BDSM Bucket List

[drobert44]

Yep. I find anal incredibly submissive - I really don't feel at all in control of anything - what's happening, my responses, any of it.

I think my bucket list thing is currently pegging. I was very close with the guy I was seeing last year, and really only developed an interest in the idea because of him. Then that finished before we managed to operationalise the whole thing. But just watching him when I slid my fingers inside him ... I was to see THAT again, but more so.

Hopefully the new new guy will be interested ... he seems like the type.

(Also, yet another great thread Cookie. Thanks.)

Hmmm, nice idea, bucket list. I would love for a couple of lezzies to femme and sissify me totally, to be their little sis sex slave.........

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[msub50some]

My BDSM bucket list would have to include urethral sounding. I've read about and seen videos featuring sounding, but have never tried it, for fear of damaging something inside. But the more I think about the concept of being "fucked" in the pee hole, the more I'm intrigued.

Urethral sounding is intriguing to me as well. I've seen the videos that really make it look hot. In more serious discussions, though, I hear a lot about being careful, do it with someone who you can trust they know what they're doing, make sure it's very clean, and all that.

 

[twister947]

Not to rain on your parade, Anja, but "everyday items" are unlikely to be as sterile as they should be. UTIs are no fun...safety first.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I fantasize about being a willing subject of hard nipple play/ clamping/ stretching session while tied spreadeagle nude in heels. A group of well endowed guys/gurls would be fucking and filling my holes and jerking cum all over me!

 

[base10]

I fantasize about being a willing subject of hard nipple play/ clamping/ stretching session while tied spreadeagle nude in heels. A group of well endowed guys/gurls would be fucking and filling my holes and jerking cum all over me!

The hard nipple play is easy enough by yourself even using DIY clamps. I've use binder clips before, hurt like hell, in a good way

 

[xdresssissytoes]

The hard nipple play is easy enough by yourself even using DIY clamps. I've use binder clips before, hurt like hell, in a good way

I play with my nipples almost daily with a collection of nipple suckers, pumps and clamps. The second part of my fantasy will stay a fantasy...for now.

 

[lil_jenni]

Oh, I probably have a fair number if things on my BDSM bucket list, but I'll post the big one I don't think my Hubby would ever go for. I would like to be sold at auction and then be my new owner's slave for a weekend or a week. And although I usually see a man as my new owner, sometimes I fantasize it will be a woman...

 

[LustyScribe]

Oh, I probably have a fair number if things on my BDSM bucket list, but I'll post the big one I don't think my Hubby would ever go for. I would like to be sold at auction and then be my new owner's slave for a weekend or a week. And although I usually see a man as my new owner, sometimes I fantasize it will be a woman...

I love those stories along that line! I've thought of writing one myself. What would be the biggest allure of that for you? I'd love your perspective.

 

[Fazer600]

Oh, I probably have a fair number if things on my BDSM bucket list, but I'll post the big one I don't think my Hubby would ever go for. I would like to be sold at auction and then be my new owner's slave for a weekend or a week. And although I usually see a man as my new owner, sometimes I fantasize it will be a woman...

I want to be the winning bidder.

 

[CthuluLives]

I have a few things but some are fantasies and I'm just watching. Like I would love to watch wife being dominated by 4 or 5 women, for them to take full control of her while I watch. More a fantasy.

For me for a bucket list I'd like to be tied to a bench for example or other such restraints and have 3 or 4 guys use me. Not extreme, I don't want cut or have pain inflicted just for the sake of it. But for them to basically use me. I might hate it and use a safe word lol, but I'd like to know how it feels to give up control, to let myself go and be used.

I'd love to have a couple of trans women do the same, wouldn't need tied up, be a full on 3some, but again that would be more fantasy than bdsm.

I'd like to take my wife to a fully kitted dungeon, blindfold her and do all the things I've said over the years I want to.do to her but not completed yet. Going to chalk a couple of the list for her birthday in September, providing we can get a babysitter and I can take her away!

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

I have an interest in Poly. Not sure that'll happen but still an interest. Fmf, ffm also on mine. Prostate massage/orgasm is another big interest but not into pegging of any kind (hard/off limit).

 

[Crankbait88]

Directed masturbation for a submissive woman and exhibition are two that I would love to cross off my list.

 

[KimGordon67]

Yep. I find anal incredibly submissive - I really don't feel at all in control of anything - what's happening, my responses, any of it.

I think my bucket list thing is currently pegging. I was very close with the guy I was seeing last year, and really only developed an interest in the idea because of him. Then that finished before we managed to operationalise the whole thing. But just watching him when I slid my fingers inside him ... I was to see THAT again, but more so.

