Cock Size = Personality Type

[Bbl87]

I know guys would compare dick sizes in public school showers. Luckily for me I never had erections in those showers and when flaccid thankfully, my dick was ordinary. Besides I was always in a hurry to finish showering & getting dressed because I didn't want to get popped on the butt with a rat tail. Those damn things would hurt & raise a welt on your butt.

Same, man. Same.

I'm definitely more of a grower than a shower. Not to mention girth is where I "make my money", haha, length is a little above average but probably not enough most would notice.

 

[mark_j]

Based on Lit posts, it's clear a lot of people don't know what 8 inches looks like or how statistically unlikely it is. Yet half the men have it and most of the women have encountered one. Bless their hearts.

That's because they use the 7 inch foot for fishermen and other liars

 

[Bbl87]

That's because they use the 7 inch foot for fishermen and other liars

I need to get one of those trick rulers...

 

[Escierto]

When I was younger I was always very confident sexually. But, I also loved making women orgasm so I was not selfish. I wanted them to remember that I took good care of them. I have a larger (not huge) cock. These days I am just over 7” long and around 6” around, slightly larger when I am really hard. Back then (~20 years ago) I was more like 8” long and 5” around. My wife went from complaining that I was too long to complaining that I am too thick.

I am not usually a Type A person, though I can be when I am frustrated.

Dude, when you are in the 99th percentile, yes, you can call it huge.

 

[Escierto]

I have been around other guys who have an inch or more on me these days. Though they are typically not as thick.

Now back whenI was around 8” I only met one guy larger and only had sex with one girl who had larger.

I also had a couple of girls who saw it and said “no way.”

7” and thick seems to be less intimidating, especially for MILFs in their mid 30s and beyond.

You are like a guy who used to play in the NBA and when asked if he could play basketball just said, yeah, I used to play with some guys.

 

[CuMex1]

I don’t believe there’s a correlation between dick size and personality. A guy with a bigger dick may be more confident because of it than a guy with a smaller dick but I’m sure it’s not the general rule. I don’t have a big dick, I’m a little under 6 inches in length and a bit over 5 inches in girth and have never lacked for confidence.

 

[Swuchmann]

You are mistaken. Please read this article:
https://www.science.org/content/article/how-big-average-penis

Thanks for the article. You are correct. I was wrong to assume that the distribution is skewed to >5.75. Looks like the distribution is normal.

Well, ladies and gents I am pretty average.

 

[PMarky2]

As my wife says {holding her finger and thumb about 4 inches apart] - "Thanks to men, women think this is six inches! No wonder we are useless at estimating size."

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I love the fantasy, but my Wife would never allow it. Wonderful tease, though!

I understand!! Love the fantasy too!! Cheers

 

[cdstefi]

My cock's a completely average somewhere between 5-6".

I'm completely confident and competent in everyday life based on what I know I can do work wise and relationship wise, and neither neurotic nor wannabe alpha fake domineering. I'm a happy person.

This whole idea of a thread is ridiculous bullshit and the sort of toxic crap that men either foist upon others or else torture themselves with. My immediate inclination is to say stop with it, stop fixating on measuring your fucking phallus and just be a nice human being.

 

[AlexBailey]

I’m very fluid in how I present and so is my cock.

When I’m soft it’s tiny and easy to tuck but when I get hard it grows to six inches and wider than average.

 

[HampshireBoy]

It would be interesting to see the distribution of sizes. I don’t think it is a normal distribution

It would be interesting to see the distribution of sizes. I don’t think it is a normal distribution, at least from my experience. The smallest I have had is 5 inches. I have had several that are 6 inches or greater. I suspect the median (not average size) is greater than 5 3/4.

If you will excuse the pun, length will be a bell curve, I'm sure that I remember reading a study which stated that there was a variation by race with men of Indian/Pakistani descent having the smallest average and Afro/Caribbean the largest, with other groups falling between the two - the difference between smallest mean and largest was about an inch IIRC so the bell graphs have a lot of overlap.

For Caucasian men 95% were between 4 3/4 and 7 as I recall (Obviously as I'm in that group that was the one I remember )

 

[Wriggle]

The men I work with have this delusion about me being an exhibitionist and say I give off "big dick energy". They know things about me like I have a beautiful wife, I go to nude beaches, and on holiday with groups of beautiful women. I even use the urinal that no one else uses, because it is apparently "too open".
I also have a big personality and don't give a fuck what other people think about me.

But the reality is maybe I'm actually like that because I'm compensating for my, er, shortcomings.

 

[haventdonethat]

Normalcy bias. In my case, also being 6'5" with a large frame doesn't help with perception either.

Or the other way.
I was 6'0" and 120 lbs soaking wet with an anvil in my pocket. My cock L O O K E D a lot larger than reality. It was the topic of derogatory comments from some guys but never women.
They were more polite LOL!
Posted a picture a few days ago
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/how-big-do-you-like-your-penis.620882/page-6#post-97801887

 

[betabrad]

I’m probably what you would expect - I have a small dick and I’ve always felt submissive.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I am struck by how few penises I have seen in real life lately. I do change out of a workout outfit and see other men change, but I don't look at their junk. In college we had open four-man showers and so four naked dudes could shower at once. I saw plenty of dicks then, none erect. I'd say all pretty much the same.

