Battle sex

[BiBunny]

I like this kind of thing, at least from my limited experience. I think that's why bondage bores the shit out of me. It seems like the pussy's way out.

 

[His_pet_slut]

The one thing I have discovered for me, personally, is that giving over the 'mind' is much harder than the physical submission. Allowing M~ to push those limits and surrender that has been a much greater battle of the wills.

 

[StrayKat]

The one thing I have discovered for me, personally, is that giving over the 'mind' is much harder than the physical submission. Allowing M~ to push those limits and surrender that has been a much greater battle of the wills.

Oh but I actually meant mind all the time. I am too small to have any serious physical encounter with even under average men

 

[His_pet_slut]

Ah! Yes, I am small physically as well. My 5'2/120 would not stand much of a chance against M's very fit 6'4".

 

[StrayKat]

Heh

Mind I am not saying I wouldnt try, but it would be pretty laughable.
My tongue on the other hand can be as mean as the worst ones out there. And that is my main weapon.

 

[alwaysknow]

This is a very thought provoking topic. I think all people in the BDSM realm would benefit by this encounter as it would open their mind with new perspective and give them a completely new experience. That experience would heighten their experience when they are in their usual role and open up new possibilities. Someone can only benefit from a new experience. The end result is being more in touch with themselves and a heightened awareness of the different dynamics that they may not necessarily would have sensed had they never experimented with the new role.

 

[dragonkin112]

A friend of mine and his girlfriend are a switch pair that love battle sex. They are both martial artists too which adds another element to it. I've heard some funny stories and seen some...interesting bruises. They seem to love the experience.

 

[switchbitch]

Bring it on "beotch"!! Let's see who's willing to switch.

I'm confident that I can make winning or losing look good, depending on whether I'm feeling like subbing or domming, but I have a little nervous tingle in my stomach that says if I get into this you might have a few hidden tricks that might make this a match go your way. I'm guessing there are no rules, and therefore, as a man, I will have certain disadvantages that you will use to your advantage.

So if I say yes, obviously I'm in the mood to have you in control, but I'm going to put up a reasonable fight to let you have the upper hand....

Then again, if we get into it and you aren't playing dirty, then I guess you don't really want to win....

Who wouldn't want to start playing with a battle to determine what's really on your mind? Granted other times you could make it quite clear what you wanted without first wasting all that energy.

I could use the extra exercise.

Make your move!

of course it is easy to just simply make a choice but creating a battle for dominance or submission is a rather exciting form of foreplay don't you think? I often like to play this game but it does have its rules definitely no lasting injuries and in some cases we have a winning post as it were. For instance which ever gets the other face down with their arse in the air first has dibs on dominanceor whoever manages to strip the other partner first and grab the first flogger wins the round.

 

[switchbitch]

Sounds fun. I can see the reality show version in my head. LOL

We sometimes do wrestling sex. Probably about the same thing.

I've also heard it called resistance play when there is much physical tussling between two.

I would so watch that show! Chuckling

 

[switchbitch]

Battle!

Sorry, couldn't help it.

thank you I had forgotten just how much I love that scene.

 

[switchbitch]

I am very interested in what people have to say here. I find that when we have been apart for a while and we are both very horny, it sometimes gets in the way of relaxing and we argue a lot. Then when we get to grips with each other it gets physical. Depending on how she is feeling and also how my mind is, I can become very dominant and end up fucking her very hard physically. Or other times I just let her take control and she loves to dominate me, but more with feelings than physically dominant she will push me down and suck on me until I almost cum, then stop and push my face into her pussy. I like it when she gets on top and foes for it. Mostly it's me who takes the lead when we are both wanting or need angry sex. I guess I am nit sure where I sit with all this but it's very interesting. Today I am horny and she won't be home for a while. I will need to just get the frustration out of my system when she gets home, and then we can make love and I can be sensitive and look after her desires!

Anyone else feel like this?

absolutely yummy!

 

[switchbitch]

I feel i am a bit of both aswell as i may start of as submissive then turn out dominant. it sepends on the atmosphere and person.i feel myself getting aroused during these battles

but do you mean you are merely switching in the scene or is that a determined battle for supremacy?

 

[switchbitch]

I find the dynamic of two switches mentality fighting for dominance or even a single switch over-taking the partner to be very erotic and immensely enjoyable.

There is something almost magical about that moment when both parties know the dynamic has changed.

Usually the one who lost the upper hand starts the discussion afterwords asking how and what tripped the change. Its like they don't want to make the same mistake again.

I dont know, I never felt it like mistake.
I love "winning" and "losing" equally.

indeed everybody wins

 

[switchbitch]

Yes, in a way, but not exactly.
If I hate something then its to give in on my own, to let someone actually weaker in some way to overpower me, for whatever reason.
But I truly enjoy being outsmarted, manipulated without my knowledge, bested in any way. Being handled with ease no matter how much I fight it.

I will always fight and if I win over equally strong opponent I feel a joy. But if they prove stronger or "better" then I am in bliss, they feel truly worthy of all my effort and adoration.

