I get what you guys are saying and I find this community has far more compassion, tolerance, and understanding than most others. I felt sorry for the guy and went back to the app he was on to say yes, let's exchange blowjobs. He deleted his account and am afraid someone less kind than I said something hurtful to him. Pity
One of the key questions you need to answer as a cocksucker is, "Am I doing this for my pleasure, or for my partner's pleasure?" Either answer is acceptable, but each has implications and consequences. I consider myself a pleasure giver. Most of the time, when I pleasure someone orally and swallow their load, I don't receive the same treatment from them. In fact, I usually don't have an ejaculation during a good cocksucking session, and that's more than OK: when I see their eyes roll back and hear their sounds of pleasure, when their cocks become so sensitive from the pleasure that it turns into pain, when I see the look of gratitude in their eyes, I've received my reward. That may sound hokey, but I suspect I'm not the only one who gets as much pleasure from a good service session as I would get from cumming. My whole body responds and glows with satisfaction. It's hard to describe: others here may do better.