Any other girls get turned on by Alpha Males that display dominance over other men?

[Licia]

Opinion:

Humility is what makes an alpha man sexy. The fact that he can actually use his brain/compassion to interact decently with another human being when it's easier to rule by threat of violence or fear is hot, hot, hot! Personally, I find men who are bullies to be absolutely revolting and fully insecure as a gender. Bullies are betas not alphas.

 

[CaliGuy60]

Opinion:

Humility is what makes an alpha man sexy. The fact that he can actually use his brain/compassion to interact decently with another human being when it's easier to rule by threat of violence or fear is hot, hot, hot! Personally, I find men who are bullies to be absolutely revolting and fully insecure as a gender. Bullies are betas not alphas.

+1, very good point. Force ultimately does not work.

 

[LindsayRae]

I find men who are bullies to be absolutely revolting and fully insecure as a gender. Bullies are betas not alphas.

Beautifully said. They are cowards.

 

[zhelp]

I think I remember reading somewhere a while back something about it being in women's nature to go for the alpha male's
this could easily explain your arousal.

I think it goes back to the hunter-gatherer days.
Cock Star44 said it well with

but all women definatley want their men to be protectors first and foremost

not to stereotype or anything.

Opinion:

Humility is what makes an alpha man sexy. The fact that he can actually use his brain/compassion to interact decently with another human being when it's easier to rule by threat of violence or fear is hot, hot, hot! Personally, I find men who are bullies to be absolutely revolting and fully insecure as a gender. Bullies are betas not alphas.

well said indeed.

 

[vixtoria57]

nope, can't stand them...not in the least, and I completely agree with the above comments regarding bullies being insecure

all the men in my family are the alpha type you describe...can't bear being around any of them...I can't fantasize about that type because I'm spoiled about the reality of day to day living with them

I'm also not really into rough sex...passionate...but not rough...There was an episode of Weeds that all my friends were hot and bothered over: did NOTHING for me

but I'm also too much an alpha female to stand anyone dominating me

 

[CandiCame]

yes I know it's sick... but the fact of the matter is I was very turned on at the whole thing, the complete display of dominance, the sex, the power. I can't deny that as wrong and bad as this all sounds...

Don't feel bad about it- I have those fantasies to; that's actually how I found out I was bi- I know that there's a lot of fem-dom stuff out there, but... I dunno, something about being absolutely forced by a guy always got me rock hard. I love dominant men; don't think it's just a chick thing.

Opinion:

Humility is what makes an alpha man sexy. The fact that he can actually use his brain/compassion to interact decently with another human being when it's easier to rule by threat of violence or fear is hot, hot, hot! Personally, I find men who are bullies to be absolutely revolting and fully insecure as a gender. Bullies are betas not alphas.

Gonna agree with this to- I like the alpha stuff- in the bedroom. As soon as they turn it on I go into cock-whore mode, so it's really hard to get into a fight; plus, I can't be bullied- it's not in my nature. I can't make myself care enough; so once the guy/girl (and I've been with some controlling women to) start the bullying, I get disinterested in the entire relationship. And I'm really forward to, so I usually just out and say, "Well, this was nice, but you're being a dick, so, you know, bye. Shape up or ship out."

 

[RjThoughts]

There is a difference between Alpha Male and a bully. This high school kid was a bully, pure and simple. Nothing more. An Alpha does NOT need violence to show his dominance. It makes me wonder what insecurities he had.

And rape is NEVER sexy!

 

[LindsayRae]

And rape is NEVER sexy!

Amen.

 

[justherhusband]

Of course women are attracted to guys at the top of the food chain. Its all about having the strongest and most powerful offspring.

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These guys are so NOT at the top of the food chain. Maybe 1,000 years ago they may have been. But today's "food chain" is based on intellect and social skills. These guys tend to be middle managers at best. And even then I've seen many exposed as the morons they are.

But I do understand the fantasy and arousal aspects of it. You can't help what turns you on. It just does...

 

[Stella_Omega]

here is one of those men: hard drinking, hard partying, a violent bully with a voice that can break your eardrums-- on the days he can get it out of his throat-- and words that will break your heart:

Shane MacGowan of the Pogues.

The newer pics of him will turn your stomach.

 

[CandiCame]

here is one of those men: hard drinking, hard partying, a violent bully with a voice that can break your eardrums-- on the days he can get it out of his throat-- and words that will break your heart:

Shane MacGowan of the Pogues.

The newer pics of him will turn your stomach.

Damn it Stella- there went my erection!

 

[SweetCandyApples]

Alpha Males and Bullies - yum!

I just love the story which began this thread. This is a main erotic fantasy of mine - being the girl that gets the bully. I find bullying extremely attractive - both verbally and physically. I love to see a man put another man in his place, and to be the cause of extreme humiliation. I would love to be in the crowd as a bully beats another man viciously and then claims me as his prize.

 

[AlyssaF]

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[Amalec]

Shorter: you dated kids with no backbone and got off when they got kicked around? Not judging or anything, we've all got our kinks, but that puts me off...
In fairness, I have a hard time feeling bad for a guy who'd sit down and shut up and let you be what he would have thought was raped.

I remember high school, and there was a big difference between the bullies and the alphas. The bullies were the ones who yelled and screamed and fought and, yeah, generally fucked whatever girl would have them or got too drunk to say no.

The alphas were the guys who picked whichever girl they wanted, who shut everyone up by speaking because everyone wanted to know what they'd say, and who the bullies pretended didn't exist and didn't cross.

If a woman isn't that attractive then she may be the exception.

Did you actually just say this?

 

[BossySon21a]

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These guys are so NOT at the top of the food chain. Maybe 1,000 years ago they may have been. But today's "food chain" is based on intellect and social skills. These guys tend to be middle managers at best. And even then I've seen many exposed as the morons they are.

But I do understand the fantasy and arousal aspects of it. You can't help what turns you on. It just does...

True, but you sure can control what you do about it. Think about it this way: if the OP had commented that he (in the case of a guy) just had to screw the 20 year old in the bikini, he just couldn't help it that his middle-aged wife or girlfriend no longer turned him on...would that generate any sympathy? It's no different than dumping her boyfriend because he lost a fight, or being willing to have sex with the guy who beat him up.

(In fact, the dumped one probably came out ahead on that deal, but I'm sure it doesn't feel that way in the short term.)

Assuming this whole thing is on the level, of course.

 

[Arogo]

I noticed that most guys who need to act "alpha male" are usually insecure about something.

Kinda like bullies.