Cheating Tales

[whatahoot]

My husband and I had an open relationship for a while which allowed me to have fun with other men without having to keep it from him. However, it got to a point where that was no longer sustainable mostly because he started getting jealous so we, and by we I mean mostly him, decided to go back to being monogamous. I just couldn't do it though. I missed the fun of getting to hook up with different men so eventually I began to cheat. Right now, I have three different guys who I have fun with on a somewhat regular basis. My job has somewhat erratic hours but also quite a bit of flexibility so it gives me the perfect excuse and cover. My husband also travels for work about once a quarter. Admittedly, I get an extra thrill of having guys come over to the house when he's gone.

 

[The_shadow_rising]

Sounds like you're all on the Naughty List...and enjoying it

 

[Britva415]

if your spouse knows you are cheating, is it really cheating?

It is if you don't know the spouse know, and you're hiding it.

Just because you don't know the spouse approves doesn't mean you aren't being dishonest and unfaithful by hiding it. Badly, in this scenario, but it's the thought that counts.

 

[hiker283]

My wife does not know that I know she sleeps with her client when she goes up to Seattle once a month. She comes home happy and we have great sex that night. I know she has had sex on other business trips too.

 

[Islander55]

I think that for many couples, marital sex tends to become a bit stale after a number of years. I was faithful for the first 20 years but after an unplanned encounter that just happened because of circumstances, I realized that I was missing the excitement that often goes with a new partner. Once that genii was out of the bottle, I never tried to put her back in. Nothing too crazy but I become open to possibilities. We are now retired and have embraced an open relationship. Actually he does not utilize the open relationship but is supportive of me dating other men. I think it was more exciting when he did not know what I was up to but it certainly is more convenient now that he knows and approves.

 

[JR284]

My wife has been a hotwife for quite a few years now, but it all started with her cheating. When I discovered that she was cheating, I was certainly conflicted. There was part of me that of course felt some betrayal, but I would say about 80% of my reaction was extreme arousal. It took me a while to finally confront her about it, and I ended up shifting the conversation towards the idea of her continuing to have fun with others as long as she told me about it. I think part of what allowed me to so quickly get past the negative emotions of being cheated on was that she wasn't carrying on just a single long-term affair. What I discovered at that time was that she had three or four hookups with random guys. It was purely about the sex for her which is what made it so hot. A few months later once things were going great, she ended up confessing that he had actually never been faithful to me and there were actually a lot more guys that she had fucked. Realizing that she had been fucking so many guys over the years drove me crazy in the best of ways. She gave me stories of her infidelity for months and to this day, every once in awhile she will passively mention some guy or experience that she had from that time. I know that infidelity is a sensitive topic for many, but in our case, it was and continues to be an incredibly hot part of our relationship.

 

[ReadyOne]

Cheating is defined as breaking the rule(s). Think about a board game. You move a token to a spot not permitted.
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People will say "you cheated, you didn't move according to the rules."
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In almost every marriage two people agree to follow the rule of monogamy when they make their vows.
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Unilaterally telling your partner that you are going to have sex with another does not make it "not cheating".
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Think about the board game. Announcing that you're moving your token to an illegal space will get the same comment: "you're cheating, you are not moving according to the rules."
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Finally, consider an agreed change in the rules. When all agree, following the new rule(s) is not cheating.
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So you agree to open the marriage -- no cheating when you have sex with other than your marriage partner. Agree to what you can do, and do as you agree.
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But that doesn't mean all rules are out. Break one that you still agree on, and then you are cheating.

 

[Bbl87]

Most of my fantasies are found in my story series:

https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=6617387&page=submissions

I also have some fantasies with some friends here as well. Including a friend where we've both said in the event of a hall pass for both of us, we'd be finding a way to meet up.

With my wife's lack of desire for sex, an open marriage has alot of appeal but it's not a topic that seems remotely broachable at this time.

 

[frappingwilly]

My first wife was a complete ass hat, hated the way she treated my daughter and family, I stayed with her because I think my daughter would have suffered. When we finally spilt my daughter lived with me which made me happy. So what's this got to do with cheating? Well, I got lots of satisfaction fucking her friends, one came away with me for a weekend away to Vegas, flying with me from London. She dressed like a slut and let me pick her up at the hotel bar like a ho. She was married but her husband knew and liked it.