BDSM Talk Library

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Fisting

fisting begun by seXieleXie on 02-26-2002

 

[NemoAlia]

Forum

The BDSM Forum: Questions and Answers begun by cymbidia on 02-23-2002
BDSM: Questions and Answers otherwise known as the M. Thread, begun by cymbidia on 07-20-2001
Hi guys... begun by cymbidia on 02-23-2002
A poll: What should we do with the Monster thread? begun by cymbidia on 02-26-2002
Violations of common courtesy begun by cymbidia on 04-08-2002
Virgin? begun by cagegirl on 04-11-2002
Your feelings about personal ads begun by WriterDom on 04-15-2002
BDSM Forum: Questions and Answers: an addition to the "general rules" kinda thougt begun by cymbidia on 04-20-2002
Please Leave Your Shoes At the Door and Other Rules begun by cymbidia on 04-26-2002
Everyone: please read, look, and participate begun by cymbidia on 05-03-2002
Personal Information and the boards begun by KillerMuffin on 05-20-2002
a pissed off Forum Moderator begun by cymbidia on 05-03-2002
Just a brief lesson on posting etiquette begun by KillerMuffin on 05-29-2002
What is the purpose of this forum? begun by KillerMuffin on 06-01-2002
Would you?? begun by For A Reason on 06-11-2002
Do you think begun by Rick DeVille on 06-21-2002
Free speech and Censorship vs Editing begun by monster666 on 07-04-2002
moderator responsibilities begun by cymbidia on 07-05-2002
If you are thinking about posting a personal ad here begun by WriterDom on 07-18-2002
Have you ever heard the voice of anyone else from this forum? begun by DRxBlue on 07-23-2002
A surprisingly, um, sensitive bunch. begun by Lancecastor on 08-05-2002
Say hello to the new boss... begun by RisiaSkye on 01-05-2003

 

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Gender and Sex

question about females begun by rambling man on 02-28-2002
men and women begun by EBETH on 07-08-2002

 

[NemoAlia]

Genital Torture

'Genital Torture' begun by Andreina on 05-26-2002
Does this really work? begun by Cirrus on 06-21-2002

 

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Gorean

Gor- begun by Alley Cat on 03-24-2002

 

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Health

Do any of you drink/do drugs while playing? begun by BlondGirl on 04-27-2002
chronic pain relief from flogging? begun by Dustygrrl on 05-29-2002
S&M = Sexual Addiction? begun by broken_halo on 06-16-2002
IUDs begun by NemoAlia on 06-25-2002
self expression begun by mskittykatt on 07-10-2002
sex and hunger begun by paquin on 07-13-2002
Menstrual flow? begun by PlayDoe on 07-17-2002
Damn...this is really starting to get me down. begun by Cirrus on 07-30-2002
question for experienced dom/mes begun by unregistered on 08-01-2002

 

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Humiliation

Degradation & Humiliation begun by Cherry on 03-13-2002
Sweet verbal humiliation begun by inferiormale on 04-08-2002
Humiliation ideas begun by sudoenim on 03-25-2002
Humiliation begun by Freya2 on 12-31-2002

 

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Humor

Normal is boring. begun by Azwed on 03-02-2002
You know you're submissive when..... begun by MissTaken on 03-06-2002
Tell all parrot begun by HotXBunz on 03-11-2002
"Spankings Make You Smarter!" begun by Richard49 on 03-18-2002
A story that made me laugh in my class this morning. begun by Azwed on 03-18-2002
Kinky Cartoons begun by James Blandings on 03-29-2002
Tickling the Ivory begun by Frouwa_Aph on 04-25-2002
D/s Humour begun by Sex & Diamonds on 04-09-2002
BDSM in daily life begun by Quint on 04-26-2002
A Sunday morning funny moment begun by cymbidia on 06-04-2002
Bondage/Dominance Sadism/Masochism Purity Test begun by cymbidia on 06-12-2002
Another Unintentional Funny...... begun by SpectreT on 06-22-2002
My lighthearted thought of the day begun by Quint on 07-07-2002
BDSM Bumper Stickers begun by Quint on 07-10-2002
Finally, some mainstream acceptance!! begun by WriterDom on 07-29-2002
For my straight girl friends begun by MzChrista on 08-04-2002
English to Lit Translation Guide begun by CarolineOh on 08-08-2002
Bloopers BDSM Style!!! begun by lillum on 09-30-2002