Hopefully the new new guy will be interested ... he seems like the type.

(Also, yet another great thread Cookie. Thanks.)

LOL - I was just reading back through this thread and thinking 'I must post about pegging' ... but it turns out I already had. Unfortunately things didn't work out with the 'new guy' I mentioned there ... but I have the old guy back! We've only had sex once since resuming things, and I'd had a little more to drink than I should have, so (a) it was a bit messy and (b) I can't remember a lot of detail. But assuming things continue, I'm definitely going to put this back on the table and see what happens.

 

[PaxNurgle]

Urethral sounding is one of my hardest of hard limits. Pegging, on the other hand...
I'd actually like to be tied up and spanked outdoors, in a remote area where nobody else would be around to be freaked/creeped out by us, of course.

 

[KimGordon67]

Urethral sounding is one of my hardest of hard limits. Pegging, on the other hand...
I'd actually like to be tied up and spanked outdoors, in a remote area where nobody else would be around to be freaked/creeped out by us, of course.

I'm super excited about the possibility of actually realising this ... and kind of interesting to see how it plays out in reality. I'm not sure if we're going to end up with the whole kit and caboodle - we might settle with improvising with things we have to hand. (Decent strap ons are quite spendy, and I'm not sure if I'm up for making that outlay for someone that I might not be seeing for long or often.)

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Urethral sounding is one of my hardest of hard limits. Pegging, on the other hand...
I'd actually like to be tied up and spanked outdoors, in a remote area where nobody else would be around to be freaked/creeped out by us, of course.

Urethral sounding is actually on my bucket list. Never tried it but may be "open" to the idea if done by someone experienced.

 

[Wonderer67]

Two things:

1) I’m submissive and male. I realized a few months ago I’d like to try switching and be dominant with my wife or another woman.

I had a few experiences here being dominant online and would love to try it in real life.

We’ve talked about it - My wife doesn’t enjoy it much, but we’ve had a few light sessions. Would love to try something more intense. We’ll see…

2) would love to be womanhandled by a pro domme and my wife, in a session where the pro shows my wife how to “really” dominate a man. In my dream scenario I am split roasted by the pro and my wife. Talked about it w my wife but my wife is super monogamous and not into the idea of multiple partners.

 

[cookiecat]

Oh, I probably have a fair number if things on my BDSM bucket list, but I'll post the big one I don't think my Hubby would ever go for. I would like to be sold at auction and then be my new owner's slave for a weekend or a week. And although I usually see a man as my new owner, sometimes I fantasize it will be a woman...

Several years ago, our kink community put on a slave auction to raise money for a beloved community member's medical fees. It was a fun way to explore "being sold." The slaves were put in to a cage, blindfolded. Someone would buy a slave and take him / her to a play station and have at it. I was in the cage. It felt a little scary - I was worried no one would buy me. Fortunately, I was bought twice. There was some negotiation before the scene just to be on the safe side. Overall, it was a fun experience.

 

[cookiecat]

I'm super excited about the possibility of actually realising this ... and kind of interesting to see how it plays out in reality. I'm not sure if we're going to end up with the whole kit and caboodle - we might settle with improvising with things we have to hand. (Decent strap ons are quite spendy, and I'm not sure if I'm up for making that outlay for someone that I might not be seeing for long or often.)

** runs to Kim's thread to see who this "we" is

 

[LustyScribe]

Several years ago, our kink community put on a slave auction to raise money for a beloved community member's medical fees. It was a fun way to explore "being sold." The slaves were put in to a cage, blindfolded. Someone would buy a slave and take him / her to a play station and have at it. I was in the cage. It felt a little scary - I was worried no one would buy me. Fortunately, I was bought twice. There was some negotiation before the scene just to be on the safe side. Overall, it was a fun experience.

That sounds incredibly exciting! It would make for a good story! (hint)

 

[KimGordon67]

** runs to Kim's thread to see who this "we" is

I feel like that would have been disappointing for you.

 

[masterslave00]

Urethral sounding is actually on my bucket list. Never tried it but may be "open" to the idea if done by someone experienced.

It's on my bucket list too... Some other things:

• threesome with mother and daughter (I am fucking them both right now, but they don't know)
• spit roasted by two women (if the two above did it that would be amazing

I am sure there is more, but...

 

[Primalex]

I'm not really interested in FFM, but I would like to end up in a situation where one woman pins down another woman and forces her legs open, so I can have my way with her.

 

[Princess_Scarlet]

I'm not really interested in FFM, but I would like to end up in a situation where one woman pins down another woman and forces her legs open, so I can have my way with her.

That sounds like fun

 

[Primalex]

That sounds like fun

Which position?