Bottoms: do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked?

[Swuck]

Several tops have cum within a minute after penetration. It is what it is.

 

[Escierto]

Several tops have cum within a minute after penetration. It is what it is.

Do you feel as though you did your work too well then?

 

[Swuck]

Maybe but think the top was inexperienced and he got to excited too fast.

 

[lowcollar]

Sometimes I get soft, sometimes I stay hard. It also sometimes depends on if I am allowed to touch myself or she is giving me a reach around. It's not always the same other than me loving getting reamed.

 

[Swuck]

Sometimes I get soft, sometimes I stay hard. It also sometimes depends on if I am allowed to touch myself or she is giving me a reach around. It's not always the same other than me loving getting reamed.

The dom tops that I have fucked me aren’t interested in seeing my hard cock. They want a sissy bitch that is focused on riding his hard cock.

 

[ToniTot]

That helps clarify things for me.
As a top I love that dominant/submissive connection but I have always felt a bit guilty that I’m the only one receiving pleasure…. all but two of my experiences with guys have been oral but in all the hookups I’ve had over the past seven years (maybe around twenty) the other guy has cum maybe three or four times, and then almost reluctantly after I ask them to and tell them it turns me on when they cum.
With women it’s always been my way to ensure their pleasure before achieving mine… from what I’m reading here (and I’m really loving all these posts), typically a bottom guy receives much more pleasure from giving pleasure than being stroked and pleasured… I’ll do my best to overcome my catholic guilt and just go with the flow lol.
Odd question, but am I denying pleasure by being too considerate?

from my own xperience as a bottom and very submissive sissy, my pleasur cums from you enjoying my tongue nd mouth and getting rock hard, have lots of 4play and no rushing it, than when your swollen nuts are close to cumming I get on my knees w/my ass up and let you slide your thick cock deep inside, with my rosebud full of dick you pull out to the rim and fill me back up again , over and over, before you can empty your prize inside me I roll over on my back , put my knees on your shoulder and let you pound my tight hole until i feel your cum dumping into me as I look deep into your smiling eyes.. dont feel guilty , with the pleasure i recive from a experience like that, i should feel guilty.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Stay hard and if he hits the right spot, I shoot a load!

 

[JoeSmith2022]

I need like 6-8 guys to fuck me one after another, to see if I get hard and or cum from getting fucked.

 

[easyoff]

Stay hard and if he hits the right spot, I shoot a load!

I love to suck a guy off while he gets fucked.

 

[Beachfun51]

I go from hard to soft but usually soft !

 

[CliimaxForYou]

I love to suck a guy off while he gets fucked.

I’ve had a female Fwb that wanted to do this. Any feedback on positions that work best for this? What’s the turn on? Anything I can do to make this better for the Fwb?

 

[easyoff]

I’ve had a female Fwb that wanted to do this. Any feedback on positions that work best for this? What’s the turn on? Anything I can do to make this better for the Fwb?

I like to be on my back under the guy getting fucked. Usually a 69 happens too

 

[madlapper]

im usually hard .Sometimes taking a big dildo I will do soft till I get it all the way in.Never had a real cock just strap ons and dildos.Would love to feel a cock exploding inside me.

 

[SMwordz]

I like to be on my back under the guy getting fucked. Usually a 69 happens too

I'd like to try this with at some point. Not drawing a male/female line but I haven't experimented with males as an adult.

 

[TrailerHitch]

im usually hard .Sometimes taking a big dildo I will do soft till I get it all the way in.Never had a real cock just strap ons and dildos.Would love to feel a cock exploding inside me.

Once you have the real thing a dildo, vibrator, or strap-on will never be the same...or enough. I haven't used any toys since I found my latest partner.

 

[artgorden]

The best edging is with a dick in my ass.
The second best was with a dick in my mouth,

 

[HenryApril]

It takes me a while, but I do get hard. And there’s nothing I love more than a no-hands prostate orgasm from being assfucked.

I love knowing that I’m bringing my lover to orgasm with my asshole.

 

[james2346]

i am usually hard while having a guy inside of me probably becuase i like being on the bottom in missionary and my cock is rubbing against his stomach

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

mostly HARD unless it's too painful

 

[Swuq]

Usually soft or semi hard unless my top jerks me while he stretches my hole. Cumming while he jerks me or hands free while being fucked are orgasms that are by far the best.

 

[bottom2bang]

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?

Hard, and with the right cock(s) I can cum hands free.

 

[whiteasianlvr]

That helps clarify things for me.
As a top I love that dominant/submissive connection but I have always felt a bit guilty that I’m the only one receiving pleasure…. all but two of my experiences with guys have been oral but in all the hookups I’ve had over the past seven years (maybe around twenty) the other guy has cum maybe three or four times, and then almost reluctantly after I ask them to and tell them it turns me on when they cum.
With women it’s always been my way to ensure their pleasure before achieving mine… from what I’m reading here (and I’m really loving all these posts), typically a bottom guy receives much more pleasure from giving pleasure than being stroked and pleasured… I’ll do my best to overcome my catholic guilt and just go with the flow lol.
Odd question, but am I denying pleasure by being too considerate?

"Typically a bottom guy receives much more pleasure from giving pleasure than being stroked and pleasured.." This is so true....at least for me. It is the stimulation of submission that comes from giving oneself over to another man that underlies the psychology of total bottoms!

 

[Danskos44]

"Typically a bottom guy receives much more pleasure from giving pleasure than being stroked and pleasured.." This is so true....at least for me. It is the stimulation of submission that comes from giving oneself over to another man that underlies the psychology of total bottoms!

Very well spoken! It is the total submission to the cock you are pleasuring... and it will provide masturbation material for months to come, as you play it over and over in your mind!

 

[Rose_Button]

I've only had toys and fingers but I always stay hard.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

"Typically a bottom guy receives much more pleasure from giving pleasure than being stroked and pleasured.." This is so true....at least for me. It is the stimulation of submission that comes from giving oneself over to another man that underlies the psychology of total bottoms!

Well said, and I have sensed the pleasure of submission that the man on his knees in front of me is experiencing. I will be honest, I achieve incredible pleasure from directing and dominating and controlling… there have been a few encounters where the connection was just right, sensual domination on my part and complete submission on his… ending with us both cumming incredibly hard!