 

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In/compatability

Sexually Incapatibility, or What can I do if he bores me? begun by Midnight Angel on 02-24-2002
My weird mind begun by Myst on 03-01-2002
Hi I'm new and I have a question begun by tinybear on 05-07-2002
There have been threads about getting your nilla spouse to walk on the kink side begun by WriterDom on 06-05-2002
An open question for submissives of all types begun by DVS on 07-30-2002
does anyone have any advice? begun by vylette on 07-15-2002

 

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Introspection

Sound and emotions begun by Shadowsdream on 06-28-2002
Today's question is... begun by foxinsox on 06-28-2002
Tips for the Future begun by Snazzona on 07-04-2002
How do the eyes speak ? begun by Shadowsdream on 07-14-2002
Patience begun by spankableBelle on 08-02-2002
whimper begun by Shadowsdream on 07-21-2002
feeling ashamed about what you feel/are begun by Andreina on 07-24-2002

 

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Leftovers/Marks

Advice needed: covering marks begun by RisiaSkye on 02-28-2002
Next day sensations or Left overs. begun by pierced_boy on 04-16-2002
How do you get rid of rope burn? begun by Cirrus on 07-07-2002

 

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Lifestyle

Lifestyle? Fetish? Kink? begun by MissTaken on 02-23-2002
Just a quick question.... begun by lovetoread on 03-05-2002
bdsm versus your 'real life' - coming out begun by petrel on 02-24-2002
Lack of Sex in the BDSM Scene begun by Rubyfruit on 03-29-2002
A Very Interesting Article begun by James Blandings on 04-24-2002
Sub-dar? Domdar? begun by Never on 05-13-2002
Why Do We Do What We Do? begun by Glaive37 on 05-04-2002
BDSM is all about control. No, BDSM is all about trust and power transference. Eh? begun by KillerMuffin on 06-04-2002
A Preponderance of Predators begun by cellis on 06-15-2002
marrige and BDSM begun by ltlwitch on 05-23-2002
Powerplay, frequency...a question begun by modest mouse on 07-05-2002
Levels of Submission and Domination... begun by *bratcat* on 07-06-2002
Longevity of the Lifestyle begun by EBETH on 07-06-2002
Just a few ?'s (if u dont mind) begun by Snazzona on 07-05-2002
Lesbian Daddis/bois: Why we ID this way begun by KestralWolfe on 06-22-2002
Emotions and play begun by Cirrus on 07-16-2002
observation/question for BDSM folks... begun by buckminsterfutt on 07-11-2002
Question about the building blocks of BDSM begun by KillerMuffin on 07-28-2002
BDSM: Inclusion or Exclusion, Why? begun by MsWorthy on 08-07-2002

 

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Limits

Dom/mes have limits too, don't they? begun by RisiaSkye on 05-29-2002
Pushing hard limits begun by KillerMuffin on 05-27-2002
what happens in unusual circumstancess begun by Kirabeth on 06-25-2002
Pushing past fears begun by cymbidia on 06-09-2002
Hopefully not too stupid a question begun by SubbieHubbie on 07-06-2002
I find the whole "no limits" thing a bit unrealistic. begun by WriterDom on 07-02-2002
Houston, we have a limit begun by Cirrus on 07-24-2002
C is for Consensual...that's good enough for me begun by Quint on 07-29-2002
Just a question... begun by Kitte on 07-30-2002
Subs and the right to say no begun by Cirrus on 08-02-2002

 

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Links

stylish male leather clothing begun by voodoo bob on 03-11-2002
BDSM Themed E-cards/Art Sites begun by cymbidia on 03-19-2002
BDSM info websites? begun by cyn1959 on 06-02-2002
BDSM Shopping begun by tr65 on 06-25-2002
Online links for shops begun by Euqinom on 07-05-2002
Ebay is no longer bdsm friendly. begun by WriterDom on 07-12-2002
Good info sites for those just coming to BDSM begun by cymbidia on 03-21-2002

