Can you feel my pain?

[Kajira Callista]

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Yes... and I have donned my bowler. ;-)

lololol you are so cute!

 

[A Desert Rose]

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lololol you are so cute!

Yes, this is my most seductive AV.

 

[Kajira Callista]

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Yes, this is my most seductive AV.

i agree!

 

[Kajira Callista]

not really you know how i feel about the toes

 

[SweetDommes]

Once again, I am being way too lazy to read the whole thread, but ...

I am an empath, I can both send and recieve. I know that part of it is seeing sublte cues & just reading the person, but since I can do it online (for those that I have an emotional attachment to - and I can name 3 who are active on this site), it's not just that.

Despite what he tries to tell me sometimes, I can tell when Pyrolisk is working himself up over something - when I'm talking to Holly online, I can sense what she is feeling - and same with ghosstie ... I have made this connection with others, but it is definately more difficult when I am not in close proximity to them.

When I am in close proximity to someone - even if I have no particular attachment to them - if I open myself up to them, I can tell how they are feeling (which can be both a blessing and a curse as a nurse). If I am in physical contact with someone, it becomes difficult to block them out (even if there is no emotional attachment) and the more physical contact there is, the more difficult it is (i.e. supporting someone's arm while walking vs hauling them out of bed/a chair). With someone that I do have an emotional attachment to, I can usually identify where they are hurting, if they are hurting, and I can sense other emotions from them, even if they aren't in the same room. When in physical contact with Holly, I cannot block her entirely out anymore (which I am not upset about at all) - and the sensing is so strong that I can feel a hand on me wherever I am touching her (so if my left hand is holding her right hand, I feel like someone is holding my right hand - if I have my hand on her back, I feel like someone is touching my back).

I know that it sounds nuts, and I've been told that I should be institutionalized until I lose my "delusions" but I am a firm believer in this, and I use it to the advantage of others, not just myself.

Miss Karen

 

[catalina_francisco]

Once again, I am being way too lazy to read the whole thread, but ...

I am an empath, I can both send and recieve. I know that part of it is seeing sublte cues & just reading the person, but since I can do it online (for those that I have an emotional attachment to - and I can name 3 who are active on this site), it's not just that.

Despite what he tries to tell me sometimes, I can tell when Pyrolisk is working himself up over something - when I'm talking to Holly online, I can sense what she is feeling - and same with ghosstie ... I have made this connection with others, but it is definately more difficult when I am not in close proximity to them.

When I am in close proximity to someone - even if I have no particular attachment to them - if I open myself up to them, I can tell how they are feeling (which can be both a blessing and a curse as a nurse). If I am in physical contact with someone, it becomes difficult to block them out (even if there is no emotional attachment) and the more physical contact there is, the more difficult it is (i.e. supporting someone's arm while walking vs hauling them out of bed/a chair). With someone that I do have an emotional attachment to, I can usually identify where they are hurting, if they are hurting, and I can sense other emotions from them, even if they aren't in the same room. When in physical contact with Holly, I cannot block her entirely out anymore (which I am not upset about at all) - and the sensing is so strong that I can feel a hand on me wherever I am touching her (so if my left hand is holding her right hand, I feel like someone is holding my right hand - if I have my hand on her back, I feel like someone is touching my back).

I know that it sounds nuts, and I've been told that I should be institutionalized until I lose my "delusions" but I am a firm believer in this, and I use it to the advantage of others, not just myself.

Miss Karen

Sounds beautifully sane to me. It is a shame humans have worked so hard to eradicate themselves of such senses simply because science cannot prove it's reality in a logical mathematical equation or tangibility. As Gavin de Becker says in The Gift of Fear, we are the only species who have worked so hard to rid ourselves of our basic intuitive senses which can protect us where nothing else can.

Catalina

 

[FungiUg]

[...] By reading their posts, it was easy to determine who I wanted to seek out as friends and who I wanted to avoid. I have always believed that certain parts of our personalities shine through the words and how we post them. Some people pick up on that and some people don't.[...]

Sensitivity, good at listening, "empathy"... all good traits to have. Not infallible, but it's hard to go wrong if we start my admitting our own fallibility.

It was the combination of "sexual empath" that I found... interesting. How does that work? When you cum, I do too?

 

[Kajira Callista]

Sensitivity, good at listening, "empathy"... all good traits to have. Not infallible, but it's hard to go wrong if we start my admitting our own fallibility.

It was the combination of "sexual empath" that I found... interesting. How does that work? When you cum, I do too?

wanna try it and find out?

 

[SweetDommes]

It was the combination of "sexual empath" that I found... interesting. How does that work? When you cum, I do too?

I am not a specific "sexual empath" - however, I have noticed that when we both cum together it is much more intense, and I share in their orgasms even when I am not actually cumming myself - however, just because I cum doesn't mean that the boy does too (I can block that well at least )

 

[A Desert Rose]

... It was the combination of "sexual empath" that I found... interesting. How does that work? When you cum, I do too?

I think you typed this tongue-in-cheek, but to seriously answer your question...

The short answer to "how does that work" is, I have no idea since I am not a sexual empath. My experience with them (the 2 I mentioned at the beginning of this thread) has been very limited and both were dominant males. They just seemed to know the right things to say, at the right time and in the right way... if you follow my meaning.

I guess it's just kind of hard to explain, especially when, like me, you aren't one...