Bi guys, what is special about sex with a man?

There's a cocklust that I've only found in men that manifests as the best blowjobs I have ever gotten in my life. I'm getting sucked by someone who really enjoys it and it shows. Lately, I've been having thoughts about shaved smooth 20 year old bottoms and the kind of noises I can get from them by using their cocks as fuck handles. I guess I'm turning into a dirty old man. Lol
 
Bi guys, what do you like about sex with another man?

Besides the obvious...a meaty hard cock to fill your mouth or plunder your ass.

I like the idea that sex with another man is 'forbidden' and I 'shouldn't' desire it as much as I do.

I'm vain enough to be flattered that I can arouse a man, and that he gets hard because he's attracted to me. That makes me feel really desirable, then horny. I feel like it's my job to satisfy him because I've aroused him, and give him the very best sex and release.

I like the smell and taste of a man...his body, his cock

I like that I know cocks, since I have my own. His will be different but familiar, and I know how to get him off.

I like that I can be 110% sensual and unihibitedly sexual with him, but stay emotionally distant.

I like that he has a hairy and hopefully muscular body (though I enjoy a smaller, slightly built fem guy from time to time) I have more experience in bed with women with their smaller, softer bodies, so a nude masculine body is novel and a special treat. I love to feel his muscles and his strength

The few guys that I've kissed were stronger and more demanding, agressive kissers in a really good way.

I like that either of us can be the leader, the dominant lover. I can yield to him or not. Sometimes I'll take him any way I want, sometimes he will take me. I can give myself to him, even letting him use me while I surrender to his strength, passion and carnal needs. Or we can be equal, like when we're 69'ing or stroking each other.

The sex can be nearly anonymous. Sometimes I don't even give him my real name, and there's never been a second 'date'

There are no emotional ties, bonds or promises. It's just raw sexual needs and satisfaction.

A man's ass is usually tighter than a woman's, and so is his hole.

I love that his knob is soft and delicate, even when he is hard and plunging into my mouth with all he's got

I still enjoy straight sex, but these are the things I like about sex with a man.

I like the illusion of taking the submissive role while having a real man pound me into bliss while filling me with seed.
 
It’s just sex. You know what you want and how to get there. Suck/fuck/cum or just suck & cum. No emotional connection. No intentions of baking cookies, measuring for carpet,watching cheap romance movie or listening to show tunes.
Show up, get in; nut; Go home. Rawness and no strings.

All fit nicely into a nut shell!! :cool:
 
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I think it's the uninhibited no nonsense sexuality.... and having my ass stretched a little beyond comfort and just before pain.
Yeah, that's it!
 
Perceiving it as sex between two masculine people has no appeal to me, because I'm trans. Even sex where a feminine trans person penetrates a masculine person is no good for me.
I fantasize about being the receptive feminine partner in anal sex from a man or trans person with a cock but I've only ever been given that with a strapon.
I dress in a feminine way when I use toys and it wouldn't work for me if I didn't.
All about perception of both ourselves and our partners I suppose.
 
My love of man sex is all about being submissive, the need to have a cock penetrate me.

Sure, I'll let another man blow me, and I'll even fuck him. And there was a time when I would have thought that's the only way I would indulge in gay sex. But being a top really doesn't do much for me. Topping is just going through the motions, because I feel the need to reciprocate. The other guy has needs, too.

The thing that really turns me on is being a bottom. I've not yet been fucked in the ass, but I absolutely love having a cock in my mouth. I love the taste, and I love the texture -- the hard shaft under the soft skin. Most of all, I love the sense of being dominated by that cock. It's glorious.

And yet, I don't feel feminine in any way. I don't see myself as a sissy, and I have no desire to wear women's clothes. Nor do I have any desire to give up women (I'm currently dreaming about a young physical therapist who has great tits and an ass to match).

But when I jerk off later tonight, it will most likely be inspired by thoughts of cock, perhaps multiple cocks.
 
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My love of man sex is all about being submissive, the need to have a cock penetrate me.

Sure, I'll let another man blow me, and I'll even fuck him. And there was a time when I would have thought that's the only way I would indulge in gay sex. But being a top really doesn't do much for me. Topping is just going through the motions, because I feel the need to reciprocate. The other guy has needs, too.

The thing that really turns me on is being a bottom. I've not yet been fucked in the ass, but I absolutely love having a cock in my mouth. I love the taste, and I love the texture -- the hard shaft under the soft skin. Most of all, I love the sense of being dominated by that cock. It's glorious.

And yet, I don't feel feminine in any way. I don't see myself as a sissy, and I have no desire to wear women's clothes. Nor do I have any desire to give up women (I'm currently dreaming about a young physical therapist who has great tits and an ass to match).

