dawn_of_night
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No because you know I'll always lick that meat stick.Because I know I'm old news?![]()
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No because you know I'll always lick that meat stick.Because I know I'm old news?![]()
Plainsure.
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1000% please.How do you feel about pain is pleasure?
Yep, I have been. I've never found a partner who enjoys it.Do you spank or like to be spanked?
Depends on the partner.How hard?
Paddle, crop, cane, hand.... Hand is my favorite.What “pain” devices have you used?
Yes pleaseNipple clamps,
I'll pass thankselectrified buttplugs,
Dick. Fuck. You. Lolcountry music, etc.?
Yep. Top and bottom.Do you like rope play?
Uhm. A conversation....How do you engage in this with a new partner?
AlwaysSafe words,
No?lawyers, consent forms, etc.?
Ha. That first time he told me to put a binder clip on my clit...When did you realize you were into this?
I don't think so, I've been the instigator mostly....Have you had a partner that wanted to go further than you were comfortable with, or vice versa? How’d that go?
Have you tested your toys on your self?I know almost nothing about this topic, what should I have asked?
Does this mean you like your hands and feet tied, or you like to tie up a top and bottom and watch them fuck?Yep. Top and bottom.
Uhm.Does this mean you like your hands and feet tied, or you like to tie up a top and bottom and watch them fuck?![]()
Great answer. The most important points in my mind are "Communication" and "Try it on yourself" (That's why my dogs have never had a shock collar). I think a Dom needs to know the sting of his or her favourite impact tool.1000% please.
Yep, I have been. I've never found a partner who enjoys it.
Depends on the partner.
Please dont break my bones...
Paddle, crop, cane, hand.... Hand is my favorite.
Yes please
I'll pass thanks
Dick. Fuck. You. Lol
Yep. Top and bottom.
Uhm. A conversation....
Hey, so I'm kinda into getting spanked... How about you??
Hey babe, I got this new rope, can I keep it in the bed room??
Always
No?
Ha. That first time he told me to put a binder clip on my clit...
I don't think so, I've been the instigator mostly....
I've been uncomfortable in roleplays before but never IRL
Have you tested your toys on your self?
Where would you like to begin?
Do you know where your most sensitive pain spots are?
What's your favorable form of after care?
Yes. (Is that actually a question?Plainsure.
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How do you feel about pain is pleasure?
I am A Dom. I am a spanker. My spankees communicate their enjoyment / discomfort via safewords. (see below)Do you spank or like to be spanked? How hard?
Funny, I wrote a story about two women tormenting their Dom by binding him and forcing him to listen to "All I Want for Christmas is You" on repeat for hoursWhat “pain” devices have you used? Nipple clamps, electrified buttplugs, country music, etc.?
I have to use all that stuff I learned in the Scouts someplace. (I truly enjoy rigging).Do you like rope play?
Communicate, go slow. I use 3 safewords: Green for "good, keep going", Yellow for "slow down" and Red for "STOP!" That helps to develop an understanding.How do you engage in this with a new partner? Safe words, lawyers, consent forms, etc.?
Heh heh heh...when I learned to tie a handcuff knot (see above).When did you realize you were into this?
Yes. WAY further. It ended. (It was a case of her wanting pain with no pleasure attached and wantng me to ignore one of MY hard limits).Have you had a partner that wanted to go further than you were comfortable with, or vice versa? How’d that go?
Limits: know the difference between soft limits (words like "this scares me a bit" or "I'm not sure that I am all that comfortable with it") and hard limits (phrases like "Absolutely not!" "No way in Hell" and "Tickle me and die motherfucker")I know almost nothing about this topic, what should I have asked?
The Top can tie the top of the bottom or the bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom can ask the Top to tie the top of the bottom or bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom's top gets tied by their Top, but the bottom can tie their own top and give their Top a break, if that's at the top of their minds.Does this mean you like your hands and feet tied, or you like to tie up a top and bottom and watch them fuck?![]()
Oh TAN....The Top can tie the top of the bottom or the bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom can ask the Top to tie the top of the bottom or bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom's top gets tied by their Top, but the bottom can tie their own top and give their Top a break, if that's at the top of their minds.
The Top and bottom can fuck if the bottom agrees and the Top deems it appropriate, because the Top receives permission from the bottom to be the Top. (Note that the Top may be on the top or the bottom during said fucking)
Maybe we should talk about happy knots.
(PYL /pyl for "pick your label)
See? This place is educational! And it helps identify and bring together the true kinksters.Oh TAN....
I followed all of that....
I think I'm in love....
I had to Google both... So given that I'd say mine finish is closer to the prusick...See? This place is educational! And it helps identify and bring together the true kinksters.
So, Klemheist or Prusick?
I haven't been here in a while, but its "cock talk" not "what are you doing with your cock right now."I had to Google both... So given that I'd say mine finish is closer to the prusick...
Also, I though I had to have a cock to be welcome here....![]()
Yea. But I don't have ....I haven't been here in a while, but its "cock talk" not "what are you doing with your cock right now."
Great answer. The most important points in my mind are "Communication" and "Try it on yourself" (That's why my dogs have never had a shock collar). I think a Dom needs to know the sting of his or her favourite impact tool.
Also consider: if you are going to tie someone up, you have to understand not to stress the joints . If you are tying someone's arms overhead, make sure they can bear the weight on their palms, not their wrists.
