only recently said it to each other.


Wow so very sensual, It's good to be you. Needless to say you needed that.....
 
Well Annie...

My girlfriend has been very supportive the last few weeks as I deal with the issues with my mother's health. She also knows that I need sexual relief even when I can't seem to find time to see her or make it happen. Knowing when my office hours are, she did the following for me...


She was trying to get my mind off real-world worries and I was glad that she did. She slowly texted me a series of pictures.

1. Her apartment building has a sort of lobby lounge area where residents can hang out. Her first picture was a selfie there and I could see others nearby her studying or talking. She looked very sexy. "Lock your office door.

2. Another selfie, this time of her in the hallway by her apartment, smiling naughty. "Get comfortable."

3. Now inside her apartment, she set her phone up on a counter or something and posed for me, hands on hips. "Are you ready?"

4. Unbuttoning her blouse, already seeing some of her breasts. (Oh I should mention that she dressed up the way I like just for me: blouse, short skirt, satiny undies). "Do what I do..." So I unbuttoned my top.

5. She is pulling her blouse off her arms, leaving her in red satin bra, skirt, etc. "Off with it." I took my top off.

6. Next image she was turned away from me, teasing her skirt down over her satin panty covered bottom. "Take it off, honey." I stood and stepped out of my skirt and sat. I was pretty aroused by this point.

7. She was wearing a garter belt I'd bought her and thigh highs. Her fingers were on top of her panties on her pussy. "Rub a dub dub..." I started to massage my pussy through my own panties.

8. Her fingers slipped into her panties. "Are you as wet as I am?"

9. Glistening finger. "Slip one inside and taste yourself." I complied, sucking my finger clean of my juices.

10. Hand deep in her panties, clearly with fingers inside herself. "Feel me fingering you..." I followed along eagerly.

11. Close up, her panties pulled down a little, thumb rubbing her clit. "Oh god..." I did it too and came almost immediately.

12. A close up of her flushed face, obviously post-orgasm. "Love you..."

At that point, I called her as I got dressed and I returned the sentiment (I told her I loved her). It wasn't the first time but each time is still very powerful as we have only recently said it to each other.


What a peach of a GF! One of my lovers had a mama die, got on Rx for depression, took in a nutcase dog, and was on this psychotropic drug for 10 years, all supposedly due to the death of her mama.
 
Mmmmm those are very nice. I'd love to be made to wear a pair like that myself. :D

Imagine being told by a beautiful woman to pull down that zipper and expose you as a slutty panty wearing sissy. I think she'd have to push you down and treat you like you apparently want to be treated... pulling those panties to the side and getting a big thick strapon to make you feel like a total girl!

(Yep, being away from Lit means I have lots of pent-up sex energy...)
 

Such a sexy description of your GF texting... I would say one pair is not sufficient!

On a more real life note I lost both parents within 5 months of each other in 2018, and it rather focuses the mind on what is important and who. Be good to yourself, allow time to let of steam and anger and all that goes with this stuff. I kept dropping onto Lit throughout the year as it helped to get away and be back to Lucy again... I wish you well
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Imagine being told by a beautiful woman to pull down that zipper and expose you as a slutty panty wearing sissy. I think she'd have to push you down and treat you like you apparently want to be treated... pulling those panties to the side and getting a big thick strapon to make you feel like a total girl!

(Yep, being away from Lit means I have lots of pent-up sex energy...)

Come on then... beautiful woman.... am all yours :devil::):kiss:
 
Imagine being told by a beautiful woman to pull down that zipper and expose you as a slutty panty wearing sissy. I think she'd have to push you down and treat you like you apparently want to be treated... pulling those panties to the side and getting a big thick strapon to make you feel like a total girl!

(Yep, being away from Lit means I have lots of pent-up sex energy...)

Oh, yes, Maam. I hope so. I'd love to be dressed like that and be told that I am to make that zipper available to any guest that wants in. Then be led out into a room full of both men and women. I'm wet just thinking about it. :)
 
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Got a pair of "C"s in my jeans pocket. Guess my wifey put them there for me (who else lol).
The question is should I put them on right as I came to work or rather wait for her to tell me to?
 
Got a pair of "C"s in my jeans pocket. Guess my wifey put them there for me (who else lol).
The question is should I put them on right as I came to work or rather wait for her to tell me to?
Do you want her to dominate you? Do you want to submit to her?
The purpose of a sub is to please his/her dom by being obedient and doing whatever it is he/she commands.
Brownie points if you anticipate his/her desires.
If it were me I would put them on without being told. She obviously expects you to wear them else why would she put them in your pocket?
 
Mistress prefers that I wear H in the day time. Because that cut in plain red, blue, green, gray, or black, are "passable"should an unknowing male coworker happen to see them in the restroom, there are no questions.

At night, I can wear my lace, thongs, and flowers for her. She has had me wear the flowers in the daytime, with orders to only pee like a girl.

She's getting my cage this week and has threatened to make me wear only that and my plug to work as a punishment. But so far...

Depends how mean a mood she's in. :D
 
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