Kajira Callista
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nuttin better then a smart assed sub!
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Caitlynne
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Desdemona said:
Actually, Des, I have to agree with you here. It is almost as if it were all Role Playing and he came out of character and told her of "Fuck Off". Like an "oops" where is real self surfaced, a slip in the script.
I can see that when new to the life you might make mistakes and fumble as you learn, BUT this goes beyond what I could consider anything, but two people role playing and someone slipped.
And I'm not saying this is a negative thing at all, those that like to sexually role play are just as entitled ot their 'kink' as the rest of us. I'm only saying it seemed to me to be something that would happen in a role playing situation, not a D/s situation I might find myself in. I'd never say such a thing, even to a Dominant not my own, and expect it to be socially acceptable. The lack of respect just goes against the grain too much and takes me way outside my comfort level.
That said, I'm not too concernd with this situation, I think (down deep) that they are both putting us on.
~ Cait
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Desdemona said:
Lol ya all are way too serious around here.....uhmmmm why is that? Know me before you judge me...im just a silly ass having some fun and by no means was that meant to be taken seriously....lighten up darlings... life is short
Mistress Tae
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Perhaps the key here is a D/s relationship you find yourself in. We are not all the same, thank god.
As for both of us putting you on...I won't even justify that with a response beyond, believe what you will.
Kaija, thanks for the laughter *winks*
To all: It really does not matter to me whether or not you believe us, think that we are just "playing", whatever. The purpose of this "punishment" was not for you. It was for nightsfire...enough said.
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And just to add...his Mistress totally understood the reason....and really wasnt all that upset ....his punishment was posting here, and that satified her. Now that the punishment has been taken care of...why not welcome two new ppl just venturing into this to this lil community?
Mistress Tae
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Again...I have to thank you very much Kajira!!!
Desdemona
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Kajira Callista said:
From my perspective, fun and games are meant for fun times. The purpose of this thread was for punishment. That is not the time or place for fun. I can play just like you do, but I play when and where it's appropriate.
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im not meaning to be rude here or argumentative here in any way....but if you read back in the thread....she was satisfed with his punishment last night....it was done and over *shrugs*
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Desdemona said:
imo, a sweet way for mr. smartass-sub to find out the difference between play and punishment, would indeed be a figgin session, as KC originally suggested. (i'm surprised neither he nor Mistress cared to dwell further into THAT subject)
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Some people role play at being subs. Others of us actually live it.
That's where the true joy and heartbreak comes from.
That's where the true joy and heartbreak comes from.
Kajira Callista
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uh huh....and that makes it worse.....having to do that to yourself
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ummmmmmmmmmm...not that i would know or anything being as im such a good girl hehehehehe
Kajira Callista
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what would a cam be w/out the mic??
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Kajira Callista said:
Good question and not in the least rude........
Here is the thing, his punishment was put into motion and it was meant to involve us, and involve us it did. In fact a case could be made that his punishment was thrust upon us against our will and without our agreement, but I'm not going to open up that can of worms, mainly because it doesn't matter to me.
But what does matter is this; once we became the spectators and the quasi public source of his humiliation (or whatever this was) we became part of the scene and since his Mistress has no control over us, well that means there is more to this now, than just her satisfaction with his punishment.
Once it went public in front of a bunch of strangers, it became public and now both parties are 'fair game' for discussion. It's the way the real world works.
~ Cait
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oh myyyyyyyyyyyyyy *gulp*