Limits: know the difference between soft limits (words like "this scares me a bit" or "I'm not sure that I am all that comfortable with it") and hard limits (phrases like "Absolutely not!" "No way in Hell" and "Tickle me and die motherfucker")
Hard limits need to be respected and generate a full stop.
Soft limits are an opportunity to grow, to learn, to expand, to push a bit. (But remember the safewords). And agree to pushing the limits.
OH YEAH: If your sub is gagged, make sure they have a free hand (or foot) to signal "stop" with. (a knee to the balls works too).
Ha. That first time he told me to put a binder clip on my clit...
Yes. WAY further. It ended. (It was a case of her wanting pain with no pleasure attached and wantng me to ignore one of MY hard limits).
depends. It can be. But too much? Not for me.How do you feel about pain is pleasure?
light spanking. I think I'd get the giggles.Do you spank or like to be spanked? How hard?
nipple clamps. I think thats it?What “pain” devices have you used? Nipple clamps, electrified buttplugs, country music, etc.?
it interests me.Do you like rope play?
i haven't. So far.How do you engage in this with a new partner? Safe words, lawyers, consent forms, etc.?
here. Seeing the beauty. The peace.When did you realize you were into this?
not so far. It's probably been the other way round.Have you had a partner that wanted to go further than you were comfortable with, or vice versa? How’d that go?
I know almost nothing about this topic, what should I have asked?
I’ve experimented a little, but it’s not really my thing*Plainsure.
How do you feel about pain is pleasure?
I’ve been spanked (on the lighter side) and it was enjoyable. I’d be happy to spank a female partner if she was into it.Do you spank or like to be spanked? How hard?
Nipple clamps, hands, clit clamps. I really only enjoyed the hands or nipple clamps.What “pain” devices have you used? Nipple clamps, electrified buttplugs, country music, etc.?
I haven’t tried it, but I think it’s absolutely beautiful. I’d be open to experimenting (rigger or rope bunny), but have a hard time imagining it becoming something I did much. It seems like too much workDo you like rope play?
When it comes to pain I’ve never gotten into anything much more than light spanking or hair pulling with a partner, so a clear “Stop” has sufficed. Safe words and more detailed discussions would be needed for anything else.How do you engage in this with a new partner? Safe words, lawyers, consent forms, etc.?
Minor pain? In the last 10-15 years or so when I realized it was a thing. It never occurred to me before that.When did you realize you were into this?
Have you had a partner that wanted to go further than you were comfortable with, or vice versa? How’d that go?
Is pain as pleasure something you like to occasionally indulge in? Or is it core to a healthy sex life for you?I know almost nothing about this topic, what should I have asked?
This is one of those “depends on the person” questions for me. I don’t think this is a one size fits all type activity. Not everyone likes spanking, and so I don’t want a man who isn’t into spanking to try and lay me across his lap. That isn’t going to work out well for either of us.How do you feel about pain is pleasure?
Do you spank or like to be spanked? How hard?
Not very many.What “pain” devices have you used? Nipple clamps, electrified buttplugs, country music, etc.?
It looks fun and some of the rope work I’ve seen can be quite beautiful. It’s a work of art! But no, I haven’t been lucky enough to try that.Do you like rope play?
How do you engage in this with a new partner? Safe words, lawyers, consent forms, etc.?
I gravitated to stories with these topics and talking about them a bit, but I’m no authority and I don’t know enough to even say that I was “into” any of it.When did you realize you were into this?
Have you had a partner that wanted to go further than you were comfortable with, or vice versa? How’d that go?
I guess there weren’t questions about after the playtime? How do you like ending a rough play session?I know almost nothing about this topic, what should I have asked?
This is exactly how I ended up talking about same.If my partner isn’t into it…well, that’s how I ended up talking about open relationships![]()
I think this is true with any type of power exchange. If someone isn't into it or doesn't *get* it there isn't likely to be a good outcome if pushed.This is one of those “depends on the person” questions for me. I don’t think this is a one size fits all type activity. Not everyone likes spanking, and so I don’t want a man who isn’t into spanking to try and lay me across his lap. That isn’t going to work out well for either of us.
Excellent question! Does it require more aftercare than say, just submission? I experience sub drop after any kind of big push. After care is definitely a thing.I guess there weren’t questions about after the playtime? How do you like ending a rough play session?
He’s missing outI thought he wanted me to shove a finger up his ass. He did not.
The Top can tie the top of the bottom or the bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom can ask the Top to tie the top of the bottom or bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom's top gets tied by their Top, but the bottom can tie their own top and give their Top a break, if that's at the top of their minds.
The Top and bottom can fuck if the bottom agrees and the Top deems it appropriate, because the Top receives permission from the bottom to be the Top. (Note that the Top may be on the top or the bottom during said fucking)
Maybe we should talk about happy knots.
(PYL /pyl for "pick your label)
I feel your pain. Except The Devil Went Down to Georgia. That’s the only acceptable one.I go to great lengths to avoid country music due to my general aversion to pain![]()
“Can you please pass the salt?”I don’t even remember exactly how in person discussions on spanking, anal, threesomes, open relationships, etc. have happened even though I’m almost always the one starting them.
How exactly did you come to this conclusion?When I first met my husband I thought he wanted me to shove a finger up his ass. He did not.
Popping in to say this is the best song!The Devil Went Down to Georgia
He asked her for the salt. Obviously.How exactly did you come to this conclusion?![]()