Choking..
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It's def not for everyone and requires a great deal of trust in your partner...if you have any latent or lingering control issues that makes it difficult
I do trust her and I don't have issues with control, I'm just acutely aware of every single thing that can go wrong ... even when you're being careful.
Yeah I didn't mean to imply lack of trust in your relationship, but it can be scary to have someone's hand wrapped around your throat and letting go of the "what if's" and enjoying it is a hard corner to turn
It's entirely the latter problem.Because its intensely erotic!
Texguy84
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Wife and I have discussed this, and we think it's because the brain gets wires crossed sometimes when it comes to fear/aggression/sex. All three can cause the same things to happen to your body, so when you get someone angry or frightened while they're horny, it ramps everything up. Yay biofeedback!
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I had a friend who loved this and turned me onto it. It took a long time to trust each other, but when we did... OH MY GOD! We both got to the point where we'd take turns teasing each other. The one on bottom would wrap his/her hand around the other's throat and squeeze hard as the he/she could as the one on top began to cum. HOLY SHIT! When done properly, it makes the orgasm intense!
We never got to the point of passing out though. I'm not sure I would want to take it that far. Just to the point where we'd be breathing harder because of it.
We never got to the point of passing out though. I'm not sure I would want to take it that far. Just to the point where we'd be breathing harder because of it.
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I've enjoyed choking (well, being choked) many a time, but have never experienced it during orgasm. For me it's always been this really sexy display of virile dominance and control. The restriction is most often by hand. I've experienced bondage rope. A tight collar will restrict airflow (if you lean too far forward or back), whether simple 1" or a 4" posture collar.
When I was younger, dumber, drunker, there were a couple times where it was too much. I remember once starting to panic and thinking, "Not sexy! -Really- choking!" Through the years I've learned my body's warning signs, felt that woozy weight travel down me, the instant sick flush... I'm not going to go where I'm not okay, nor would I play with anyone that wouldn't respect my saying so.
Nowadays I usually find myself thinking, "More!!" I'll tap out if I need to, or say something. I've never lost consciousness, but have woken up the next day to little red speckles all around my eyes. Why is that? I know it's a direct result of my lack of oxygen, but what is it? Broken blood vessels? It's impossible to cover with makeup! I'm always sure someone will notice, but no one's ever said anything...
When I was younger, dumber, drunker, there were a couple times where it was too much. I remember once starting to panic and thinking, "Not sexy! -Really- choking!" Through the years I've learned my body's warning signs, felt that woozy weight travel down me, the instant sick flush... I'm not going to go where I'm not okay, nor would I play with anyone that wouldn't respect my saying so.
Nowadays I usually find myself thinking, "More!!" I'll tap out if I need to, or say something. I've never lost consciousness, but have woken up the next day to little red speckles all around my eyes. Why is that? I know it's a direct result of my lack of oxygen, but what is it? Broken blood vessels? It's impossible to cover with makeup! I'm always sure someone will notice, but no one's ever said anything...
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