Being attracted to a friends partner

I have had a couple of friends with wives who I have been attracted to and fantasised about and then crossed the line with. I knew both guys were cheating on their wives which doesn't excuse what I did nor does the fact that both were after heavy drinking, flirting and partying. I still have friends with girlfriends or wives who I am attracted to, some who are outrageous flirts but never go any further. One of my best friends made me even more hot for his wife when he showed me pictures of her naked and then a short clip filmed on his phone of her masturbating, now I think of her more than ever but it is most definitely just an attraction and fantasy. It works both ways though because I know my wife has flirted with my friends, she has admitted she finds a couple of them attractive and one of them who makes her very horny whenever she thinks of him and especially if she has flirted with him.
 
One of my friends husband told me once that he knew if he wanted too he could have me... And it was true I was attracted to him and in that moment he became even more so.

I was single but I just couldn't do it. To her or them or our friendship
 
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A girlfriend in college invited me to have sex with her boyfriend as a birthday present (the three of us). I would never have sex with a friend's partner behind her back.
 
Being attracted to a friend's partner AND to the friend...at the same time...

My Best friend's husband... and my best friend!...At the same time!... They have such a hot relationship...always touching each other...truly affection...and respect for each other...put those two traits together...equals confidence. and mmmm confidence in a person is very sexy...Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...neither one is a drop dead knock-out but the way they love each other...the lust that oozes from them...to me is almost as addictive as a drug, I'd drop my panties in a heart beat if they ever asked me if I was interested...I fantasized about joining them almost every time I'm around them....mmm They make a threesome seem so natural...like it's just suppose happened...I find myself trading which one I'll start my fantasy with ...If it's him...I think about just walk up to him...not saying a word...kneel down in front of him...looking up-at him my eyes locked on his while I gently pull out his beautiful soft cock...I kiss it...I start sucking on it ...while still just looking deep into his eyes...I reaches around and grabs a handful of my hair...and pushes my mouth hard up against his now fully hard...erect..throbbing cock...and just when I go to swallow it ...I feel on soft pair of hands caressing my big full ass, I turn my head with a throat full of cock.. to see my girl friend kneeling down besides me reaching for his balls...I let his cock slip out of my mouth...and her mouth found mine...and we kiss...deep...tongues...sounds...fucking each others mouth...damn I have so many different fantasizes...scenarios doing her first.....doing him first...all of us just starting...someday...it will happen...someday...

Thankyou for that wonderful detailed reply :)
 
One time a friend's gf tried to get me to fuck her but I told her I couldn't do that to my friend

Another time this one girl a friend of mine liked stayed at my house because she couldn't stay at my friend's. All night she asked to see my cock, say she was kidding then ask to see it again. My friend even told me I could show her if I wanted. Later on at my house, she told me I could stay with her in my bed but I opted to stay on the couch because I still had a sense of loyalty to this friend, even though he screwed me over a ton in the past. In hindsight I should have done it, she was hot and they never got together... even though we both wrote a song about her
 
I have a huge attraction for a friends wife. I'm fairly certain they both know. We did some skinny dipping once and I couldn't stop staring
 
One of my friends husband told me once that he knew if he wanted too he could have me... And it was true I was attracted to him and in that moment he became even more so.

I was single but I just couldn't do it. To her or them or our friendship.
Immensely proud to say I walked away because it was hard.
Helped me understand how easily you could cheat though.

Yes - could be a very easy thing to fall into :)
 
For me, if a woman is spoken for and I know the guy, I lose attraction.

Yes. This is not my thing at all. My girls are the best, and while their hubs are great guys, just no.
Couldn't do that.
Right now there is a guy who makes a beeline for me as soon as his wife leaves. It leaves me cold. So, to piss him off, I flirt with his wife as much as possible.
It may be having the opposite effect, though. I need to gather myself and rethink.
 
friends wife

my little girl met a new friend at school and they decided to sleep over, I got the job to drop her off and meet the parents....not always fun...anyway, ever since I met Kristie she game me a big long hug and after that we always hugged when we would drop kids off etc...l was curious if she had an interest in me and asked a female friend who said yes...next time I saw her was just this past 4th of July ....she picked up my daughter and I had a few drinks in me...we hugged she told us where she was taking my daughter and I tried to give my daughter some money...Kristie said no problem it was all taken care of...I said," I like they way that sounds, I'll have to make it up to you.." and slapped her in the ass, she said," ooh...I like that..." we had a laugh and she left....I wonder what she meant by that....I spanked her pretty hard...
 
