Bottoms: do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked?

[cubbyfire04]

If it's not being touched, my cock typically stays pretty soft (maybe 30% hard lol). It depends on how big the dick/toy/hand is in my butt. Bigger tends to move my brain's focus away from my dick. So I might stay hard for a smaller guy (but I clearly don't love it any less ). Regardless, ANY cock stimulation, and I'll get rock hard.

 

[SissySalina]

When sissy started getting fucked sissy was in chastity and could not get hard. Now after the chastity device has been removed sissy still does not get hard. Over time sissy's little thing has gotten even smaller and now barley sticks out at that is how sissy loves it. At present those hangy down things are gone and it is smoothed, that part of sissy no longer functions, sissy is a total bottom only as it should be.

 

[Umanual]

There is also a lot of stimulation going on down there and a lot of concentration on relaxing, contracting etc. when your dick gets hard it seems that all thoughts turn toward it, and wanting to get off. When I have a man inside me he’s the priority, not me.

This is part of the reason MM sex can be advantageous for the top. He need not worry about pleasing the receptive partner the way most women want to be pleased. Someone like me is happy to get them off either orally or by receiving him anally. If I get to cum during the session, so be it. Although usually I strive to avoid it. I find my senses are more aroused that way.

So, those of you who are straight(ish) or semi bi, or maybe in a sexless relationship, find a good bottom guy and use him well! It will fulfill needs for both of you.

Well stated... and so similar to myself... I am way more into pleasing the top when in a good fuck session. My penis can be ignored completely... until he he has cum and is done. I will often lick his cock as it softens... then scopp up his cum as it seeps out of my pounded hole... use it for lube and jerk off for his viewing pleasure...

 

[Swuchmann]

Well stated... and so similar to myself... I am way more into pleasing the top when in a good fuck session. My penis can be ignored completely... until he he has cum and is done. I will often lick his cock as it softens... then scopp up his cum as it seeps out of my pounded hole... use it for lube and jerk off for his viewing pleasure...

Very similar to me. Focus is always on pleasuring the top. If I cum it is after I have taken care of his needs. Many times I never cum until after my top has left.

 

[Escierto]

Very similar to me. Focus is always on pleasuring the top. If I cum it is after I have taken care of his needs. Many times I never cum until after my top has left.

Exactly right. When I am with my girlfriend I will usually jerk off in private once a week. That’s enough so that I can focus on her needs completely.

 

[Unsure2022]

I usually stay hard when something is in my ass. It feels amazing!

 

[Escierto]

I usually stay hard when something is in my ass. It feels amazing!

So you stay hard while you are being fucked?

 

[rc1989]

I haven't bottomed for a long time. I couldn't stay hard. I started off hard and would often get hard during the fucking. I would even drop some precum alot of the time. I was concentrating more on the feel of his dick and this thighs and his hands on me. His breathing and words. And also tensing my cheek and thigh muscles and anus muscles. Sliding back and forth on his dick. Too much for my brain any way to also keep my own dick hard the whole time.

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

Hard as a rock for strap-on and other toys. Double it for a real cock.

My first spoiled me and I'm still chasing that intense orgasm

 

[M_K_Babalon]

I’ve conditioned myself to stay soft during initial penetration. A good top will want nothing to do with my cock and wont try to arouse me first. Once he’s inside me, then I may get hard, or may not. Depends on a number of factors. I prefer to stay soft though, as it makes me feel more sub when getting fucked. The best thing is when my P spot gets hit and I ejaculate while soft. If you’ve never had it happen, you’re missing out.

A good unselfish top would, given preferences.

 

[M_K_Babalon]

I always lose it if I bottom. Given the number of men and transwomen I've been with, I've seen them stay hard with or without stimulation, or go soft.

 

[x8dom8x]

My domme has had me fuck my own ass with our cock and I stayed rock hard throughout. There might have been moments I went partially soft, but the complete satisfaction of being filled from behind didn't let that last long.

