Can guys be satisfied with just a handjob?

[SirGalahad]

Let's say just say that a guy is horny, and really wants to get off... if a female gives him a handjob, would he be satisfied, or want something more? This question has been kinda pestering me of late... but don't ask me why I'm wondering

The simple answer is "yeah," a guy could be satisfied but it I doubt you wanted a simple answer.
In a right situation, being in the right mood and with a woman who enjoys giving handjobs - there's nothing better, but if I am horny and in a mood for a blowjob, a handjob might not do the trick.
You are right, I can do it myself, but it really won't be the same

 

[NoFatChicks]

Depends on what she looks like.

 

[thirty]

Let's say just say that a guy is horny, and really wants to get off... if a female gives him a handjob, would he be satisfied, or want something more? This question has been kinda pestering me of late... but don't ask me why I'm wondering

If she is my woman, i will definitely want more.

Anyway, I can get some service like that here in China, it cost me 100rmb each time, I can get a hand job, and I can fondle the girls' bodies, sometimes boobs, sometimes pussy, it depends on the girls.
In Chinese, it's called

I dislike hookers, I concern STDs, but if I'm horny, especially when I'm on my business trips, I can try that kind of service which I guess is much safer.

Handjob cannot compete PIV sex, but better than doing by myself.

 

[NHJohnson28]

In my experience, 90% of the time I want more than just a handjob. That being said, if a girl really knew how to perform one well, I would be glad to receive them more often. Also, it's nice to get a handjob in public places where blowjobs or intercourse are out of the question.

 

[Liplovinman]

i don't really do handjobs,
i've got to use my mouth

here here! lol Ok, that was bad, but still the sentiment holds!

 

[JackVettriano]

If I get a handjob as you Americans call it and the girl is right into it and getting off on the result then yeh I am happy cos its been a two way thing. If she does it just to get you off and stop pestering her for sex then I would rather do it myself.

Getting of should be a mutual thing, in my opinion.

Unless your alone and everyone has a crafty wank, or one off the wrist as we say in the UK

 

[Southernsexpert]

If doing it ourselves was good enough - why the hell would we bother with flowers or candy... or nice cars... or money, or clothes, or clean dishes, or two sets of sheets, or hair cuts, or shaving, or being witty, or thinking thoughts, or listening to other people's thoughts, or buying dinner, or eating anything other than mac n cheese, or changing our shoes, or watching Grey's Anatomy, or pretending to respect Angelina Jolie's humanitarian work, or saying that kittens are cute, or remembering birthdays, or anniversaries, or Valentine's Day, or any major holiday, or why would we shower, or buy deodorant, or cut our finger nails, or try to not pee on the seat, or read books, or even attempt dancing, or notice your shoes, or your dress, or all the thousands of things guys do just for the merest hope of a chance of a glimmer of a possibility of having some kind of sex?

Why? Because it is always always always better when someone else plays with your waggly bits.

Being rather new to Lit I enjoy coming to the General Board as -sort of- a daily psychological exercise. I read and occasionally comment on a post I find well written. This post made me smile. But to answer the original question...I'll give my two cents from a female's point of view. Well, a unique female, with all the sexual answers, anyone could ever need....

A woman's hands on a man's cock is far preferrable than his own. I agree with those indicating it isn't going to 'fly' forever. But, a seductive woman, gently freeing a cock from a man's pants-her perfectly manicured, softness juxtaposed against his hardness is good. It gets better when she is confident enough to lean over in his ear and whisper, "Darlin' even though I have to be at work in 15 minutes, I couldn't leave before I touched your delicious cock." Said in a breathy whisper as you stroke him to wakefullness. Of couse the woman should continue to coo and paint an erotic picture comingling her softness with decadently naughty descriptions of his cock in her pussy and/or in the white hot recesses of her tight throat. Always apologize that you don't have time to ravish him properly...but your confidence, your erotic demeanor and your raw sexuality will have him mesmerized. When women are GENUINELY sexy...they exude the most powerful spell possible. Whether the next day, or years past the relationship, a woman who captivates a man sexually will endure. In the unfortunate event the relationship falters, if she is good...REALLY GOOD...a man may be fucking his (fill in the blank) wife, girlfriend, etc. and have you dancing through his memory....and, if you do it well, even the memory of an ordinary handjob may be the fodder he needs to conjure you to the point of explosive release.....

 

[scrapy]

sure

a handjob works for me

 

[redheadedtxn]

i believe in sucking to completion or til i am told otherwise...course, i have a different relationship than most. i do as told, and appreciate the direction.
A handjob more than likely would not satisfy Master.
But, He is twisted.
Thank God.

 

[neci]

i believe in sucking to completion or til i am told otherwise...course, i have a different relationship than most. i do as told, and appreciate the direction.
A handjob more than likely would not satisfy Master.
But, He is twisted.
Thank God.

yep...

