Commanded orgasms

[jdmct]

female ejaculation

All women ejaculate when they orgasm.Most just have almost all the fluid stay inside them.
The precious G spot orgasms are the best for causing your SO to squirt.
With time and practice,it is possible to have your SO cum from her G and squirt on command.
Honest.

 

[Leolover711]

All women ejaculate when they orgasm.Most just have almost all the fluid stay inside them.
The precious G spot orgasms are the best for causing your SO to squirt.
With time and practice,it is possible to have your SO cum from her G and squirt on command.
Honest.

Well perhaps you had better come and help U/us train?

 

[shy slave]

i dont think about anything else but controlling what my dominant expects me to control. maybe im weird but it is easier then thinking about something else which would take me too far away from the moment. You are giving him the control is the point i think. He is taking you where he wants you to go and you have to let go to get there. Make sense?

Makes sense to me

 

[kayte]

Such an interesting thread.

There is one item I don't see mentioned though, for those of us who have been "voice trained". To not cum unless you are given the word...

It is difficult when that relationship is ended for you. It can take a long time to reclaim your own sexuality. To give yourself the permission to orgasm....

It does take work. But it does happen. And then you can belong to Another.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

everyone says 'think of something else', how does the Dom feel about that?

Do you want the Dominant, or Sadistic answer?

 

[kayte]

Do you want the Dominant, or Sadistic answer?

Settling back to wait for this answer! Hi AA, nice to see you.

 

[laurel-marie]

Do you want the Dominant, or Sadistic answer?

I will take both.

 

[Ophelia_221]

i used to work with a girl that claimed she could squirt with this guy she was seeing that was 21 years older than her. Supposedly he was the only one she'd ever done it with....age is experience? from what I've seen, age is just easily impressed. Or maybe it all is circumstancial.
I've never done it, but I can see the physical possibility of it. Anatomy is anatomy after all. I have had Gspot orgasms plenty of times, but thats never happened. Maybe with a little more muscle movement on my part....

 

[SierraMoon]

Such an interesting thread.

There is one item I don't see mentioned though, for those of us who have been "voice trained". To not cum unless you are given the word...

It is difficult when that relationship is ended for you. It can take a long time to reclaim your own sexuality. To give yourself the permission to orgasm....

It does take work. But it does happen. And then you can belong to Another.

Hey Kayte!!

I have been taught to orgasm on demand. It is the one word "CUM" that my body aches to hear. Once it is whispered or delivered through clenched teeth, my body immediately reacts, without my help. lol.

Master usually keeps me on orgasm denial. I'm not allowed to touch at all, unless He gives expressed say so. 2 months ago, He took me off denial... as a treat, but as Kayte mentioned in this post, I cannot orgasm without His word. I even feel guilty when I try to masturbate without Him. So, it's been a long 2 months!!!

 

[h_i_s]

All women ejaculate when they orgasm.Most just have almost all the fluid stay inside them.
The precious G spot orgasms are the best for causing your SO to squirt.
With time and practice,it is possible to have your SO cum from her G and squirt on command.
Honest.

Err .. the G spot orgasms are best?? Says who? Best for whom, please? Interesting theory you have going there, but .... speak for yourself, please.

When i do squirt 'visabley' , it is rarely during a G-stimulated orgasm. When i have squirted, it's been due to a vigorous stimulation of my clitoris ... most times. My ability to squirt is certainly not limited to G spot orgasms, although i have been known to squirt due to the stimulation of either G or clit. Although they both feel somewhat different in their intensities, and sensations, i enjoy BOTH .. tremendously!!

 

[h_i_s]

As for incorporating this into your life.....practice....practice....practice

The most sound of all the words of advice i have read on this thread !!

 

[kayte]

Hey Kayte!!

I have been taught to orgasm on demand. It is the one word "CUM" that my body aches to hear. Once it is whispered or delivered through clenched teeth, my body immediately reacts, without my help. lol.

Master usually keeps me on orgasm denial. I'm not allowed to touch at all, unless He gives expressed say so. 2 months ago, He took me off denial... as a treat, but as Kayte mentioned in this post, I cannot orgasm without His word. I even feel guilty when I try to masturbate without Him. So, it's been a long 2 months!!!

