Blow and Go

[Very_Bad_Man]

The OP posted a fantasy scenario and used derogatory language because it gets him off. Doesn't mean he thinks all women are dumb cunts. It means he thinks a fictional woman who goes nuts on his cock while her husband's on his way home is a dumb cunt. I fantasise WAY outside my kinky comfort zone and that's coming from a woman who's experienced a lot of kinky stuff in my real life, with men and women, including submitting to a woman as her slave for 4 years.

This is the fetish fantasy forum, so the OP should be able to post what he likes. If this was a feminist forum, then he could be accused of prejudice and seeking to offend people. Here, the rules of engagement are whatever you make them. His rules will be very different to someone like Stella Omega's. The apples and oranges of this spat are just ridiculous to me.

So far as politics, employment, society and whatever goes, I absolutely support equal rights for women, homosexuals, TGs, bisexuals, whatever. But that doesn't mean I don't also support a heterosexual man's right to his own sexual fantasies. It's not like the guy's planning on going out and face-raping some housewife, he's just writing what turns him on. It may not be politically correct but no more is the nasty shit that makes my cunt food. If I have the right, as a free thinking feminist, to submit to a man as his slave and have all manner of control and pain inflicted on me, for my own gratification, then hetero men have the same right to want to be the aggressors - consensually, with women who crave dominance, sadism and humiliation.

Freedom of speech and of sexuality extends to everyone, within the bounds of the law and adult-consensuality. People with strong views about sexual discrimination just appear bitter and even narrow minded by maligning hetero men every time they open their mouths. This guy has as much right to be an asshole as Stella Omega does to be a beautiful, unique snowflake. Pissing on his OP was needless and mean-spirited IMO. You could have just snickered to yourself, clicked out of the thread and kept your derisive opinion to yourself.

As a bisexual woman it just baffles me how much enmity there can be between groups of people who have a more discriminating orientation. Equality and non-judgement must be striven for and embraced by everyone, not just the hetero-normative majority.

No, I really do think women are dumb cunts or at least one of them.

You stated my thoughts beautifully. I have many facets to my personality and my sexuality. I am heterosexual man who generally wear a suit or a uniform as my occupation demands. By all outwardly appearance I am a refined gentleman and extremely well mannered. I love the theatre and fine dining. As a globalist I have many opportunities to travel and experience women from all walks of life and I cherish them all.

I am a romantic at heart but like everybody I have a dark side to my personality as well. I love sex and I love women and I am very willing to do what it takes to fulfill their carnal desires as it fits within my heterosexual preferences as well as certain boundaries I have set.

For example I get no pleasure at beating a woman's ass with a cat of 9 tails yet if this gets her off I will beat her ass though I will never take her past the safe word she sets.

Do I hate or disrespect the lady afterwards? Hell no. What we as sexual beings crave within our dark secretive world of depraved carnality is not necessarily who we are to the world at large.

Did I use my cousins wife in the above manner? Yes I did. Do I think less of her? No. She loves to be used in this manner but like many men he cannot see past his love for her and the pedestal he placed beneath her feet. He cannot see her inner slut. Outside of our casual trysts she is a very sweet PTA mommy who I adore. Do I feel guilty? Fuck no. My dark side is a very bad man.

For an alleged liberal website and in the fetish section to boot it is ridiculous to be as close minded as I have seen some be here.

 

[fuckmeat]

Eh, you're right, fuckmeat. You've been able to explain to me in language I can respect-- thank you.

Bad_man; I apologise, and I swear to you I will not let my own reactions color my responses to you this way again. And in fact, it's damn good writing, which might be partly why I reacted so strongly.

If you repost your OP perhaps this thread will settle to the bottom of the mud where I have shoved it.

Thanks.

I know I maybe reacted a little strongly to what was a silly altercation but I guess smart-assed masochists like me just can't help running their whore mouths.

 

[Felix_Jones]

that's from a slut walk. i was at the LA one. fun time...and a good cause!!

I predict slutwalks are going to be the next entry on The List of Stuff White People Like. Kind of like hating your parents and assists.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

Eh, you're right, fuckmeat. You've been able to explain to me in language I can respect-- thank you.

Bad_man; I apologise, and I swear to you I will not let my own reactions color my responses to you this way again. And in fact, it's damn good writing, which might be partly why I reacted so strongly.

If you repost your OP perhaps this thread will settle to the bottom of the mud where I have shoved it.

Sorry did not see your apology.

Accepted and forgotten

 

[fuckmeat]

Edited, missed VBM's post while typing.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

The downside of this post is I got bombarded with PMs from horny people. I am now in the process of separating real females from dudes pretending to be female.

My rule of thumb is if they cannot voice chat anonymously on Yahoo I usually suspect it is a dude.

Who knows I may even meet a few desirable ladies.

Disclaimer: All PM's are confidential and any real life meets are discreet.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Aw shucks, I think they are all going to kiss and make up.

I was so hoping that we could screw this forum up too, and turn it into the General Board. NOT!

 

[Stella_Omega]

The downside of this post is I got bombarded with PMs from horny people. I am now in the process of separating real females from dudes pretending to be female.

My rule of thumb is if they cannot voice chat anonymously on Yahoo I usually suspect it is a dude.

The wages of sin...

Who knows I may even meet a few desirable ladies.

Disclaimer: All PM's are confidential and any real life meets are discreet.

And the rewards.

 

[quimsical]

Gawd, I'm a sucker for a happy ending :-D

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

One of the reasons this is my favorite board is because it is generally the least divisive.

Stella posted a while ago explaining this board was originally set up for and by the GLBT community. I have only been on here for a few months.

Since its inception it seems to have been taken over by the mostly Hetro folks with nary a complaint that I have seen from the GLBT people.

There are numerous threads posted here that I have no interest in so talking Sella's comments to heart I say nothing and read some other thread that does interest me.

So for this thread 3 sets of congratulations are in order.

1. Fuckmeat thank you for your very calm, clear, and insightful analysis of the pissing match.

2. Stella for taking the time to read and and think about fuckmeats post and summoning the courage to apologize to Very_Bad_Man. Bit cajones Stella.

3. Very_Bad_Man for your gracious acceptance of Stella's apology and offer to let bygones be bygones. Obviously a gentleman.

Despite the acrimony this thread started with the out come was that of reasonable adults with a bit of help from reasonable mediator.

Thanks to all who helped keep this board from becoming just an extension of the GB.

Mike