 

[NemoAlia]

Literature

I need a good spanking story. begun by cymbidia on 02-24-2002
Reading materials begun by MissTaken on 02-23-2002
He tied her up, does that make it BDSM? begun by KillerMuffin on 03-10-2002
Change in Writing Focus Re: BDSM begun by Tatewaki on 03-31-2002
I judged a book by its cover begun by Quint on 05-28-2002
first bdsm story begun by wolf2002 on 05-30-2002
A Master's Orders: become a slut begun by Pure on 06-25-2002
Has anyone seen the movie "The Piano Teacher"? begun by activesense on 06-27-2002
The Queen of Hearts, a classic Dominatrix? begun by Never on 07-11-2002
Beautiful Nessus... begun by foxinsox on 03-27-2002
New to bondage stories begun by masteriousman on 07-26-2002
Plagiarized story alert begun by cymbidia on 07-30-2002

 

[NemoAlia]

Magic

Sex Magic begun by Dustygrrl on 04-24-2002

 

[NemoAlia]

Masochism

Submissive but not Masochistic? begun by Rubyfruit on 04-05-2002
Why is it that... begun by katzeyez on 05-08-2002

 

[NemoAlia]

Music

Scenic music begun by Lain on 02-28-2002
Music for Subs to sob too begun by pierced_boy on 03-26-2002
Power begun by Quint on 07-12-2002
BDSM and Music begun by FungiUg on 02-11-2003

 

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Newcomers

To those who are new here begun by cymbidia on 05-09-2002
New faces, come say hello... begun by RisiaSkye on 05-05-2002

 

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Nilla

Not quite Nilla... begun by Guru on 04-23-2002
Statistically, what "flavors" of sex do you have? begun by BlondGirl on 04-27-2002
Has dissatisfaction with 'nilla sex ever driven you to celibacy? begun by DRxBlue on 05-14-2002
Ok, I do have a question. Forgive me if it's been discussed. begun by pagancowgirl on 05-29-2002
Do You Like Vanilla Discovery Moments? begun by Lancecastor on 08-07-2002
vanilla sex & BDSM? begun by Andreina on 08-07-2002

 

[NemoAlia]

Nipples

nipple clamps begun by HotXBunz on 03-03-2002

 

[NemoAlia]

Online Experiences

Finding your match on line.... begun by MissTaken on 02-23-2002
Online D/s ... fave orders for subs begun by JamieFraser on 3-17-2002
alt*****style.master-slave discussion begun by cymbidia on 03-21-2002
The Jovanovich Case in New York begun by lavendar on 04-22-2002
Jovanovich begun by Sandia on 07-31-2002
The Online Predator begun by WriterDom on 05-04-2002
submissives...do you get approached by Dom/mes online? begun by ShadowsDream on 05-06-2002
Question: Addressing Doms/mes on line begun by MissTaken on 05-28-2002
A Question to Online DSers begun by James Blandings on 05-29-2002
Connection? begun by Lancecastor on 06-25-2002
Establishing trust begun by foxinsox on 02-23-2002
I've found myself an online Master... begun by vixenshe on 07-11-2002
When a sub needs her Master's comforting... begun by vixenshe on 07-18-2002

 

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Oral Sex

Oral begun by AnonymousSlave on 03-16-2002
Bondage.com vs alt.com? begun by tr65 on 07-19-2002
Feed Back Please begun by Shadowsdream on 07-23-2002
Mouth-Fucking and Gagging begun by P.B. Walker on 01-01-2003

 

[NemoAlia]

Orgasms

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[NemoAlia]

Pain/Sensation

What is "Pain"? begun by cymbidia on 02-24-2002
pain pleasure principle begun by petrel on 04-17-2002
Ice begun by ShyGuy68 on 03-01-2002
Focusing On Pain begun by CarolineOh on 06-09-2002
I am thinking that I want to feel... begun by *bratcat* on 06-30-2002
Is Agony ever Ecstasy begun by Shadowsdream on 07-26-2002
How to enable pain to become pleasure? begun by boz on 07-30-2002
What I find works for me with pain, and pleasure. begun by vxsannahvx on 08-03-2002