But when I jerk off later tonight, it will most likely be inspired by thoughts of cock, perhaps multiple cocks.
i agree whole hearted give me a blue jean wearing guy no fems no sissy they arnt gurls ther guys wearing dresses so i dont need no false advertising give me a hard cock and say your a man
 
As a bi guy who's not very submissive or feminine and who has no romantic/emotional interest in men, I've always been drawn to gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation. I've always loved my own cock, balls, ass, and cum--why wouldn't I love another guy's? I'm a big fan of the penis.

And like masturbation, gay sex for me would be purely phsyical/sexual pleasure with no anxiety or emotional issues involved, which I have often experienced with women, since I'm attracted to them in a much deeper way.

Women are the complete package for me and men are not---but I must admit I love cock!
 
The guys I've been with for the most part are more aggressive and dominant. His pleasure making his dick and body feel good is what excites me. What they've seen in porn is what I want him to do with me.
 
It’s just sex. You know what you want and how to get there. Suck/fuck/cum or just suck & cum. No emotional connection. No intentions of baking cookies, measuring for carpet,watching cheap romance movie or listening to show tunes.
Show up, get in; nut; Go home. Rawness and no strings.

All fit nicely into a nut shell!! :cool:
Pretty much that. Zero expectations other than pleasure.
 
I do love feeling the emotional connection with a man, that intimacy, feeling his warm naked male body close to mine. And love love love kissing another passionate man, just so intense, so hungry. Love the feel of a man's body, feeling his strength, love the smell of a sweaty man, it really turns me on.
 
I do love feeling the emotional connection with a man, that intimacy, feeling his warm naked male body close to mine. And love love love kissing another passionate man, just so intense, so hungry. Love the feel of a man's body, f arms and surrendering to himeeling his strength, love the smell of a sweaty man, it really turns me on.
You speak for me as well. There is nothing like surrendering in a pair of strong arms.
 

Bi guys, what is special about sex with a man?----or a ladyboy--like my ex bf preferred always. i didnt get a proper answer from him. i am curious. can any poster here explain as to what is so special about a male orifice?girls too have it., and more than that.​

 
Oh hell yes. I need it just like that. My life is not complete unless I have it like that. Hard and penetrating, taking and using me, please!
I like how powerful a hard cock is, and how a hard cock feels in my hands.
There's more of course, but I will comment on that later.
 
Bi guys, what do you like about sex with another man?

Besides the obvious...a meaty hard cock to fill your mouth or plunder your ass.

I like the idea that sex with another man is 'forbidden' and I 'shouldn't' desire it as much as I do.

I'm vain enough to be flattered that I can arouse a man, and that he gets hard because he's attracted to me. That makes me feel really desirable, then horny. I feel like it's my job to satisfy him because I've aroused him, and give him the very best sex and release.

I like the smell and taste of a man...his body, his cock

I like that I know cocks, since I have my own. His will be different but familiar, and I know how to get him off.

I like that I can be 110% sensual and unihibitedly sexual with him, but stay emotionally distant.

I like that he has a hairy and hopefully muscular body (though I enjoy a smaller, slightly built fem guy from time to time) I have more experience in bed with women with their smaller, softer bodies, so a nude masculine body is novel and a special treat. I love to feel his muscles and his strength

The few guys that I've kissed were stronger and more demanding, agressive kissers in a really good way.

I like that either of us can be the leader, the dominant lover. I can yield to him or not. Sometimes I'll take him any way I want, sometimes he will take me. I can give myself to him, even letting him use me while I surrender to his strength, passion and carnal needs. Or we can be equal, like when we're 69'ing or stroking each other.

The sex can be nearly anonymous. Sometimes I don't even give him my real name, and there's never been a second 'date'

There are no emotional ties, bonds or promises. It's just raw sexual needs and satisfaction.

A man's ass is usually tighter than a woman's, and so is his hole.

I love that his knob is soft and delicate, even when he is hard and plunging into my mouth with all he's got

I still enjoy straight sex, but these are the things I like about sex with a man.
 
Bi guys, what do you like about sex with another man?

Besides the obvious...a meaty hard cock to fill your mouth or plunder your ass.

I like the idea that sex with another man is 'forbidden' and I 'shouldn't' desire it as much as I do.

I'm vain enough to be flattered that I can arouse a man, and that he gets hard because he's attracted to me. That makes me feel really desirable, then horny. I feel like it's my job to satisfy him because I've aroused him, and give him the very best sex and release.

I like the smell and taste of a man...his body, his cock

I like that I know cocks, since I have my own. His will be different but familiar, and I know how to get him off.

I like that I can be 110% sensual and unihibitedly sexual with him, but stay emotionally distant.

I like that he has a hairy and hopefully muscular body (though I enjoy a smaller, slightly built fem guy from time to time) I have more experience in bed with women with their smaller, softer bodies, so a nude masculine body is novel and a special treat. I love to feel his muscles and his strength

The few guys that I've kissed were stronger and more demanding, agressive kissers in a really good way.

