Any new(ish) subs/slaves or even Dom/mes out there?

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Hi SS21

Nice AV by the way - have you read the book?
I am also brand new to the BDSM realm. My husband and I are still 'playing with our roles and limits' so for now I guess that pretty much makes me switch. Lit is an excellent spot for info, ideas and support. Welcome.
 
the lifestyle

I recently was reaquainted with the BDSM lifestyle... I had met a dom who I fell deeply for. He collared me and was pushing me into the depths I wanted to be in for so long, only problem is we were both married to someone else.. and now he came to me and told me his wife wants to play with him and he needed to focus on only one sub... so I am left to fend myself. I told him I will not seek out another Dom. I will not collar to anyone. I was hoping by making this post it will make me feel better. I allowed him to mark me very hard last night and then today this news. I have so many thoughts running through my head... it is all a blur at times.. well thanks for letting me blab......
 
SubKekiLee said:
I recently was reaquainted with the BDSM lifestyle... I had met a dom who I fell deeply for. He collared me and was pushing me into the depths I wanted to be in for so long, only problem is we were both married to someone else.. and now he came to me and told me his wife wants to play with him and he needed to focus on only one sub... so I am left to fend myself. I told him I will not seek out another Dom. I will not collar to anyone. I was hoping by making this post it will make me feel better. I allowed him to mark me very hard last night and then today this news. I have so many thoughts running through my head... it is all a blur at times.. well thanks for letting me blab......

Hi SubKekiLee
Does your husband not participate at all?

I guess this sorta thing is a thread on it's own.... 'when you get attached to the 3rd party'. Then again, I couldn't imagine NOT being emotionally involved with your Dom/me. I guess adding 'marriage to others' into the mix can get really complicated... mmm... perhaps you should start a thread on this?
 
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Puman said:
Hi SubKekiLee
Does your husband not participate at all?

I guess this sorta thing is a thread on it's own.... 'when you get attached to the 3rd party'. Then again, I couldn't imagine NOT being emotionally involved with your Dom/me. I guess adding 'marriage to others' into the mix can get really complicated... mmm... perhaps you should start a thread on this?


There is a thread on "marriage to others" that I started a little while ago. I am very emotionally involved with my Dom, but it doesn't lessen how much I love my husband.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=521758
 
I am new to the scene too...and having recently lost my first Dom to a job transfer...find myself...feeling a bit unprotected, lonley, and searching for something...someone...to make me His.
 
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