manav_human
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i am yet to speak to her..let me get a nice idea here first
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i am yet to speak to her..let me get a nice idea here first
KimGordon67
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My suggestion is that you do a bit of reading first. Clearly you don't really know what you're doing, and I'm she probably doesn't either. Making it up as you go along is fun, but requires a truckload of clear, honest communication.
Also, settle down a bit in here. You started something like ten random threads in a day. There's a mountain of really useful reading in here - maybe start there instead of throwing out questions and expecting people to have a vested interested in providing you with information.
Also, settle down a bit in here. You started something like ten random threads in a day. There's a mountain of really useful reading in here - maybe start there instead of throwing out questions and expecting people to have a vested interested in providing you with information.
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manav_human
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1st its 4 threads (all meaning full)
2nd this is the forum to ask questions
3rd i have done my reading part
4th you are upset
5th relax a bit (it will help you)
6th Thank you for the advise
7th really thank you
KimGordon67
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Dude, if you think I'm 'upset', you're really giving yourself a bit too much credit.
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I would pop some popcorn if I thought Kim gave a shit about what you thought of her.
Let’s go back to your OP.
You answer. Start an actual dialogue. Then see who throws their hat in.
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Well, clearly I'm secretly wounded. I'm just being stoic about it.
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ohh u r wounded..i am sorry for that
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What do you actually want to do? What gets you going? And more importantly what does she like?
Asking internet strangers who will all have slightly or not so slightly different kinks seems a little bananas
Why not watch some porn together and see what turns you both on... I assume asking for advice means you are relatively inexperienced, in which case start slow, back to the very first answer on your thread - if she’s ok with it - tie her up and fuck her, simple...
Then discuss... little by little, over time maybe - would she like more attention on her tits, her clit, does she respond to name calling, hair pulling, humiliation, etc, etc... more importantly what are her limits? make sure they are crystal clear - if she is inexperienced she might suggest she has none (as I possibly might have done once upon a time until a kindly soul enjoyed making me blush with the list of things he thought might be limits for my then relatively innocent brain...)
Spend time exploring each other - no-one else can tell you what will work for you.
ps - standard guidance of course: make sure there is a safe word, and always respect it and her... never do anything to her that you wouldn’t be willing to have done to you (and I’m not asking if you’d enjoy it - but you want to use a cane for example, check out how it feels on you before you subject her to it... it can be easy to misunderstand the pain and damage relatively mild-seeming force can cause...)
Asking internet strangers who will all have slightly or not so slightly different kinks seems a little bananas
Why not watch some porn together and see what turns you both on... I assume asking for advice means you are relatively inexperienced, in which case start slow, back to the very first answer on your thread - if she’s ok with it - tie her up and fuck her, simple...
Then discuss... little by little, over time maybe - would she like more attention on her tits, her clit, does she respond to name calling, hair pulling, humiliation, etc, etc... more importantly what are her limits? make sure they are crystal clear - if she is inexperienced she might suggest she has none (as I possibly might have done once upon a time until a kindly soul enjoyed making me blush with the list of things he thought might be limits for my then relatively innocent brain...
)Spend time exploring each other - no-one else can tell you what will work for you.
ps - standard guidance of course: make sure there is a safe word, and always respect it and her... never do anything to her that you wouldn’t be willing to have done to you (and I’m not asking if you’d enjoy it - but you want to use a cane for example, check out how it feels on you before you subject her to it... it can be easy to misunderstand the pain and damage relatively mild-seeming force can cause...)
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haha sadWacka wacka wacka!
(couldn't find one with the hook, sadly)
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thanks for such a wonderful message dudeWhat do you actually want to do? What gets you going? And more importantly what does she like?
Asking internet strangers who will all have slightly or not so slightly different kinks seems a little bananas
Why not watch some porn together and see what turns you both on... I assume asking for advice means you are relatively inexperienced, in which case start slow, back to the very first answer on your thread - if she’s ok with it - tie her up and fuck her, simple...
Then discuss... little by little, over time maybe - would she like more attention on her tits, her clit, does she respond to name calling, hair pulling, humiliation, etc, etc... more importantly what are her limits? make sure they are crystal clear - if she is inexperienced she might suggest she has none (as I possibly might have done once upon a time until a kindly soul enjoyed making me blush with the list of things he thought might be limits for my then relatively innocent brain...
Spend time exploring each other - no-one else can tell you what will work for you.
ps - standard guidance of course: make sure there is a safe word, and always respect it and her... never do anything to her that you wouldn’t be willing to have done to you (and I’m not asking if you’d enjoy it - but you want to use a cane for example, check out how it feels on you before you subject her to it... it can be easy to misunderstand the pain and damage relatively mild-seeming force can cause...)
you got the right point of us being inexperienced and for sure i am going to talk to her and then will try it out.
I am asking here to all the strangers because i want to learn from others experience...and what really worked for them. I believe in learning from others experience and try to do it my way.
Thanks anyways good one
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Read
Learn
Think
Communicate with her, learn her wishes and limits AND RESPECT THEM!
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So your post on the General Board didn't turn out, either, about exactly the same subject.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1465027
Here's the OP's question to the GB:
Hey! Manav! It's not working. No one wants to play along.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1465027
Here's the OP's question to the GB:
Hey! Manav! It's not working. No one wants to play along.
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You think it is the same juvenile bindian?
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