Ball spanking

[Guest]

Ha you mean 'Tigerbalsem' (So it's called here in Holland) ouch yeah that will do

ah, i didnt know u were from Holland. I'm from portugal, but i moved to texas about 4 years ago. Good to know u'll have fun with that!

 

[M's girl]

I hope I understand this correctly. Are you having trouble hitting him in the balls?

Hi Magnum,

No, I have no trouble hitting him in the balls. But what do you mean by "trouble"? Technique-wise, or Mind-wise...? I could use some tips & trics on the technique I guess, since I'm kinda new at this. But I don't have trouble in the way that it upsets me or anything doing it to M. At the beginning I was a bit apprehensive, thinking I would hurt him easily, but we've done it quite some times now and I'm starting to get the idea on how far I can go. So to speak.

The thing is, of course, that I'm doing it in the first place because M likes it so much; not because I feel the urge to spank him. But that's OK. I was reading in astonishment that lots of women like to dominate and spank and slap their men. And I was wondering what kind of surpressed anger there would have to be for that, if any.... I mean, I've had my fair (well.... fair?) share of bad sexual experiences which could have put some of this anger in me I would say. But I always felt these issues needed to be cleared outside the bedroom first. I guess I'm the kind of girl who does not want sex if things are not right in the relationship first. So I'm wondering.... is BDSM sometimes and for some people also a means to settle unsolved relationship issues? I don't want to stigmatize or put labels on anything or so... I'm just wondering since to me, it would have to take a lot of anger first to be EVER able to be (so) sadistic during sex. And even then I could not do it I guess.

The way we do it is kind of playful I guess, although I'm not soft on him. It takes me some time to get into the session, also because it's kind of one way "traffic" as well of course. Only when I start to get aroused by M's horniness I can add some of the roleplaying stuff, being more vocal.

I know it's all a matter of letting go whatever is holding me back. Rationally thinking/speaking nothing holds me back. In my fantasy I'm always far more outspoken and free where it concerns sex. But there seems to be this threshold that I need to cross. And not one time, but over again, every time.
I guess there's no advice to be given on that one. So tales of your experiences and tips for new techniques are welcome.

Thank you.
M's girl

 

[Magnum44]

Since I myself am not into "BDSM" I don't know for sure about the anger relationship. I don't think there is one. I think it more on control and the weaker sex (physically speaking) dominating a larger or stronger male. For me I for some unknown reason have always liked to have my balls at the mercy of a woman. Knowing that she could crush my nuts or kick me in the nuts and bring me to my knees is a huge turn on. I like the feeling of the pain to a certain extent but there is a definite breaking point at which it becomes to much. I love having my balls trapped under my wifes foot. She has gorgeous feet and her threatening to stomp on my balls and slowly adding her body weight on my balls is a total rush. Most gals I have ever been with thought I was crazy at first when I ask them to kick me. After a while everyone of them grew to like it very much. I kind of feel sorry for the husbands and boyfriends of the gals I am no longer with. Can you just see them asking to kick there new BF's or husbands in the balls? I still experiment with some things. I have made a couple of things out of wood to trap my balls so they can't escape my wifes foot. We once had a gal that was going to take turns with my wife kicking me in the balls but it fell through. Still hoping to once again find a gal who would enjoy tag teaming me. Anyway, if you initiate some of the stuff and tell him how badly you want to beat his balls or whatever you think he might like it would probably really turn him on. I know when my wife comes up with stuff, like when she decided to tie my balls up and beat on them, it made it even more enjoyable. You will have him doing anything you ask of him (cleaning the house etc. etc.)

 

[M's girl]

... I know when my wife comes up with stuff, like when she decided to tie my balls up and beat on them, it made it even more enjoyable. You will have him doing anything you ask of him (cleaning the house etc. etc.)

Hmmmmm don't know about the first part..... since I'm not the dominating type in the first place (but I promise I will think about it ) and this is (at this moment) still more M's thing than mine.... but the latter part sounds interesting enough to give it a try... LOL

 

[Pure]

notes

apart from pressing the ball against a hard surface, including the pubic bone, much force can be applied. you don't want to rupture the thing, i imagine.

there other thing is that the skin enclosing the balls gets bloody bruises fairly easily, so some protection, like a sock over them, before the spanking whacking will concentrate the sensations in the balls, not the burning skin (which will show the blood released for a couple days, just under the surface).

you also may want some way that 'presents' them (bring them out and/or forward), i.e. a string lightly tied around them or even a grip holding your thumb and forefinger in a circle around the base of them while whacking them with the other hand.

full whacks with the fingers (like a slap) work well. also, keeping the fingertips together, curled slightly so that just the tips hit.

various object can be used, and they should have som weight, since the momentum in the strike is a factor. iow, a chopstick is fairly useless, except to sting the skin. but it that same diameter is a steel rod, you have real effect. other example a heavy wooden or metal ruler, or a strong wooden handle to some kitchen implement or to a loofa sponge. Again to protect skin, the rod can be wrapped just a layer or two in some soft fabric. OR the ball may have a layer of cloth, like unerpant, over them.

you might keep in mind that like any other area that's hitm struck, or hurt, there is a numbing that comes after a while; hence an occasional break can increase the hurt. also, if you strike with a rod, vary the destination, so as to hit different parts of the ball from different angles. that keeps the pain level up. be aware that ball sensitivity increases for a while, hence a slow work up is better. i.e., some medium whacks a couple mins before harder ones.

i agree this is not a topic commonly posted here, but perhaps this will help.