Cheated-on husbands and boyfriends who get off on it . . .

[Justfantasies]

Knowing how much I liked it, she'd go out a couple of times a month in a tight skirt and blouse and pick up some boy. Sometimes she was gone for a couple of days

 

[lc69hunter]

I've heard so many cuckolding stories and cheating ones where the husband's know damn well what's going on.

I have a horrible feeling that sometimes the husband doesn't really get off on it. Some of them initiate it and want it, more power to them, but the others don't want to confront a bigger and stronger man, or they know they'll be cleaned out in the divorce, or they're actually upset and feel so helpless. They just turn that anger and desperation into eroticism even when they didn't want it.

You are mixing and matching many different scenarios, all with potentially different outcomes

 

[Sgts19]

Never in a million years did I ever think I'd get off on her and other men.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Me either. And it was a process that unfolded over many months. Eventually I got to a tipping point and fully embraced it, and from then on, holy fuck.

 

[TemptationTango]

Her cheating ultimately broke us up. Like others here, I had no idea that the thought of her banging another guy would turn me on. For a long time I was ashamed of myself, but over the years have learned to accept it because I cannot control it. She confessed that her cheating was not just about sex, it was about power. Power to turn every man's head in a room, and she could pick and choose which one(s) were going to fuck her or get a blow job. She admitted that that power was intoxicating and never had she experienced anything like that in her life(Yes, she was that good looking).

So, if you think about it, what if all of 'us' guys here on Lit had that power over women? How long before we would just run a muck, fucking every woman that sparked our interest, with no regard to others in our life? Lust + Power.....one hell of a combination.

Looking back, I wish I could have gotten over my issues and shared her. But, her childhood abuse created several multiple personalities & one in particular really does not like me, so I had to let her go. Years of therapy helped, but could not put Humpty back together again. We are friends now, and talk about sex & desire each other, but neither of us are willing to shit on our spouses....so that fantasy will remain a fantasy.

 

[Justfantasies]

Her cheating ultimately broke us up. Like others here, I had no idea that the thought of her banging another guy would turn me on. For a long time I was ashamed of myself, but over the years have learned to accept it because I cannot control it. She confessed that her cheating was not just about sex, it was about power. Power to turn every man's head in a room, and she could pick and choose which one(s) were going to fuck her or get a blow job. She admitted that that power was intoxicating and never had she experienced anything like that in her life(Yes, she was that good looking).

So, if you think about it, what if all of 'us' guys here on Lit had that power over women? How long before we would just run a muck, fucking every woman that sparked our interest, with no regard to others in our life? Lust + Power.....one hell of a combination.

Looking back, I wish I could have gotten over my issues and shared her. But, her childhood abuse created several multiple personalities & one in particular really does not like me, so I had to let her go. Years of therapy helped, but could not put Humpty back together again. We are friends now, and talk about sex & desire each other, but neither of us are willing to shit on our spouses....so that fantasy will remain a fantasy.

Maybe it will remain a fantasy . . . or maybe it won't

 

[JR284]

Hot! Do you have a specific understanding now as to whether she can make the decision to fuck another man on her own, with no advance notice to you, or is it now a shared, openly made decision?

She's free to do whatever she wants, whenever she wants, with whoever she wants. Sometimes I'll get a heads up, sometimes I won't know until afterwards, and on some occasions she likes to keep it to herself and then randomly tell me about it down the line

 

[Sct73]

My wife cheated on. I’m just lucky enough that she would only pick up lady’s. I of course benefited once in a while

 

[SPARTAN047]

You are mixing and matching many different scenarios, all with potentially different outcomes

As I should - there's no point focusing on only the outcome you or I find hot.

 

[ForbiddenThrusts]

Cheating is wrong and the betrayal and loss of trust can destroy a relationship. But when the couple commits to staying together and overcoming it, when the betrayal is understood and forgiven, what's left is the intense eroticism of (in my case) a woman, a wife and mother, exercising sexual agency, indulging her most primal impulses, seeking and getting satisfaction from a strong, sexually attractive man on the side. Being so consumed with lust that she's willing to risk her marriage, her family, to experience sex with that man, to get fucked by him. That's hot. I'd love to hear from other men who have had this experience and want to explore the topic.

I was painful. I ain't learned to love that shit at all.

 

[Matt3427]

We've been together over 30 years from when she was 19. In our mid 20s I spent a lot of time overseas with my work over a 3 year period. About two years after that stopped I found out she had slept with a few different men during that period. A mix of one-offs, some with people we both knew, one with a man in his 60s, all without protection and a couple of times ended up taking the morning after pill as a precaution. We got over it and have actually made fun out of it over the years. Fast forward to now and after three kids and being a stay-at-home mum for years, she now meets a young lad regularly for sex and it has changed our sex life dramatically. All good fun.

 

[Gentleflirt]

She's free to do whatever she wants, whenever she wants, with whoever she wants. Sometimes I'll get a heads up, sometimes I won't know until afterwards, and on some occasions she likes to keep it to herself and then randomly tell me about it down the line

This is so very sexy, definitely wanted to explore this with my queen.

 

[Naughtygirl201]

Me either. And it was a process that unfolded over many months. Eventually I got to a tipping point and fully embraced it, and from then on, holy fuck.

I college I was involved with two different guys on and off, back and forth. And everytime I'd get back together with one, there were lots of questions during sex. I thought it was jealousy at the time, but looking back, I think it turned him on to hear about what happened between me and the other guy.

 

[vibes]

I college I was involved with two different guys on and off, back and forth. And everytime I'd get back together with one, there were lots of questions during sex. I thought it was jealousy at the time, but looking back, I think it turned him on to hear about what happened between me and the other guy.

Both of them were asking questions or only one?

 

[Naughtygirl201]

Both of them were asking questions or only one?

Just the one.

 

[Justfantasies]

I college I was involved with two different guys on and off, back and forth. And everytime I'd get back together with one, there were lots of questions during sex. I thought it was jealousy at the time, but looking back, I think it turned him on to hear about what happened between me and the other guy.

That kind of thing has always turned me on -- I never felt jealous. I wonder if that is true for most guys?

 

[Naughtygirl201]

I sometimes wonder if he picked fights so we'd break up because he knew what would happen.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

I college I was involved with two different guys on and off, back and forth. And everytime I'd get back together with one, there were lots of questions during sex. I thought it was jealousy at the time, but looking back, I think it turned him on to hear about what happened between me and the other guy.

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