Blowing a load - quick or slow?

[Stephie02]

Yes, true. When I wrote that comment, I thought, hmmmm what about people you are just physically attracted to? Maybe you just can't control that even if your head says it's a bad idea. I can remember being intensely physically attracted to a woman I didn't even like! But I still would have given my left ball for her!

No doubt a bad boyfriend is worse than a bad girlfriend. Is a good boyfriend better than a good girlfriend? Not sure about that one!

Nope. A great girlfriend is Nirvana!

 

[BillyWalrus]

Nope. A great girlfriend is Nirvana!

I was speculating for the purpose of conversation. I do not doubt for a second you are right.

 

[lily_wall_]

Thanks I do wonder though, given the male gender's historically poor track record, why women choose men as partners. It's really a mystery to me

Something to do with what's between their leg... But that's just me

 

[BillyWalrus]

Something to do with what's between their leg... But that's just me

Thinking with the little head? Or all the craziness (aggression etc) that comes with testosterone?

 

[Stephie02]

Something to do with what's between their leg... But that's just me

It does (did) have its appeal

 

[BDA73]

Been taking some time now

 

[Samtran123]

I prefer slow too, but sometimes it is just hard to control.

 

[sandybrooke]

Coffee, cock rings and a slow stroke

 

[flint9]

One of my favorite ways to start the day

 

[Canadian1968]

Yeah but they're not all bad. I had good boyfriends. I've had bad girlfriends. i mean a bad boyfriend is worse, I think, than a bad girlfriend overall, but still. And I'm not sure but can you actually control who you're attracted to?

I crushed on a guy hard in HS that I knew was bad news, we didn't date, at least not long, if really at all? More like a bad fling I guess; anyway, I wanted him sooo bad, and got him. Our first two times having sex were amazing, but after that! Meh. Even when I didn't really like him as a person, I still wanted him physically. It's so hard to understand.

There were a few back in the day in late high school and early university days where I was fucking for sport. Short term flings last maybe a few weeks or so when the physical needs make you think ‘they were alright’ but still went back for round 2 and 3

 

[Erosfan]

It was always up to my wife. She had complete control. When she decided I was going to cum, it was going to happen. She could make me cum in a very short time or she would keep me on the edge for as long as she wanted.
One time she went on too long and as a result, I was not able to cum. We tried again the next day and everything worked just fine.

 

[Southernscot21]

My trans girlfriend always cums in me (mouth or ass) as quickly as she can. She usually blows her load in five minutes or less. One time I think she lasted ten minutes - a record for her. Sometimes she says she would like to last longer but the stimulation is too much for her and she has to cum. It's fine with me - after all my job is to make her cum.

However it got me wondering. Does your lover cum fast or slow? Do they take their time or get their rocks off as soon as they can? How do you feel about how fast they cum? Would you like it quicker or slower?

Would love to see a pic of her if you don’t mind. I’ve always fantasized about fucking a trans

 

[Love2str0ke]

Love slowly leaking, emptying my balls fully. Even better with company

 

[BillyWalrus]

Would love to see a pic of her if you don’t mind. I’ve always fantasized about fucking a trans

Done.

 

[luckyseven]

I find that unless my wife applies stimulation to the frenulum, I can last for an extended period. If I haven't had sex for a week or so, she can usually get me to cum from soft to spurt in 5 minutes. Any longer, my wife would have a sore arm and give up requiring me to finish on my own.