I don't know...I never came into this looking for any kind of relationship with anyone, and you know I've been skeptical of the viability of relationships here on Lit. I've watched others come together only to fail and drift apart or worse become bitter enemies. I don't want us to go through that.
I never came here looking for one either but we both have admitted there is something. I don't know what to do but it felt comfortable and natural to mention it.
I dont know... what do you think could go wrong? What would really change from how it is now? Other than we have a place to hide out in either together or alone? There are several rooms if we want.
All lit was supposed to be was a place to write to relax and enjoy a different avenue for my creativity but like they say people don't enter your life for no reason. I have to admit I have never truly connected to anyone here like you and I have. Yeah I have had friends on here but nothing like this.
What could go wrong: We could have an argument that sours any relationship we may have. Couples have them all the time as they get acquainted with the unpretty sides of their significant other. You know the annoying little things people find in eachother when they get past the presentable faces they try to mask over their flaws and foibles.
This can be delayed by the distance and limited communication between us but what about when you find the not so pretty facets of my personality. Like right now I'm being overly-cautious and fearful of commitment.
I recognize that, which helps, but it doesn't much help the way I feel.
Also the one serious relationship I've had in my life ended poorly...I may be too scared of going through that again.
Okay... one month trial run... in a room we already created for just us or a new thread entirely of just the treehouse. I have had failed relationships too and a failed marriage so I can understand. I already knew from other talks about your over analyzing fearful side and I accept it. We all have our quirks darlin.
Honestly this whatever it is between us scares the hell out of me. I usually have to have a plan and know whats going on but with this I don't and it scares me but I love it. You know the whole to live is to risk I guess.
Sounds wonderful. Thinking the dining area could double as a theater of sorts candle light nice big white sheet to play the movies on right off the kitchen so there is plenty of access to food and drinks with a nice snuggling hammock to curl up in together to watch the movie?