Awkward and Frustrating [Please Help]

[Loverskitten]

Don't know, everyone has their own "rule books" for their specific type of sexual fantasy or sexual life style. I read it while during research for my major, I'm just as confused as the person who posted this thread. My post was not to give advice, just a question for my own benefit. (Which is pretty shallow, since it's not my thread...in my opinion)
Personally, I don't think bruises or scars should be allowed. Once again, that is my personal thought but I do remember reading this "rule" somewhere.

Most of the time I've ended up with bruises, it was a surprise. A fun night of play, spanking, biting, etc. with me usually saying "harder!" The next day or so I catch a glimpse of my ass in the mirror or get that owww when sitting and am pretty shocked at the amount of bruising.
I mean who doesn't get carried away in the moment?

 

[His2Hurt]

I would be horribly sad if I didn't develop some bruises and love to see that visual reminder of our time together. Accompanied with pain and a wince when moving...ohfuckyes

 

[YourCaptor]

You could say. "It's a kinky sex thing mom, and I like it. We are careful and use protection. Please don't worry because it is not an abuse situation, after all, I'm the one who approach him about it."

 

[enigmaticbeauty]

Whether you're 18 or 80, you have to be careful and really think about, is this what you want. I';m not really a pain lover, I'm more the mental side of things, pushing boundaries and the humiliational side of things, but that took years and years to develop... you seem to have missed that stage and what is his motivations behind it...

As for your mother.... I can understand her concern and surely some part of you must as well. Has your mother met your other half,?