hotwords229_A
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In reality (I hate reality) I agree with all of this. Except one point, I need the visual as well as the physical.I started trying to answer each of these questions individually and it’s just easier to do it this way:
I started out answering the first question by saying that I’d want to be one of the couple because hopefully it would mean that we were together on that decision and had talked it over and communicated what we wanted, and were experimenting together, and open to trying something new. And that we had a partner who was willing to try something like that with you without judging.
It would be a big leap for me to do this with a serious partner though. It would be much better with a friend. In fact, I really don’t think I could. I think that if I were to be in a threesome, it would be more likely that it would be in a carefree, no deep feelings way. I really WANT to be that person who can be .. secure enough? Is that the issue?.. comfortable enough to see her partner with someone else, but I really don’t know if I could ever get there.
That feels so unattractive and unsexy. But it’s how I feel. He’s mine. I’m his. That’s it.
Wow. I just worked through all that real time.
So, it would have to be a just as friends dynamic and even then it would have to be the right mix.
The sexiness scale of threesomes to me:
MFM is out in front.
FMF is in second place.
All the rest are far behind and here’s why. I think the part about threesomes that is so powerful and erotic to me is that everyone is getting to either feel like they are the ultimate sex symbol (one of the two same sex people) or you are being worshipped pampered. Everyone is a integral and are an active part. No one is left out.
Now, have I ever had a threesome? Nope. Do I know what I’m talking about? No. This is what is going on in my fantasies. But that’s my reasoning.
If I were with two women, I want to see them enjoy each other as well as me. As much as I want them both on me and going to town on my body, I also need to see them going down on each other, kissing, sucking and fondling each other. That’s a huge part of it for me.
I can’t differentiate the whole FMF, FFM, etc. thing. I want all three people going nuts on each other, otherwise, what’s the point? When in a threesome, I think it’s best to approach it will the idea that everything could happen and there are no limits (other than the extreme ones).
I can’t imagine a threesome with rules about what can touch what, etc.
Too confusing.

