Autoerotic Asphyxiation

[MILFSauce]

And then there's shoving a stick of dynamite up your butt. Quite a thrill, I hear.

 

[MarathonATL]

And then there's shoving a stick of dynamite up your butt. Quite a thrill, I hear.

Now that's funny right there.

 

[bill3901]

And then there's shoving a stick of dynamite up your butt. Quite a thrill, I hear.

I'm sure there are websites devoted to this particular fetish too...

 

[Sebastian_Plz]

I'm sure there are websites devoted to this particular fetish too...

yea...called FetLife...gun play thread meets anal....and I wish I was kidding

 

[Sebastian_Plz]

I absolutely adore the feeling of a strong hand squeezing my throat~wedged beneath the shelf of my jaw and tilting my head up so I can see my lover.... The feeling i get of complete surrender as my eyelids close and i cum simultaneously is sheer bliss....
....Yes lol it has been FAR too long!!!!

And THIS is the experience that I hear from a lot of my partners. This the part that gets them addicted to the practice.

But as other posters have commented upon, to do this both SAFELY and CORRECTLY, both partners need to be communicative and trusting of the other. And the aggressor MUST be able to identify the signals of a responding body. Blood chokes are relatively simply but if held too long can be quite damaging. And air chokes, well, simply put, those are outright dangerous w/o a very very skilled handed and not to be done by the novice and inexperienced. Too often does 'play' turn into 'danger' because the fellow or participant does not realize the pressure they are exerting on the relatively fragile wind pipe.

Rambling aside, if folks are into this, and I really do think more folks should try it. Check out a few MMA or Jiujitsu classes. They can show you the proper ways, under the guise of the always helpful self defense, and at least allow you the medium of what to look for in terms of physiology. Pupil dilation, face color, and other variable are all cues that must be known when engaging in the activity....and when recognized, practiced, and executed correctly, make for a truly orgasmic experience for both parties.

Say what you will, but even as the male choking the female....there is nothing quite like seeing her body spasm with the penetration, eyes roll back, and feel her body quiver as the orgasm and blood rush through her body and head with the release of the choke. The glow, and just after effects are quite enticing as well, and yea...its can be fun with a safe, trusting, and experienced partner.

 

[TwistedJenn]

And THIS is the experience that I hear from a lot of my partners. This the part that gets them addicted to the practice.

But as other posters have commented upon, to do this both SAFELY and CORRECTLY, both partners need to be communicative and trusting of the other. And the aggressor MUST be able to identify the signals of a responding body. Blood chokes are relatively simply but if held too long can be quite damaging. And air chokes, well, simply put, those are outright dangerous w/o a very very skilled handed and not to be done by the novice and inexperienced. Too often does 'play' turn into 'danger' because the fellow or participant does not realize the pressure they are exerting on the relatively fragile wind pipe.

Rambling aside, if folks are into this, and I really do think more folks should try it. Check out a few MMA or Jiujitsu classes. They can show you the proper ways, under the guise of the always helpful self defense, and at least allow you the medium of what to look for in terms of physiology. Pupil dilation, face color, and other variable are all cues that must be known when engaging in the activity....and when recognized, practiced, and executed correctly, make for a truly orgasmic experience for both parties.

Say what you will, but even as the male choking the female....there is nothing quite like seeing her body spasm with the penetration, eyes roll back, and feel her body quiver as the orgasm and blood rush through her body and head with the release of the choke. The glow, and just after effects are quite enticing as well, and yea...its can be fun with a safe, trusting, and experienced partner.

Had a bit of that last night. Mmmmm

 

[Sebastian_Plz]

Had a bit of that last night. Mmmmm

Based on your AV, yea, seems a safe bet to say that your husband enjoyed the experience as well. You def have the eyes for it...and the curling devious smile. Seeing the piercing amidst your quivering and gaping mouth whilst you engage in orgasmic coitus....I have no doubt your husband has a fun wife....

 

[thedarkestfairy]

And THIS is the experience that I hear from a lot of my partners. This the part that gets them addicted to the practice.