Best friend's wife man. So fucking sexy. Never would under any circumstances, but maybe that's an element of why I think she's so hot!
 
My first was our close friend. I have had many of hubby's friends and many mutual friends.
 
Some of my buddies wives or girlfriends are pretty hot. A different time or place I'd fuck them. But it wouldn't be worth risking my marriage or my friendships.
 
Had a smokin' affair with my cousin's wife.

My god that woman loved fellatio.

I really enjoyed her thrashing around with my head buried between her legs too but one time she nearly squeezed my brains out when she clamped down on me as she had a massive orgasm.

She was in Montreal though so after our initial fling it was hard to get together discreetly.
i first started off exposing my wife's tits while we were at the club dancing id behind her dancing and lift up her blouse and bra letting every guy around us see her perfect 34 b tits she was shocked the first time and got mad and embarrassed that i would do such a thing shes always been very shy and very conservative as time went on id do it more often frequent and learned the drunker she was the less she cared about would even grind her ass harder against my cock and wouldn't try to cover her tits eventually over time i started wanting to watch her dancing with another guy watching him exposing her tits and fondling her tits started picturing me and another guy tag teaming her i nvr told her any of this yrs before we got married my cousin got drunk while we were camping and confessed how much he would like to fuck her eventually I decided to see what might happen and with out her thinking anything about it i invited him to come out to the club with us for Halloween weekend this particular year i was dressed as a teacher and my wife was dressed as a naughty school girl in a short brown plaid skirt and tight white button up blouse with top few buttons undone showing a lot of cleavage for her she was completely out of her comfort zone showing so much skin as the drinks started going down the less she cared or noticed me inching her skirt up showing the tops of her stockings and bottoms of her ass cheeks to my cousin dancing close by or any other guys around us after a while while my cousin and I were outside smoking i got the idea to tell my cousin to dance with her and that he had my permission to see do anything he
 
Many years ago I had an attraction to my best friends girlfriend eventually fiancé. She wasn’t particularly beautiful but there was definitely chemistry between us. We wanted each other desperately but she wasn’t with my best friend and I was married. One night while he was in jail and my wife was working late we went out for a few drinks. She wasn’t particularly beautiful extremely physical with me and I had all to do to keep my hands off her, after all she was with my best friend. It was a late night and when I drove her home we ended up making out in front of her parents house. I was so fuckin horny my cock was like a rock and sticking out of the leg of my shorts. With that her sister who I had previously dated pulled up and that was the end of it. Looking back, the least I could have done was take care of her needs while he was incarcerated 😉
If only…
 
Many years ago a strange set of circumstances resulting in my spending a few months at my best friend's house. We had been best friends growing up, but he married his high school sweetheart and moved out of state with her. She and I never got along--probably due to some mutual jealousy, the fact is she did not like me and I did not like her. Well, I ended up at their house, and the three of us spent a lot of time together. Lisa and I got to know each other, and we actually started like one another. Whatever caused us to dislike each other disappeared. The two of them were fighting frequently, mostly over stupid things. I stayed out of it, but I could not help but observe that he was treating her badly. So I started compensating and was extra nice to her to try and keep the peace in the house. One day, near the end of my stay there, I was injured. I can't remember what happened, but I ended up staying home from work that day, which was also my day off. She was caring for my injury, and as a result we were physically very close. She was dressing my wound, which was a very intimate process. We looked into each other's eyes, and the attraction between us was so strong. I wanted her and she wanted me. It was not just physical, but emotional as well. It would have taken no effort at all to get her into bed and to make love to her all afternoon. But I resisted the urge. He was my best friend, and I could not betray him like that. I think she was grateful that we did not consummate our attraction. By not going forward, she and I became closer. The sexual tension between us was broken. The rest of my stay was not awkward or difficult. Instead, we became friends on a deeper level. Before I left I talked to my friend, and I told him that he had a good wife and he should treat her better. She was not perfect, but neither was he, and his tone and some of his behaviors were unnecessary. I don't think anyone else could have given him this advice free of charge. Anyway, things between them improved and they are still together decades later.
 
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