Come out of hiding thread

hiding

I guess coming out of hiding is hard for most of us. I am married and can not be open about my desires. Finding someone that will respect that is almost imposible. I don't even know what I want out of a relationship myself yet. There are so many things I would be willing to try but I would have to be comfortable with my partner(s) first. Don't know what good it will do to post here but I don't guess it can do any harm. Have a great day everyone. :confused:
 
I guess coming out of hiding is hard for most of us. I am married and can not be open about my desires. Finding someone that will respect that is almost imposible. I don't even know what I want out of a relationship myself yet. There are so many things I would be willing to try but I would have to be comfortable with my partner(s) first. Don't know what good it will do to post here but I don't guess it can do any harm. Have a great day everyone. :confused:

Well I hope it gets you more comfortable talking to others about what brought you here. And to make some friends.
 
It's funny, I post all over lit but I find it hardest to post in the BDSM section. Even here, I feel really guarded about this part of myself. I'm working on embracing it, but it's hard. I was happy to see this thread.
 
It's funny, I post all over lit but I find it hardest to post in the BDSM section. Even here, I feel really guarded about this part of myself. I'm working on embracing it, but it's hard. I was happy to see this thread.

Well for some of us we helt it so tight and in a dark secret place, it's hard to let it out in the light.
 
cookies?

Did someone say there might be some cookies to be had here???

popping in to say hello!

~waves~

fairly new here and doing my best to get comfortable, lol :heart:
 
Did someone say there might be some cookies to be had here???

popping in to say hello!

~waves~

fairly new here and doing my best to get comfortable, lol :heart:

Yes cookies and plenty of big fluffy furniture. Glad you popped in, get comfy and stay a while
 
I read a lot and comment when I can. I have been in a sub role and a Dom role at times. I've discovered a lot about my likes. I don't mind talking I just have limited experience.

Well the more we all share the more we learn from one another.
 
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Yes cookies and plenty of big fluffy furniture. Glad you popped in, get comfy and stay a while

Okay... settling into big comfy armchair.
let's see... so I read and read and read and lurked here for about 2 years or so. Finally got up the nerve to register this spring. A combination of finally coming to terms with being a sub (and working that out in RL); desperately needing to think and process all that in an interactive way (not just stories ~ though thank god for the stories, as without them I am not sure I would have ever figured out half of what I seem to now know as true); and an awareness of entering into a particularly uneasy time as my mom face's a health crisis.

I have been remarkably buoyed by friendships here...and supported to keep finding my way. I have been getting braver about posting here and there every day. And am willing to talk others....
~clynn
 
Okay... settling into big comfy armchair.
let's see... so I read and read and read and lurked here for about 2 years or so. Finally got up the nerve to register this spring. A combination of finally coming to terms with being a sub (and working that out in RL); desperately needing to think and process all that in an interactive way (not just stories ~ though thank god for the stories, as without them I am not sure I would have ever figured out half of what I seem to now know as true); and an awareness of entering into a particularly uneasy time as my mom face's a health crisis.

I have been remarkably buoyed by friendships here...and supported to keep finding my way. I have been getting braver about posting here and there every day. And am willing to talk others....
~clynn

I have friends here that I have kept from here and met quite a few face to face. I agree Lit is a wonderful place for friends and knowledge.
 
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