 

[Zumshot]

If you have a soft cock during penetration. What pleasure or sensation do you feel while you’re being fucked?

 

[PanDandy]

My penis isn’t the only way I get pleasure. When my wife penetrates me with her strapon she stimulates my prostate and all sorts of nerve endings. It’s way more intense than a penile orgasm. There’s a mental aspect a visual aspect and other body contact that makes for a stimulating time.

You're so right. When that prostate gets stimulated and milked it drives me crazy even if I'm not hard. You can feel them inside you and the outer rim when your thrusting in and out, it all feels so good without having an erection. I like being submissive so being soft while they're in me is a huge mental turn on in itself.

 

[Escierto]

You're so right. When that prostate gets stimulated and milked it drives me crazy even if I'm not hard. You can feel them inside you and the outer rim when your thrusting in and out, it all feels so good without having an erection. I like being submissive so being soft while they're in me is a huge mental turn on in itself.

Yes, a lot of it is mental. You feel the cock penetrating and your sphincter muscle opening up to take it in, it’s a wonderful sensation to be taking someone’s appendage up your ass. Literally they are entering your body with a part of their own and putting it inside you.

If it wasn’t voluntary, it would be the worst violation imaginable but since you want it, it’s like you are giving the other person a wonderful gift. Feeling them as they thrust in and out and you know that their goal is to cum inside you - there is an incredible anticipation as they get closer to climaxing.

Then you feel the cock inside pulsing and throbbing and you know that it is ejaculating a load of sperm laden semen inside your rectum. You feel such satisfaction knowing that you are being bred and that your lover has felt so much pleasure from fucking you.

My girlfriend could fuck me ten times a day and I would still want her lovely big cock deep in my ass again.

 

[Zumshot]

You're so right. When that prostate gets stimulated and milked it drives me crazy even if I'm not hard. You can feel them inside you and the outer rim when your thrusting in and out, it all feels so good without having an erection. I like being submissive so being soft while they're in me is a huge mental turn on in itself.

Your explanation was well put. I can somewhat relate because do have aneros so I do understand the feel you get from prostate stimulation. But the way you explained it sounds 10x better than the aneros auto fucking me during my session.

 

[PanDandy]

Your explanation was well put. I can somewhat relate because do have aneros so I do understand the feel you get from prostate stimulation. But the way you explained it sounds 10x better than the aneros auto fucking me during my session.

There's just nothing like a cock inside of you. Like Escierto said, they are "...literally entering your body with a part of their own." It's incredible to have that kind of physical connection in you.

I do love playing with toys too! Im into pushing the limits of what my hole can do and toys are perfect for that. I feel so sexy watching myself in the mirror, feet in the air, dildo stretching my ass. And the Aneros looks really fun to play with.

 

[bicuriousnc]

I'm not sure... why

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?

I'm not sure... I think I need a couple tops to come on over so we can find out... you know... like a science experiential..

 

[roseburgsteve]

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?

I don't usually get hard being fucked, but there has been times I have. It just depends on the connection I have to the guy fucking me. As for cumming while being fucked, yes I have cum from my ass being fucked not having a hard on and no touching of my cock. It's an incredible feeling for sure.

 

[Cherylinheels]

Hard when sucking cock especially while in lingerie. Mostly soft while being fucked which doesn't seem to keep me from cumming with a shuddering assgasm!

 

[jp8155]

I'd love to be sucking you while you're getting fucked

 

[Ciceri]

During punishment sessions I was flaccid the entire time but afterward when I was penetrated I became very rigid. I was told it was his penis bumping my prostate that made me hard but I'm not sure. A dildo did not have the same effect. Even when I ejaculated from dildo penetration I was flaccid. So something about him riding my ass - hands on my hips or shoulders.. psychological arousal

 

[Ciceri]

Both. RG sodomized me and I did not get hard. I use a dildo on myself and get hard because I jerk myself

 

[artgorden]

I always get hard but I never jack without permission

 

[Cherylinheels]

All this talk of being fucked is certainly making me hard!