Attracted to my son's friend.

[Stella_Omega]

30? Really? You want this sexy lady to wait 'til she's turned 50 to act on this - what is at the moment only a fantasy. Reality says the son will leave school in a year or so and the close friendship may well disappear. Then these young men are free to choose. Then 'Mum' who is open about her choices can decide to act. Good luck Ma'am! I recall fondly the 30+ yo who helped me learn a little (actually a lot) in my youth.

50 really isn't that old.

 

[TheLM]

50 really isn't that old.

It's true, I've found myself attracted to some 50's and 60's.

 

[theunknown2008]

Some of you have asked about my marriage and sex-life so I feel I should elaborate further:

I'm 40 years old and will have been with my husband for 23 years this coming Fall. We met when he was 21 and I was 17 - he played in a few bands in my hometown, I was a grunge girl, he was very handsome, we hooked up...

I became pregnant at 19 and in spite of being a staunch pro-choice advocate I decided to have the baby. We had been together for about two and a half years and although we were very young, we decided to raise our first son together. We both come from liberal backgrounds and felt no need to marry right away (although we did, in 1994, a year before our second son was born).

My now husband knew from the beginning of our relationship that I was bi-sexual but after I met him I was not with another women for about 10 years. We were faithful up until the point when he landed a huge promotion in the company he works for and began having to travel to Europe quite a lot.

Did I mention that he is very, very handsome? Well, European woman thought so too and after months of suspicion, he confessed to having a series of affairs and one-night stands. I was upset, certainly, but not devastated. We both have very high sex drives, and I too had been fantasizing (without doing anything) about having my own affairs, so we agreed to try an open marriage. When he went off on a trip we were both free to do what we pleased, provided it was safe and not with someone who might the other didn't approve of.

I began an affair with a librarian girl which has continued to this day and have had about 20 other lovers, mostly female. Although my husband is fine with the lesbian relationships I have, he is jealous of other men so part of the deal was that I could eat as much pussy as I wanted while saving my mouth for his trusty old member! I went along with that for a few years until one drunken blowjob I gave a younger musician (hot hot hot) reawakened my desire for new hunks (and fresh cock).

My husband and I still regularly fuck, and it's still as much fun as ever. He doesn't know about my male lovers (it's my dirty little secret and it turns me on) and hasn't seemed to suspect anything.

My boys know nothing of any of this. To them I'm just funny old mom. The oldest is at college, the youngest graduates high school next year, life is good and the sex is great.

I hope that fills in some of the blanks, if anyone has any queries I'd be happy to reply as best I can. I really appreciate all the feedback!

Love, Patricia

Very nice Patricia. You have my support.

 

[Emmcee20]

Amen Stella!

50 really isn't that old.

I wasn't referring to the age - just the 10 year wait.

I have yet to have a sexual experience that involved someone producing their birth certificate -age is irrelevant if you are attracted (subject to being of legal age of course!!).

 

[Holley]

Bump

 

[Somehowyou]

There's nothing wrong with it. Our culture is very screwed up when it comes to sex/age issues. I wish I had had an older woman to teach me about sex when I was young. Looking back I can see the opportunites I probably blew by being too shy. And so I was left to figure it out on my own, with girls my own age who were almost as clueless as me. Fortunately I'm an excellent student and learned it well whenever those opportunites arose. Our culture would be in far better shape if caring adults were able to teach the young ones about sex.

The real red flag here is that he's a friend of your son. Unless he's an unusaul boy he would not take it well. But you could always ask if you think he's mature enought o have that conversation.

God Damn right. Well said sir.

 

[Somehowyou]

Very nice Patricia. You have my support.

Mine too. Go for it

 

[Holley]

I would think, maybe you should just go for it. everyone is of age.
The young guys that come around my house turn me on at times, but their underage and I don't fool around on hubby. But it does make for a good fantasy

 

[Debbie920]

Find one of your sons female friends for your husband to play with and then it's even lol

 

[Jasper_Whitlock]

My youngest son is 17 and involved in a lot of sports at school and recently became friends with a teammate from the lacrosse team. They have been hanging out at our house a lot lately and I've developed a pretty intense sexual crush on him.

He is tall, blond and incredibly handsome and I was instantly attracted to him. I have had minor crushes on a few of my older son's friends but nothing like this. I am so turned on by him sexually that I fantasize about what I would like to do to him and have gone so far as to masturbate quietly in the room next to where they hang out because I am so aroused by the sound of his voice. I have copied his facebook photos into a folder on my computer and look at them almost every day and every time I masturbate.

I would never act on my desires as I could never hurt my son in that way but his friend has taken me to new levels of arousal in the last month and I'm really enjoying the feeling he gives me.

Any other moms out there have a similar attraction? I would love to find out.
Patricia

Ma'am, you ain't hurting nobody by fantasizing about a young man who you are attracted to sexually. I'm a young man in his twenties, so I can't speak from experience (No breasts or vagina to do so and I'm no mom), but I've had a sexual attraction to a ex-girlfriends mom before an I can tell you I would have rutted her like an animal had she come onto me (If I hadn't dated her daughter that is. I don't cheat.)

 

[imready2]

....?

 

[Jasper_Whitlock]

Damn, partner. Sounds like a serious case of blue balls.

 

[Somehowyou]

Yes but if she would of had sex with you would have been molested and ruined for life....bull shit. You would of had a smile on your face that they could not remove with a crowbar!

 

[imready2]

Yes but if she would of had sex with you would have been molested and ruined for life....bull shit. You would of had a smile on your face that they could not remove with a crowbar!

Pretty much! I was not a kid, legal age in the country I live in. I certainly wondered for a long time what I missed.