I like that either of us can be the leader, the dominant lover. I can yield to him or not. Sometimes I'll take him any way I want, sometimes he will take me. I can give myself to him, even letting him use me while I surrender to his strength, passion and carnal needs. Or we can be equal, like when we're 69'ing or stroking each other.

The sex can be nearly anonymous. Sometimes I don't even give him my real name, and there's never been a second 'date'

There are no emotional ties, bonds or promises. It's just raw sexual needs and satisfaction.

A man's ass is usually tighter than a woman's, and so is his hole.

I love that his knob is soft and delicate, even when he is hard and plunging into my mouth with all he's got

I still enjoy straight sex, but these are the things I like about sex with a man.
Our bodies, pheromones, hormones, chemistry,the balance, social, other sciences. We have male female hormones, pheromones we secrete different amounts, brain chemistry regulates and recently science research suggests thoughts ,stress, and environment can effects, can increase orgasm intensity or diminish it. Your answer is fairly accurate. Your mindset settles and balances chemistry.
 
My favorite part is that it's purely sexual. The experiences I've had with men are meant only for the physical pleasure and there's no tie-in with emotions, with friendship, with feelings, and it's that raw, natural physical experience that I love.

A cock is meant to be sucked and I know how good it feels so swapping bjs or sucking a man's cock just to give him pleasure is fun for me. It's uncomplicated fun.
 
I'm not attracted to men, and that is actually part of the appeal. It makes me feel like a prostitute. A female prostitute.

I especially love it when the guy's cock is considerably bigger than mine (as it usually is). I like to press them together and compare them, anticipating how it is going to feel fully inserted in my anus.

I like to feel an assertive hand on my shoulder, and being pushed to my knees like I have seen so many porn girls treated. In my mind at that moment I look like they do. ❤️
 
It’s all about sparking desire. I want to be wanted and I know how to make a man want me—by being a submissive sissy slut. And the other way around, when a submissive sissy goes all out to please you. It’s raw and passionate.
 
Too true. I love to surrender myself to the passion, and enjoy a man's body, especially his hard cock.
I agree with hitchiker69...I too just surrender myself to the passion. I was much younger the first time I experienced a cock, it seemed natural. I too tend to connect on an emotional level more with women and on a sexual level with men. I remember the first time I saw another man's hard cock...I was drawn to it. When I say I surrender myself to the passion, I'm not referring to being submissive and surrendering control over to another man, although I have at times. I'm talking about when I see a man's cock, I may be drawn to him because of his cock. It's not like when I'm drawn to a woman, there's much more going on there. When I'm drawn to a man, it's clearly about sex, and always about his cock. Men suck cock on the average better than women, regardless of what they claim. I love everything about a cock, the look, the taste...the passion...

Most women don't get it, they think they suck cock better than anybody, and most feel intimidated by their man when he's attracted to cock...I get that. But at the end of the day, I wish I had a guy with an amazing cock I could call on regularly when I need.....a cock.
 
If you are a single man it’s simply easier to find a man to have sex with than finding a woman. There aren’t all the complications. Often times it’s possible to have a man’s cock in you mouth less than ten minutes after meeting. I’ve never met a woman for the first time and started eating her pussy that quickly.
 
If you are a single man it’s simply easier to find a man to have sex with than finding a woman. There aren’t all the complications. Often times it’s possible to have a man’s cock in you mouth less than ten minutes after meeting. I’ve never met a woman for the first time and started eating her pussy that quickly.
I need to hang out with you one night then... Teach me the ways!
 
Bi guys, what do you like about sex with another man?

Besides the obvious...
There's an entirely different level of intimacy between men than between a man and a woman. It's a frank, raw connection; one without secrets or misunderstandings from the outset. Men are more candid with other men about what they want and what they want to do. We talk during sex, making demands and exclamations and requests. Sex with a man is rarely awkward because there is that deep understanding of each other's pleasure.

You can't be as frank with a woman, especially not the first time you have sex. the dialogue, at least that first time, sounds like two people trying to defuse a bomb. Don't get me wrong, the tension and uncertainty definitely heightens the experience, but it's usually very awkward and "off" the first time. As you get together more often, you develop your own communication between you, but it's always a work in progress.

Male sex, if you just listen to the dialogue, sounds like a list of demands, but it's not; it's two people guiding each other to the orgasm they are both looking for. Sometimes it sounds almost "work-like" and that's because even with the first encounter we know what we each other likes--at least in general--and if it turns out your lover/fuck buddy/whatever doesn't like something, they just say so and you move on.

Also the communication doesn't usually stop once the sex is over. Men who are likeminded have shit they like to talk about, fucking is just a bonus at that stage.
 
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