Are married women easier to seduce?

[YourSecretDesires]

I don't think they are easier to seduce per se. But if a married woman has already decided she is going to get some strange, she will be direct and more aggressive, since she has to be the one to make the moves, usually to signal that it's okay with her.

So I think these occurrences cause a distortion in how "easy" things happen. If you approach only married women you will have a hard time seducing compared with singles.

 

[Mu5tang]

Only experience with this is business travel... Wedding rings at hotel restaurants / bars are magnets for anyone (male/female) looking for a clandestine NSA experience while out of town.

 

[lc69hunter]

Despite what men tend to think, married women are rarely seduced. It is their choice, not yours. That being said, married women are quite often easier to find yourself in bed with.

 

[MilkyMarshmallows]

Interesting….

I have a coworker who has a very, in her words, less than vanilla marriage with an older man, much older than her. She flirts with me like crazy, despite my being married to someone as well.

I’ve encountered single and married women with my job. The married ones flirt the most. And since married women are my weakness, well…….

You’re probably what gets her in the mood. Like a fluffer in porn for her.

 

[RDNTDGR]

Statistics somewhere have reported marital incidents of adultery in the female group to be approximately thirty per cent. I think women as a group won't report adultery #s honestly, just like body count.

 

[MrMannson]

You’re probably what gets her in the mood. Like a fluffer in porn for her.

Hopefully it continues and doesn’t go further. I don’t know if I could resist her. She’s a naughty girl next door type. I feel like I should go by her office now and see what she’s up to….

 

[tampdown]

Hopefully it continues and doesn’t go further. I don’t know if I could resist her. She’s a naughty girl next door type. I feel like I should go by her office now and see what she’s up to….

mmm, go get her

 

[Dave88ITA]

I very much doubt that married women are generally easier to seduce for 2 reasons:

• On average, married couples have sex significantly more frequently than singles. And they don't need you for it.
• A married woman has more to lose from a fling.

Of course this doesn't mean that you can't find married women just dying to hop into bed with you, but you're probably better off focusing on other traits

And if they have children probably it is even more difficult to seduce them

 

[Experimentalist]

I wish my wife were easier to seduce

 

[Volk359]

I’ve never been able to seduce a married woman, so I’d have to say harder. You would think that the NSA thing would make it easier, but now that I’m married (and without sex) as soon as a woman realizes I’m married all flirting stops. Makes me wonder if this (married) NSA thing really exists.

 

[Volk359]

I wish my wife were easier to seduce

Me, too!

 

[JackStayII]

They are a lot easier if their husband is okay with it.

 

[mrandmrsnaughty]

In my limited experience I don't think married women are easier to seduce.
I have found that many married women do enjoy being flirted with, but when it comes to actually going beyond that, it becomes much more difficult.

 

[Dimented]

I wish my wife were easier to seduce

We all wish your wife was easier to seduce.

 

[mrandmrsnaughty]

They are a lot easier if their husband is okay with it.

yes, definitely true but that's a different category. lol

 

[Britva415]

You would think that the NSA thing would make it easier, but now that I’m married (and without sex) as soon as a woman realizes I’m married all flirting stops.

Just the married ones?

 

[Live4themoments]

I wouldn't say easier to seduce. As mentioned previously there is definitely a risk taking involvement so for many it is purely a fantasy which is the safe play. They tend to be more flirtatious, exploring taboos, and enjoying themselves with the safe zone being online. A small number of married women will take it to the next level where their desires and curiosities bring them to actual real time meets/phone. They, as I do, have to feel secure, relaxed, and trusting if there were to ever be a physical relationship. Words alone is difficult to seduce someone married, so many other variables.

 

[tampdown]

There's always the moral issue, as in, should you. More than once I've chosen not to, even though it looked like there was an easy lane. I guess for some, part of the appeal is the Idea of conquest.
I feel better if I know the marriage is a lost cause and doomed anyway. In that case, igniting some dormant fire in a lovesick housewife is exciting, but risky, for multiple reasons.

 

[Britva415]

Despite what men tend to think, married women are rarely seduced. It is their choice, not yours.

Of course you're right that they choose, but that's the seduction. We seduce them into making that choice. They don't decide to do so out of nowhere, and they don't initiate pursuit like we do. If we don't initiate, it's probably not going to go anywhere. It still might not go anywhere if she isn't attracted enough, but that's the seduction - successfully making oneself attractive enough to her.

 

[Volk359]

Just the married ones?

I haven’t approached married ones.

 

[KindredFlame]

I haven’t approached married ones.

Or at least you don’t think you have.

 

[Volk359]

Or at least you don’t think you have.

Hard to say.

 

[grumpyoldperv]

I do not think married women are easier to seduce at all. BUT, they are much more likely to try to seduce a guy that they like the looks of. When i was young and worked a service job, it seemed a weekly thing to have married women flirting and maybe going so far as to subtly offer. As a 20-30 something, it seemed married women from 30's to 60's were looking for fun.

I may have accepted a couple times. . .

 

[stiv837]

Of the handful of married women I have slept with , I didn't seduce any of them. They all seduced me . Which really surprises me considering I'm far from handsome and and definitely not well hung. The one married woman I did try to seduce , did not work. Although we did become friends and flirted with each other .