BiBunny
Moon Queen & Wanderer
- Joined
- Dec 7, 2005
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Hi Bunny,
It really sounds like you’re exhausted. And I honestly don’t think you need to decide whether you’re aroace right now. Sometimes when we’ve been disappointed or hurt for a long time, everything just starts to feel numb or even disgusting. That doesn’t always mean it’s your identity — sometimes it just means you’re tired.
I know what it’s like to give a lot of yourself to someone and not receive the same kind of love or attention back. That kind of imbalance can slowly drain you. So if that’s what’s happening, it makes sense that you feel done with it all.
Life can feel unfair and heavy sometimes. From the outside things may look one way, but on the inside they’re often much more complicated. None of us really have it perfectly figured out.
You don’t have to fix anything right now. Just take care of yourself in whatever small way feels manageable. And if you ever want to talk — about this or about completely random everyday stuff — I’m here.
Fingers crossed for the job interview!!
Thank you so much! That really helps.
