As a pretty new person I have a few questions

[Goctionni]

I've a question for you:

Are you completely incapable of figuring this out on your own?

Not at all, but depending on what specifically you're referring to with the word 'this' I feel I may get a better answer, sooner, if I ask. Besides, I figure that in a community there's not much point in doing everything on your own.

 

[DeevaLicious]

Not at all, but depending on what specifically you're referring to with the word 'this' I feel I may get a better answer, sooner, if I ask. Besides, I figure that in a community there's not much point in doing everything on your own.

Nothing wrong with being in a new community and asking questions. Just remember there are jerks in every crowd and sometimes you are better off just ignoring them. Welcome to lit, enjoy yourself!

 

[Veroe]

Yeah G.

Make the thread, not just to advertise for others but to list your ideas and things to inspire later ideas.

So make the thread for yourself, buddy.

 

[Light Ice]

Not at all, but depending on what specifically you're referring to with the word 'this' I feel I may get a better answer, sooner, if I ask. Besides, I figure that in a community there's not much point in doing everything on your own.

God Forbid you show yourself as an assertive person, mind your manners, and hope for the best like a normal person.

 

[Brockstud]

Your really going to talk about manners when you were rude to a new member for absolutely no reason?

 

[DeevaLicious]

Your really going to talk about manners when you were rude to a new member for absolutely no reason?

You read my mind! smh

 

[Noon_Shadow]

Eh, manners can mean different things to different people. I remember being very unsure about how to just dive in the first time I was here. I remember seeing lots of threads with great writers that I thought would be great to write with, but I wasn't sure if it was considered impolite to just start PMing them.

 

[DeevaLicious]

Eh, manners can mean different things to different people. I remember being very unsure about how to just dive in the first time I was here. I remember seeing lots of threads with great writers that I thought would be great to write with, but I wasn't sure if it was considered impolite to just start PMing them.

Exactly, so for someone to come in and be rude to someone new asking questions is just ridiculous, pointless and makes him-(LI) look like an ass. JMHO of course. shrugs

 

[Goctionni]

God Forbid you show yourself as an assertive person, mind your manners, and hope for the best like a normal person.

DOn't get me wrong, with some of the questions I asked I can see where you're coming from, but at the same time I'd really rather just ask than to take a chance at guessing/assuming the wrong answers and consequently disrupting someone elses SRP or getting someone pissed off at me for doing the wrong thing.

In truth I thought there was no harm in asking anyway, and most people seem to agree with that (Though, can't always please them all).

Either way, I don't think it's worth getting into an argument over.

 

[Light Ice]

DOn't get me wrong, with some of the questions I asked I can see where you're coming from, but at the same time I'd really rather just ask than to take a chance at guessing/assuming the wrong answers and consequently disrupting someone elses SRP or getting someone pissed off at me for doing the wrong thing.

In truth I thought there was no harm in asking anyway, and most people seem to agree with that (Though, can't always please them all).

Either way, I don't think it's worth getting into an argument over.

The old adage "there are no stupid questions" simply isn't a correct one. Contrary to what the masses here will tell you there is no universal code of morality on this porn board. Some writers don't mind getting PMs where strangers talk about fucking them up the ass right away. Some writers do.

None of that matters.

Assert what you are here to do. You'll find like-minded people in short order. The Lounge is full of people who would like to believe there's a common courtesy or "way to do things" here. There isn't. They're just a collection of like-minded people. If you fit, great. If not. Don't give a shit.

Because it's not worth it.