 

[chillywilly2]

Just gave myself one...it was ok but i would rather pussy

 

[neci]

bad neci!

 

[Joeybagadonuts]

It depends on how much I want to fuck her. I got a hand job and it was nice but I really want to cum inside of her.

 

[Nellie60]

If I get a handjob as you Americans call it and the girl is right into it and getting off on the result then yeh I am happy cos its been a two way thing. If she does it just to get you off and stop pestering her for sex then I would rather do it myself.

Getting of should be a mutual thing, in my opinion.

Unless your alone and everyone has a crafty wank, or one off the wrist as we say in the UK

Well said...she must enjoy it otherwise its sort of anti climax to a climax. And personally still would like more, maybe to please her? Otherwise if the original question is just a handjob yes if she enjoys it and shows it it would be worth it.

 

[Nellie60]

Let's say just say that a guy is horny, and really wants to get off... if a female gives him a handjob, would he be satisfied, or want something more? This question has been kinda pestering me of late... but don't ask me why I'm wondering

Only if you are enthusiastic then I would mostly be satisfied.

 

[Handeguy]

Oh, yes, absolutely. If she stimulates my brain along with my body, it can be rather mind blowing, in fact.

 

[Tayloroc]

I’d be delighted and grateful

 

[CuckGuy89]

Yes, of course

 

[Nellie60]

I used to date a woman who gave the most AMAZING hand/blowjob ever. MUCH more than a simple stroke and pump, she was like a cock worshiper, and she made me feel like I was the center of her whole universe. It was *immensely* satisfying...and the irony is, she always left me wanting more. And by then, of course, she was ready to be taken...

You were lucky then. She would now be makkng someone else pretty happy

 

[Nellie60]

A hand job will satisfy a man physically. It may not satisfy him emotionally.
Nevertheless, a man should not pressure a woman into doing something she
feels uncomfortable doing. I would rather have a hand job from a virgin than
have sex with a woman who has been with many men.

Agree well said

 

[Nellie60]

If its' done right

A really great hand job is going to require foreplay. It's not just a cheap grab and some up and down.

You're going to have to tell him why you want to show him a fantastic time. For just a single handjob to be the end-all, you're going to need to electrify his entire body, as well as his mind. So look him in the eyes and tell him what you're going to do. Tell him how you’re going to do it. How you've pictured his dick growing into a cock with just the touch of your hand. How you're going to react to his pre-cum and then what you're going to do with it.

And without touching him, even before you've unzipped his pants, tell his how you're going to outline the rim of his dick and coax his shaft. Bring a few accessories along. Let his know that you're serious about this. Don't just grab his dick. Show his how this is special. Use some lotion and make it sensuous even before you start. And what are you going to do with your other hand?

So you want to learn how to give a decent handjob without frustrating your boyfriend. Take control. Look him in the eyes and tell him what he's going to get and why. Tell him how you’re going to get him off. Make this a big deal and not an attempt to avoid something else.

Most of all, make certain he knows how much you enjoy providing this service

Another well said reply. Definitely the dirty talk is going to really help big time. Stare him in the eyes and tell him about your past...that's a real turn on for me plus edge him until the final. Make sure you really enjoy it and be enthusiastic when you wildly jerk him to an incredible orgasm!

 

[Nellie60]

All of the above, of course. But let me speak for the handjob in and of itself.

It's a totally different kind of orgasm for me. Probably not necessarily stronger, but the fact that it's so visible and such and "objective" that it seems naughtier.

The situation is more controlling, too. There's very little submission on the part of the woman (or guy, I guess). For some reason, I feel more out of control from a handjob.

Also, there's a lot of latitude to the "scenario." It can be a "favor," a dominant act (maybe with denial thrown in), a humiliation exercise, a frank study of male sexual response (mmm, lab coats).

I may be a little different from many men, but I actually rank a handjob higher than a blowjob.

When a woman is in control its pretty arousing especially when she shows passion and enthusiasm.

 

[SloBlo69]

From experience, some would b satisfied with just that, a hand job, however, it's the least satisfactory should they just want to stroke that schlong for an eruption & the most exhilarating that, while it's termed a hand job, spends the least amount of time stroking, but rather loosening, massaging the nuts to ease that built-up tension. I've had a few hand jobs where not once was my "head" stroked, but rather most focus on the nuts & all it holds. On the other hand, I have exceptionally high dopamine levels, thus just a handjob, nope, def not enough, that's more a build-up to what's to come for the next hour or 2

 

[easyoff]

Giving or getting? If I'm giving a handjob I always want to do more.

 

[fma20fma]

i have helped out desperate stranger guys through their trouser pocket with my hand, and often the gummy feel on my hand,when they were pressing their bulge on the poles in the local trains, and some on my lower rear clevege standing behind me in the local trains. Found their relieved looks, and get off in the next stop without looking back, obviously with a sheepish grin, presumably.