Cuckold but wife hiding few things

[SurferBoy9044]

Does she enjoy this?

After being married for more than 20 years and have done this a lot I'm pretty sure she really likes it. The best part is talking about it before it going to happen and for days after it has happened. If you have a loving husband or relationship that has a lot of trust built into it you should try it.

 

[Wife4MMF]

Oh I do know what you're talking about!

 

[SurferBoy9044]

Oh I do know what you're talking about!

Great I wouldn't want to offend anyone. Any chance of getting a bigger picture of your site photo it looks like your naked spreading your ass cheeks apart. Did your husband take that picture or was it some other lover?

 

[Wife4MMF]

That would be telling!

 

[FilAm55]

Hi.. I am cuck for few years and met few single guys. And enjoyed watching wife romancing with other guys.

She had a crush with one of my friend and she took a lead to foreplay with my friend when I was in a business trip. She told me about it as soon as I came. Told wife not to proceed further with that guy and she stopped it.

Later after couple of years, Cuck inside me took initiative and invited friend for dinner home and later went out crating privacy between my friend and wife.

It was very anxious moment and I know strong romance happened between them when I was not there. Once I am back home, that night wife told me about kiss, hugs etc but she lied with me about intercourse.

Later I came to know that they had intercourse which excited me more. Anyone went through situation where woman lied about sexual activities with other guys and later when you came to know about it.. it aroused you more.

i keep asking her about those moments and she hiding about intercourse and that discussion makes me more erotic and intense.

That thought gets me hot. I imagine my wife being naughty after her shift in the hospital, which she calls, "extra" charting.

 

[SurferBoy9044]

That would be telling!

I totally understand but you might want to share this attached photo with your husband and let him know what you what to share

 

[jasexy28]

My second husband was cuck and could only get hard seeing me with others. Often he set up group sex that absolutely had him in a state of raging hard ons. I then took care of him.

That is such a sexy thought. No doubt that would make him extremely hard! Can almost imagine his relief when you took care of him.

 

[SurferBoy9044]

Hi Everyone I have pasted a story that was posted a long time ago about our sex life and I have also attached a photo that I took of two of my best friends getting my wife ready for anal sex.

I like making my wife strip naked in front of me and my friends. There is always three or four of us. Once she is completely naked I make her walk around in front of us pinching her nipples and rubbing her pussy. She then takes turns sitting on their laps and when she faces them she will whisper something into their ear and you can always see them smile and node their head yes. When she sits on their laps with her back to them she lets them run their hands over her large breasts and run their hand between her legs and finger her pussy. Once she has sat on everyone's lap she stands up and again walks around us and then stops in front of one of us and bends over and spreads her ass cheeks apart exposing her pussy and asshole for a really great view. Each one of my friends then gets to finger her pussy and when their finger are all wet from her pussy juice they will put a finger in her asshole. They will usually put two fingers up her ass and put two fingers in her pussy. This is one of her favorites and she likes to moan and grind down on their fingers and she will reach up between her legs and finger her clit. She then tells them that it feels so good but she has to stop them as she doesn't want to come just yet. She then moves onto the next guy and bends over and spreads her ass again for the next guy. She goes from guy to guy bending over and spreading her ass exposing her self like the sexy stripper that she is to us. She then goes around us again rubbing her pussy and then kneels down in front of one of the guys and pulls down his shorts and pulls out his cock and starts sucking on his cock until it is hard. She really like it when it's a new guy and she has never seen his cock before. She has told me many times that she has never seen a cock she didn't like. She really gets off on sucking a new cock and really likes it when they turn out to be very large. She likes to rub their cocks across her face and will look at all of us and say I really like big cocks and I can't wait to have him take me will you all watch. She then goes from guy to guy performing oral sex on on each guy while we all watch. There is something very exciting to watch a naked women on her knees sucking a cock as other men watch. She really likes it when we crowd around her to rub our cocks all over her face. It then gets really exciting when we take it to the next level and she gets on her hands and knees and we start play with her ass and fingering her asshole. We have over a dozen dildos and we start with the small butt plugs and each guy gets a turn pulling it out of her asshole and putting in another larger butt plug. Will we take turns playing with her ass she also asks to have someone put their cock in her mouth. She likes sucking cock will taking it in her ass. We then take turns putting the larger dildos in her ass and the last one is a large glass dildo. When you pull it out of her asshole she just stays open with a large gap that tells us its time for a anal gangbang. We then take turns fucking her ass and each guy goes one after the other. She likes sucking our cocks will she gets fucked in the ass. She can suck two cocks at once while taking a cock in her ass. Once one guys comes in her ass she likes to do clean up blow job and likes their licking the sperm off their cock and balls. Before I go any further let me tell you that before any anal gangbangs she spend a couple of hours giving herself a couple of enemas until her asshole is as clean as her pussy. She then doesn't eat any food until after the anal gangbang is over. I like watching her get fucked in the ass by my friends as she sucks their cocks. We have tried to DP her but the pussy cock always pops out of her pussy. She has told me that she just likes to have cock in her ass while she sucks cock and that she really likes having more than a couple of cocks at a time. She likes to be the center of attention and likes to suck cock in front of other guys. She likes knowing that she is exciting them and likes when they show her their hard cocks. I'm usually the last one to fuck her in the ass and it really excites me knowing that her ass is full of come from the other guys. After I come in her ass she turns around to perform clean up blow job as I tell her that she is sucking off the come of many guys and she just moans and keeps licking the come off my balls. In the last year she has been fucked in her ass over a hundred times by about a dozen different guys. She is my anal slut wife and I will love her until the day I die.