But as other posters have commented upon, to do this both SAFELY and CORRECTLY, both partners need to be communicative and trusting of the other. And the aggressor MUST be able to identify the signals of a responding body. Blood chokes are relatively simply but if held too long can be quite damaging. And air chokes, well, simply put, those are outright dangerous w/o a very very skilled handed and not to be done by the novice and inexperienced. Too often does 'play' turn into 'danger' because the fellow or participant does not realize the pressure they are exerting on the relatively fragile wind pipe.

Rambling aside, if folks are into this, and I really do think more folks should try it. Check out a few MMA or Jiujitsu classes. They can show you the proper ways, under the guise of the always helpful self defense, and at least allow you the medium of what to look for in terms of physiology. Pupil dilation, face color, and other variable are all cues that must be known when engaging in the activity....and when recognized, practiced, and executed correctly, make for a truly orgasmic experience for both parties.

Say what you will, but even as the male choking the female....there is nothing quite like seeing her body spasm with the penetration, eyes roll back, and feel her body quiver as the orgasm and blood rush through her body and head with the release of the choke. The glow, and just after effects are quite enticing as well, and yea...its can be fun with a safe, trusting, and experienced partner.

That's why it's been too long I have some pretty serious trust issues, but when He introduced me to it, it was slowly and believe me when I say that I begged Him for more....Twisted?? Absolutely!! Want more?? Definitely!! Not very safe with someone you don't know well, but when you trust Him and know your own limits it is completely mind blowing!!

 

[Red_Kiss]

While I don't want to rain on anyone's kink, in this case I feel the need to speak up. Be very careful as the worst can happen. A much loved member of my family died while engaging in this activity.
Just an FYI that it can and does happen. Be careful!

 

[Sebastian_Plz]

While I don't want to rain on anyone's kink, in this case I feel the need to speak up. Be very careful as the worst can happen. A much loved member of my family died while engaging in this activity.
Just an FYI that it can and does happen. Be careful!

Dynamite advice Red Kiss....

...although on the serious side, my condolences to your family for the loss. Out of curiosity, did they tell family what exactly happened or did only a few select people know? Was it David Carradine-style or was this just with an inexperienced and unfortunate partner? Curious minds wish to know....

 

[TwistedJenn]

I'm curious if the death was solo as well. Either way I am sorry for your loss. I know it can be dangerous which is why you have to be careful. We tried with a silk binding about a week ago and quickly realized it was too hard to control so for now it's going to be just manual.

 

[Red_Kiss]

It was a case of autoerotic asphyxiation. Our family initially thought it was a suicide, but the medical examiner explained to us what had actually happened. It was a difficult thing for us to wrap our minds around and obviously it was easier for some to accept than others. It was very traumatic for the family member who discovered him.

No one outside the family, with probably the exception of law enforcement and first responders at the scene, knows the true circumstances of his death.

So I guess my advice would be to please play carefully and with a partner. Please don't risk it alone.

 

[warl0ck1]

I really love both sides of this. I really get off doing it to my wife and really like her doing it to me when she is riding me hard.

 

[TwistedJenn]

Partially my fault for the bad title. I meant erotic asphyxiation.

 

[calibigirl]

I love being held by the throat, the feeling of his fingers wrapped around my neck squeezing as he fucks me as I'm near to cumming is amazing. He doesn't really like doing it to me but he does because he knows that I love it

 

[Flybigirlsea]

Surely I can't be the only one who thinks it is the most exhilarating feeling in the world.

Have never had that experience but must confess it is a fantasy of mine...to be the receiver...not the giver.

Just the the thought of having that feeling is exciting to me.

 

[GeorgiaSub]

Surely I can't be the only one who thinks it is the most exhilarating feeling in the world.

I'm not brave enough to let anyone choke me on purpose.....But, I did have a phone sex partner that would instruct me to hold my breath when he knew I was close to cumming. When he would finally tell me to breathe the orgasm was mind blowing. Just a milder form of breath play, I guess.