Maybe I am not true <something> or maybe I just lack insight to express myself at this point. It is how I feel though.

I have to agree with this

 

[AdamHaigh13]

but do you mean you are merely switching in the scene or is that a determined battle for supremacy?

A bit of both to be honest switch...though sometimes fighting for supremacy is more fun. what do you think?

 

[webjock]

Battle Sex

Most of you know by now and the name will tell you if you didn't that I am a switch and on rare occasionsI get to play with other switches.One of the things that I find particularly enthralling and exciting is battle sex: the battle of wills and bodies to define which direction the dynamic is going to roll on each occasion.
The rush when I overcome my play pal excites my dominant side to the point where I get prickles all the way up my spine. And the sublime feeling of being overpowered heightens my submission and turns me to a puddle of goo.
On occasion I have played this game with those who were as a rule completely dominant or with those who are very submissive and they seem to have thoroughly enjoyed it as well even though it was not their natural state if they happened to "Lose".
It makes me think that perhaps many more of us have a touch of the switch than we think(and after reading the BDSM scores many of them seem to)or perhaps that we just want to see what it's like from the other side.
What do you guys think and do you enjoy battle sex?

Interesting; a new concept. Thanks for inventing something like that; perhaps I should try that type of thing out one day if I ever find someone to do it with!

 

[switchbitch]

I can rely to that. I tend to brush aside whatever seems less important when I am in highly excited state of happiness or even arousal. In the process I sometimes overlook some more important things.

Since I tend to "provoke" just as you described in one of your previous posts, I was wondering if I can relate to your motives as well. I *do* know I am asking for a fight but I am not always certain why. Sometimes it is simply because I want to overpower somebody. Sort of "bring it".

But some other times it is not that simple. Under my very real fight to win (and I do fight to win, no matter what it takes) there is a desire to be beaten by somebody truly stronger in every way. I dont really get that much though, usually I give in to avoid hurt feelings and get frustrated and unhappy about it.

I know, if I ever found that one person that could win over me, I would still try to flip him at any possible moment. And I dont really know how to deal with that knowledge.

revel in it! Talk about it to your partners so that they understand the appeal of the dynamic for you. We all have different likes and dislikes and few of us bother to elaborate when discussing sex you may just be pleasantly surprised and find that your partner likes what you like too. It could lead to some serious fun or at the very least a better level of understanding.

 

[switchbitch]

A bit of both to be honest switch...though sometimes fighting for supremacy is more fun. what do you think?

I too enjoy both scenarios. Whether you are battling for supremacy over the entire scene or merely switching back and forth as each of you get the upper hand

 

[switchbitch]

Interesting; a new concept. Thanks for inventing something like that; perhaps I should try that type of thing out one day if I ever find someone to do it with!

I beg to differ I did not invent the concept (people have been indulging in battle sex for a very long time)merely the wording.

 

[switchbitch]

Switchbitch you always have interesting posts and threads and this one is no exception. Me personally, Battle Sex is not my favorite description... I prefer something like Dom flipping... but a rose by any other name.

My question for you is... what gets you to flip and become submissive? I've noticed with my wife... the more pleasure she receives the less dominant she is... usually after one or two orgasms she's flipped. In some ways I wish she was harder to flip... in other ways... I enjoy giving her orgasm after orgasm so... I guess it's a win/win.

it isn't really the rose by any other name, Dom flipping to me is often merely what happens between two switches.Battle sex on the other hand is a determined effort on both sides to prevail and there is a certain amount of consensual force involved whether it be mental or physical.
But if you're asking what makes me switch, well I have a list of triggers as long as your arm and most of them are mental.orgasm is not usually one of them as an orgasm can send me down into subspace equally as often as it can make my dominant side sit up and roar.

 

[just4friends]

well...

it isn't really the rose by any other name, Dom flipping to me is often merely what happens between two switches.Battle sex on the other hand is a determined effort on both sides to prevail and there is a certain amount of consensual force involved whether it be mental or physical.
But if you're asking what makes me switch, well I have a list of triggers as long as your arm and most of them are mental.orgasm is not usually one of them as an orgasm can send me down into subspace equally as often as it can make my dominant side sit up and roar.

The bloodflow resulting from confronting you mano a womana.... would put me at a slight disadvantage. I'm not sure my logic on what to try to grab would be very effective fighting moves. I think I would end up losing much like Andre The Giant in the Princess Bride complaining about how it's different fighting a woman....

 

[switchbitch]

The bloodflow resulting from confronting you mano a womana.... would put me at a slight disadvantage. I'm not sure my logic on what to try to grab would be very effective fighting moves. I think I would end up losing much like Andre The Giant in the Princess Bride complaining about how it's different fighting a woman....

tease you just want an excuse to lose

 

[just4friends]

well...

tease you just want an excuse to lose

I might end up losing the first few times just to see what you do with the upper hand, then I'll have a long streak of wins, perhaps a surprise win now and then. I hear you play dirty, so who knows? Maybe I wouldn't stand a chance of winning.