Good morning Sierra ~ So nice to see you!!

I am sure it has been a long time for you!

 

[grace9]

Ophelia 221 wrote: RE: Female ejaculation
"I've never done it, but I can see the physical possibility of it. Anatomy is anatomy after all. I have had Gspot orgasms plenty of times, but thats never happened. Maybe with a little more muscle movement on my part...."

I don't know what can cause it to take place. For me being in the moment (vividly tethered to it, taking in EVERY thing that is setting off my mind and body) is what does it. I don't have to be touched physically to have one. It's more a mental release from (extremely) built up sexual tension when it results in a "spurt". Though I can't say for sure that A causes B....it just happens.

It freaked me out at first (thought I'd peed) and was a bit embarassed until I realized what had occurred.

Human anatomy is such a complex mystery and I'm sure there's more than one road to achieving this result. It would be interesting to find out from other women that ejaculate, what is it that does it for them. Maybe you could start a thread?....(before I get jumped on here, check and see if there's one about it already )

Good luck
Gracie~

 

[kayte]

Ophelia 221 wrote: RE: Female ejaculation
"I've never done it, but I can see the physical possibility of it. Anatomy is anatomy after all. I have had Gspot orgasms plenty of times, but thats never happened. Maybe with a little more muscle movement on my part...."

I don't know what can cause it to take place. For me being in the moment (vividly tethered to it, taking in EVERY thing that is setting off my mind and body) is what does it. I don't have to be touched physically to have one. It's more a mental release from (extremely) built up sexual tension when it results in a "spurt". Though I can't say for sure that A causes B....it just happens.

It freaked me out at first (thought I'd peed) and was a bit embarassed until I realized what had occurred.

Human anatomy is such a complex mystery and I'm sure there's more than one road to achieving this result. It would be interesting to find out from other women that ejaculate, what is it that does it for them. Maybe you could start a thread?....(before I get jumped on here, check and see if there's one about it already )

Good luck
Gracie~

I don't always squirt. In my case it occurs when I am "on top" of him as it were. I can find the perfect angle, and rhythm. He loves it when I do, and so tells me go for it then.

How much better can it be that he directs me to do it, and than it pleases both of us? He, like many Doms here get real pleasure out of their subs cumming.

There was a squirting thread on Lit. It gave instructions on how to have it happen. One of the most important things I remember it sayin is practice and patience.

 

[grace9]

"Spurt" technique?

I just did a search for other threads about female ejaculation.
Here's one I found titled "Try this & Report Back".

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MR G
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Try This & Report Back

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Try this. I know some of you have already but for those who haven't it just blow your minds.

THE TECHNIQUE

Quick Backgrounder

The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphines (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.

Basic Technique ideas:

#1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.

#2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded.

At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.

One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her.


Let me know if and / or how it worked for you.

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......hmmmmmmm.....Lucy may have some 'splaining to dooooo.....

Gracie~

 

[kerker_miester]

With Shadowsdream thread, ok you female subs, hitting on orgasms, and some of the responses mentioning orgasm control, I started wondering...How does one go about controling an orgasm. Oh, I know you can tell the submissive they are not to orgasm by masturbation, and bring one to the edge but not go over...I am not talking about this. What I am curious about is making them orgasm on command...or is that even possible?

You see it in stories...'You may not cum till I say so"...and the sub begging to orgasm, but does not, no matter what the Dom is doing. How can you do that? How can you keep yourself from orgasming? Or is it just a story thing?

Personally, I have no control over it. Even if he said "Don't untill I say"...I cannot stop myself. Now it might be just a part of one, but still I cannot stop it from escaping. How can you?

(I know, the title is missing a 'm', consider it a nursing error.)

As to how she was able to control it I can not say what I will say is that my sub was very good at not having one without permission, no matter what I was doing to her. A time or two I had her on the edge for so long that she had an orgasim by my command without my touching her, but that was the exception not the rule. If she reads this she might post her side but that is up to her to say. I don't know if I have helped or not but yes it can happen.

 

[MechaBlade]

In my attempts to experience orgasms without ejaculation (tantra?) I learned to hold back. But stimulation must be stopped.