Anyone else having sex with a married person...?

Have been with a few married women. Doesn't matter to me if they are married or not. I am all good with that.
 
I've had sex with several married men through the years. Like you said I think the key thing though is to realize that it's sex. I am not looking to replace their wife or looking to be their next one most times. Sometimes it has come down to ending up just being friends and other times there is that final goodbye and it is over.

It sounds like sex with your ex sucked and sex with this new guy rocks. However you both know it is just sex and not anything long term atm. There are other men out there gifted in having sex as well so you have a good chance of finding someone that can make you come as well. The long term friendship you have with this new man I think does add to the excitement so hopefully you can remain friends or maybe even fuck buddies.
 
hey...

the only married person I'm having sex with at the present, in a very broad sense is my wife...but have had sex with married women before that almost cost me my life more than twice.
 
I usually have sex with married men. They are already in a relationship so there's no strings attached. I feel like they are not likely to have stds. And it's a turn on think that they are risking their marriage to have sex with me. I've been with atjeast 12 married men since I've been married myself. 3 before I was married.
 
I usually have sex with married men. They are already in a relationship so there's no strings attached. I feel like they are not likely to have stds. And it's a turn on think that they are risking their marriage to have sex with me. I've been with atjeast 12 married men since I've been married myself. 3 before I was married.

My thoughts exactly. I would prefer my wife’s next lover (and all future actually) to be married. That way I know he’ll keep his sex with my wife on the downlow. And he won’t be looking to cause any drama in our marriage. And you make a great point about STDs. My wife hates condoms and he’d have a better chance of being clean. So he can fuck her bare!
 
I am currently in a relationship with a married man but since he is spending the winter in AZ and his wife is in NY, I do not think that I am disturbing their relationship. Generally I would stay away from married men just because I prefer to avoid drama.
 
Travel is my only way to meet others for sex without worrying. During the covid lockdown and the year following that, my flying for work stopped. Just before the lockdown I had sex with one of my coworkers. Since I couldn't travel, we kind of became regular and we developed feelings. I'm a polygamist at heart so I don't freak out by feelings. Sex makes me emotional and during the afterglow I'm vulnerable to these gooey feelings

Anyway, he's married. I knew that before our first time. I didn't think too much at that time cause it was gonna be just one time thing. Now I know he's not been in a happy marriage for years. He wants me to leave my husband and be with him and have his children. We had a fight when he brought this topic. Just once. I told him out straight that I'll never leave my husband and if he forces me to choose I'll choose my husband. There's never been another fight on this topic. Now the topic comes up, and he gets sad, and I console him, and we make out, and the other things follow depending where we are.

So there are problems that arise from fucking a married man, but there are pleasures too. There's no way to generalize it
 
I don’t have anyone in my life to talk to about this predicament I have found myself in. Over the past 2 years I have developed a friendship with a guy at my former job. He was married and we always kept it professional, talked about my son, my (now) ex, his kids, our families, work, food, other random things, etc.... neither of us crossed any lines nor did I get a feeling he had any ulterior motives. When he confided in me about the issues that he had with his wife, I offered limited but friendly advice, there were even times that I took her position and stood up for her in some cases. As he began to tell me more about their issues, I was neutral in any advice I would offer upon request but as it got worse, I kind of backed off because I didn’t think that he should be taking advice from me because I didn’t have both sides of the story and I have never been married so anything I said really was hypothetical. He ended up moving out and prepared to separate for a divorce.

A few months ago I left the job we both worked at but we maintained a friendship. Long story short, we ended up having sex. Not just any sex, mind blowing amazing sex. He can eat me out forever, pussy and ass. He enjoys anal sex as much as I do (a lot). I came with him every time except once which is a stark difference from my ex who I was with for 5 years and still had sex with for 2 years after and only came maybe twice (I know that is horrible but I loved him and tried to work with him).

I knew his separation was new and he could reconcile with his wife and I told him this and made it clear that I want the best for him and his family and do what he needed to do. He was adamant that wouldn’t happen but I didn’t have my heart set on anything but amazing sex.

Sure enough, she cries to him about not really wanting a divorce and I encourage him to try for his family. I expected this and the only thing that was really upsetting was that we would have to stop hooking up. The problem is that neither of us want to or made any attempt to try to stop. Initially we both felt kinda bad but now, no guilt whatsoever. We actually actively find ways to meet. The sex is like no sex I’ve ever had. He makes me cum from penetration, oral, fingers, anal.... he makes me squirt constantly, which up until him I’ve only done once. I get wet just sucking his dick.

I am not looking for judgement or advise really, I guess I am trying to see if there is anyone else in my situation....
The quick answer is yes, we found each other and found sex with each other was like nothing either of us had experienced, mind blowing good. 4 yrs later, we are still together, sex is still fantastic.

There is so much more, msg me if you want to chat further, otherwise know you aren't alone.
 
The girl i lost my virginity with, we run into each other later in life, im back in our home town at the local bank, she taps me on the shoulder and it’s hey how you, friendly hug, and I think nothing of it. I’m in my apartment that Friday and there is a knock on my door. The only person who knew I lived there was my mom.

It was her. She was married, but we still had that sexual tension, by the end of that visit, we had sex bareback. She told me if I got her pregnant, she’d screw her husband and say it was his. For that semester we screwed several times a week. Hell I gave her my spare key to my apartment, and I can remember her coming over, usually on Sunday mornings, waking me up by taking me into her mouth.

Over time she broke it off as she was developing feelings for me. However, the memories of what we did together, can still fuel a masturbation session decades later.
 
I’ve seen studies that indicate a high percentage of women who cheat are actually happy in their marriage. They’re just looking for some tingles and some variety.

I have read a lot about that situation as well. For a lot of people they see it as black and white - if she was happy she wouldn't cheat, but that just isn't the way everyone sees it.
 
Yes and I never seen someone cum so fast in my life. She put it in and came. She must have been really worked up because this was a planned booty call for after work.
 
Yes, it was a very good experience for me and for him.

It lasted several years and I had no doubt he loved his wife. I think he was just going through some personal issues when we met and I was the right person at the right time to listen, sympathize, stroke his ego, and sexually "play" with him. Surprisingly, there were some sexual things that he hadn't or seldom experienced, like having his cock sucked or occasional anal, even something as simple as receiving road head. I made it clear to him I did not want or need him to leave his wife in fact in all honesty if this thing hadn't happened between us, I could easily see myself being friends with his wife.
 
I am not currently, but it is a bit of a fantasy of mine. I'm married myself, so ya.
 
Yes, it was a very good experience for me and for him.

It lasted several years and I had no doubt he loved his wife. I think he was just going through some personal issues when we met and I was the right person at the right time to listen, sympathize, stroke his ego, and sexually "play" with him. Surprisingly, there were some sexual things that he hadn't or seldom experienced, like having his cock sucked or occasional anal, even something as simple as receiving road head. I made it clear to him I did not want or need him to leave his wife in fact in all honesty if this thing hadn't happened between us, I could easily see myself being friends with his wife.
Why cant you be friends with his wife??
 
This thread coming up today is very ironic! I’m the married man who’s got a piece on the side and have not heard from “her” in a year and last night got a text! This should be interesting!
Well I hope it is, for everyone’s sake with the possible exception of your wife.
 
Been in this situation multiple times. Watch cause it can and will lead to one of the persons wanting more than the other. But the sex is so good cause of the taboo...
 
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