but nix on the alcohol and especially champagne... very dangerous because the mucus membrane lining is so absorptive... if using any liquid, use ONLY warm water.
Love the fact that I have interduced a few women to the great pleasures of anal sex.....always starts with just talking about it and its surprizing that alot of women my age have never done it.
Lesson #1
After long chats about it and describing the process and the pleasures that can come from it...I find that a warm wet tongue is the best way to start.
She will soon love the feeling of your tongue probing her most speical forbidding entrance.....Then comes the finger as you have her main love tunnel all hot and wet from licking and sucking.....
As you work your tongue majic on her clit..just tease her ass with a finger with little circles and just a small amount of pressure....
This pressure will let you know if she is ready...if she isnt just back away your finger slowly but still give it a lick or two this will give her the understanding that you respect her wishes but you still want to bring her pleasure....
Should she push down onto your finger then you know you have the ok but be asure that this is a very big step for her so go slowly....THATS SLOWLY.......
Work it nice and easy and never....THATS NEVER....try to push it to the tilt...she will take what she wants and what feels good to her......dont worry it will be in all the way soon.....
I also love anal sex. I agree that it must be with a man you are very close to and comfortable with. I had my first experience recently and now i can't get enough. I haven't had the opportunity to try double penetration yet, but i fantasize about it frequently and would love to try it!