Are there times you would rather masturbate than have sex?

[loborojotx]

Yes, there are times I prefer masturbation over sex. Simple as that.

ditto

 

[Chris_Michael]

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[curvyangel1969]

Well my choices are rather limited at present. But when they are not I'd rather have sex or watch him masturbate.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Well my choices are rather limited at present. But when they are not I'd rather have sex or watch him masturbate.

interesting answer. I would not thought someone would enjoy watching a man masturbate then masturbate themselves.
What is it about watching that turns you on?

 

[Bigspurt]

At best I / We have sex on Sunday mornings. Sometimes we skip one. I provide my own solo orgasms maybe five times a week. I experience much more pleasure with my left hand, a cock ring of some sort and some sort of stimulation than I have with my wife. This morning is a case in point. I'll have a nice edge until about 9:15 and then get along with my day.

 

[PaulieJay]

No not really but there are times I do wanna masturbate, but I'll prob never say sometime like "not tonight bad, I got this one on my own" But I do enjoy the solo moments with myself but sex with others is so awesome that I have no prob sharing, guess thats why Im such a phone sex freak lol

 

[janeyl]

i like to masturbate either alone or mutually...nice reliable orgasms but generally pretty samey...if i had to choose between the two then no, i never prefer to wank over fucking. Only during group sex when I'm happy to lay back and watch everyone else while I take a breather...other than that, no...it's why I don't cyber, cam or have phone sex...it's all just wanking really isn't it?

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Lately I definitely prefer wanking. I'm kind of in a "I don't need anybody" post-breakup phase.

 

[PaulieJay]

i like to masturbate either alone or mutually...nice reliable orgasms but generally pretty samey...if i had to choose between the two then no, i never prefer to wank over fucking. Only during group sex when I'm happy to lay back and watch everyone else while I take a breather...other than that, no...it's why I don't cyber, cam or have phone sex...it's all just wanking really isn't it?

It is"all just wanking" but isn't cyber, cam, & phone a form mutual masturbating

 

[PaulieJay]

Lately I definitely prefer wanking. I'm kind of in a "I don't need anybody" post-breakup phase.

I hate that feeling, but when I'm in pay break up I just wanna screw any woman I can masturbation makes me feel worse. But good luck bro.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

This morning I totally preferred to masturbate.
Typically I'd rather sex, but extenuating circumstances led to me walking up in my own hands.

 

[jmarx20102012]

Yes for like the last 6 months.

 

[janeyl]

It is"all just wanking" but isn't cyber, cam, & phone a form mutual masturbating

Not one I'm interested in...

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

D(.)(.)

My husband and I, and now friends do both. But when there is a choice sex is top on the list. Masturbastion is for extra pleasure and while on Lit. That's why I type slow and make mistakes.

 

[Leigh81]

Definitely...I love my alone times when they happen

L

 

[mellowyellows]

My answer in honesty would have to be yes.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Definitely...I love my alone times when they happen

L

like in the cabana and unaware?

 

[Jessica_29]

Yes, there are times I prefer masturbation over sex. Simple as that.

ditto

Agreed.

Just one example: Reading a sexy book or story, and I put myself in that person's place, the fantasy continues when I continue reading while masturbating.

Example #2: it's 2am, work the next morning, can't fall asleep- masturbating helps me fall back asleep.

 

[Willingtoshare]

Yep, turns into a very cheap date.

 

[Bri27m]

Absolutely! I find masturbation to be a good research technique. Did what I read, listen to or watch turn me on? Did it implore me to do the deed myself? If yes, then it's worth talking about bringing it out of imagination and into reality (in most cases, at least). And sometimes it's nice to have experiences that are just mine.

 

[Jaime_H]

Of course, a little solo time is healthy.

It might sound silly, but I know in the past I've wanked as a stress buster. It definitely has helped in times of stress.

 

[kcRollins]

Most times...simply because I can excite myself better than anyone I ever met.

 

[guns44]

Most times...simply because I can excite myself better than anyone I ever met.

Yes, because my sex life is pretty stale...

 

[Penuche]

Yep, turns into a very cheap date.

There is that!

In my single years, I soon got a preference for masturbating instead of using somebody else just for the sake of getting off. It prevented a few 'I fucked that?' moments.

I'm not very shallow, but there are limits.

 

[sweetnsourbunny]

Masturbation allows me to focus on my own needs and desires without having to worry about being selfless, and attending to the pleasure of a whole other complex individual with their own tastes, desires, etc. Also, it helps me to blow off steam.