My wife mentioned at the beginning of our relationship a guy or two who had big cocks who were not gentle or considerate lovers. Her ex before me is a guy I had seen in the shower. He seemed bigger than average and he was a violent boozer.

Not much of a data sample.

On a similar note, I have known a lot of women with very big breasts. Only a few of them ever seemed to be happy that they were 'blessed' in this way.

 

[blkjames]

I have a big personality to go with a big play pretty lol

 

[Tessinwales]

Just a few observations ......

If a guy is very slender and skinny, it is very likely he has a very big dick, thick and long.

Short stubby men reflect their dick, short and stubby.

Big bear hairy men with a squished up face have tiny dicks.

I emphasise that these are GENERALISATIONS, and my own experience, none of you guys need to prove me wrong lol

 

[whenagain]

Just a few observations ......

If a guy is very slender and skinny, it is very likely he has a very big dick, thick and long.

Short stubby men reflect their dick, short and stubby.

Big bear hairy men with a squished up face have tiny dicks.

I emphasise that these are GENERALISATIONS, and my own experience, none of you guys need to prove me wrong lol

What if a guy is tallish but average weight?

 

[mark_j]

I need to get one of those trick rulers...

I think, if they are still around, you used to be able to get those at Spenser's in most malls. Though I haven't looked in a while Cabelas and Dick's Sporting goods used to carry those as well.

Packaged as "The Seven Inch Foot. For fishermen and other liars."

 

[Bbl87]

I think, if they are still around, you used to be able to get those at Spenser's in most malls. Though I haven't looked in a while Cabelas and Dick's Sporting goods used to carry those as well.

Packaged as "The Seven Inch Foot. For fishermen and other liars."

Makes sense.

 

[CuttingEdge]

When it comes to physical size and personality, the two can never be interwoven in a discussion because physical size does not change by a whole lot, and personality is very malleable. There can be some of that, but really in extreme cases, like a man who is in a major accident becomes an Enoch, might change his personality because of losing his manhood, but that is an example of an extreme case.

But while some personality types are set up since birth, others are not. For instance, a narcist is created by their environment, not predisposed by genes. It would be easy to say one with a big shaft is one because of what they have in their pants, but that is not the case. A narcist views his world as him being more important than anyone, coworkers, his wife, even his kids, so he will look at his manhood with pride no matter how big or small it is. A narcist just changes their perception of reality to fit how they view their self-induced world (gaslighting). It is a disorder because it is how he views himself, not true physicality.

Myself, I am on the bigger side, but really what does it matter. I am a sigma male, so societal norms do not influence me in any way. I could care less what others think of my manliness: there are men bigger, and men smaller, for me, what matters is HER. No matter whom I with, I want her to be pleased, and why I often get confused as a narcists (my uncaring manor for some things) but I am not, because I put others first. In this case... the woman I am with. A narcist would never do that; its all about them.

In that, it becomes funny because I often tell women, "I never go soft", when they inevitably say, "but all men do", I laugh and say, "But I use my tongue". But that is another sigma trait. I am a realist and know I am very limited as a man. I can cum too quick sometimes, not cum a huge volume when I do, and big granted... but not stallion sized. But I do know I can taste a lady to repeated orgasms, as can any man who wishes to put a lady's pleasure above their own. But that is why this size argument is rather silly. I am sure a bigger man feels different inside a lady as how could it not, but as complex as people and personalities are, I guarantee a smaller sized man that gives compliments, gives her many orgasms by tongue, encourages her, and is funny and spontaneous; is going to have a wonderful relationship with a very pleased lady!

We all have this within us.., if we put our sex partners need first that is. There is no size requirement for the true pleasure of delayed gratification. It will be there, just delayed...but also intense!

 

[CuttingEdge]

The comparison to man size that angers me is actually guns and shaft size. I carry a gun at all times so I often get labeled as doing so because I am small in size. Its a stupid argument because I am actually quite big.

But I carry; not for myself, but the ones I love. I have had a wonderful life so if someone kills me, so be it, but I would be VERY upset if someone did something stupid and hurt my kids, wife, friends or neighbors.

You can sometimes tell personality types in the media. For instance, Eli Dicken would have been labeled as a gun compensating man the day before the event. Yet when the Indianapolis mall shooter stared firing, Eli protected his girlfriend, then put 8 out of 10 shots into the man at 40 years... quite a feat. He is most likely a sigma because his first action was TO PROTECT HIS GIRLFRIEND. He put others first.

 

[mark_j]

The comparison to man size that angers me is actually guns and shaft size. I carry a gun at all times so I often get labeled as doing so because I am small in size. Its a stupid argument because I am actually quite big.

But I carry; not for myself, but the ones I love. I have had a wonderful life so if someone kills me, so be it, but I would be VERY upset if someone did something stupid and hurt my kids, wife, friends or neighbors.

This is my rifle

 

[steamboat610]

This is my landmark 2000th post so I figured I’d start a discussion! (And yes, for as long as I’ve been here, only having 2000 is embarrassing. Lol)

Anyway, do you ladies and gentlemen see any correlation between cock size and personality type? For instance, do all or most type A personalities have big dicks? And vice versa. Do most submissive men’s cocks sit on top of their balls?

I’ve always wondered but rarely have seen another dick in person so figured I’d ask you misfits

I've got above average cock, but can be as submissive and want to be used like a slut by my wife's strapon more than I want to bend her over most days.