 

[RipRespon]

So there's a fine line between cuckolding and cheating. There were several times my wife had spontaneous sex with someone and I'd find out about it after, always a big turn on for me. Then there were several relationships where she didn't share the intimate/specific details of what happened between the two of them, (usually because the guy wanted to be private or it was just hotter for me not to know).

Then there was my best friend. They started having sex with my knowledge and permission, a few times I even kept his wife busy on occasion while they snuck off for sex. They broke it off, and together my wife and I decided to no longer include close friends into our cuckolding. However, he and my wife picked it up a few years later without telling me. They got hot and heavy for a year and I didn't know. When I found out I asked her to stop, she refused. That made their relationship an affair, ending our 20 year marriage. 14 years later, they're still married. Now, even though the cuckold life ended with my first marriage, I'm happier than I've ever been.

 

[cuckoldbill]

After being married for more than 20 years and have done this a lot I'm pretty sure she really likes it. The best part is talking about it before it going to happen and for days after it has happened. If you have a loving husband or relationship that has a lot of trust built into it you should try it.

as a long term cuck, I fully agree with you Surfer Boy. I love watching my wife preparing for a hot date. The care she takes to ensure everything is as she wants it for her lover. As she slips her panties I get so hard think that very soon some very lucky guy is going to be removing them

 

[agedmac]

I get it....... still, there is something about discovering that she has a lover that you don't know about. My wife informed me that her first 'affair' after we married ended up with sex between the two of them (and two other guys--all with whom she worked). I was shocked since she claimed to having only one lover before me. When I decided she needed to stop because this was cheating.......she agreed. I assumed that was it until a friend claimed her former was 'back in town'. I confronted her and she assured me that she would never do that....again..... and yet...... five years ago I followed her one night and she met up with this guy in secret (he was married as well). And how does that make me feel? Awful and yet.........I continue to try and catch them......and I'll do what? Probably watch!

 

[luckyseven]

I think once you enter the cuck or hotwife lifestyle, you need to let the woman take the lead. It is natural to develop feelings for a guy you are having sex with. The man needs to feel confident that she will not run off and leave him but also needs to give her room to deal with her feelings. She may not want to tell you everything about some guys she has fucked and that should be her call. You need to discuss issues before getting started. Personally I do not like rules. Either you let her do her thing or don't do the open marriage. It certainly is not a lifestyle to enter if you are not secure in your marriage.

Wise words - you have much wisdom

 

[Islander55]

Wise words - you have much wisdom

Perhaps the only advantage to getting older. You do learn a few things over the years.

 

[TonyF862]

My second husband was cuck and could only get hard seeing me with others. Often he set up group sex that absolutely had him in a state of raging hard ons. I then took care of him.

Did you enjoy being with others/putting on the show? Had you done it before this? If so, what turned you on the most?

 

[SlutAddicted]

I think once you enter the cuck or hotwife lifestyle, you need to let the woman take the lead. It is natural to develop feelings for a guy you are having sex with. The man needs to feel confident that she will not run off and leave him but also needs to give her room to deal with her feelings. She may not want to tell you everything about some guys she has fucked and that should be her call. You need to discuss issues before getting started. Personally I do not like rules. Either you let her do her thing or don't do the open marriage. It certainly is not a lifestyle to enter if you are not secure in your marriage.

Yup. Much as I enjoy this lifestyle and embrace my wife's sexual prerogative, if she was not clearly in charge I would run the risk of being a disruptive presence. Whether a man's attitude towards this dynamic is enthusiastic or insecure or anything in between there is a significant chance that he will want to "have a say" in some way when what he really needs to do is leave her alone and give her space to sort out her relationships with other men and with her cuckold. If she doesn't have that space, a dynamic that very well might have worked well can be problematic. Her husband may be inclined to think that the resulting problems are because of her extra-marital activity when in fact those problems are the result of the husband's behaviour towards her extra-marital activity (even if well intended).

 

[Islander55]

Yup. Much as I enjoy this lifestyle and embrace my wife's sexual prerogative, if she was not clearly in charge I would run the risk of being a disruptive presence. Whether a man's attitude towards this dynamic is enthusiastic or insecure or anything in between there is a significant chance that he will want to "have a say" in some way when what he really needs to do is leave her alone and give her space to sort out her relationships with other men and with her cuckold. If she doesn't have that space, a dynamic that very well might have worked well can be problematic. Her husband may be inclined to think that the resulting problems are because of her extra-marital activity when in fact those problems are the result of the husband's behaviour towards her extra-marital activity (even if well intended).

I think you are right. If you are going to be in this lifestyle, you need to embrace it completely. If the woman can get completely comfortable in this type of relationship, there can be huge benefits for both partners and their total sex life enhanced.

 

[SlutAddicted]

I think you are right. If you are going to be in this lifestyle, you need to embrace it completely. If the woman can get completely comfortable in this type of relationship, there can be huge benefits for both partners and their total sex life enhanced.

Agreed. And presumably having a husband that is accepting facilitates the wife getting comfortable in this type of relationship. I often hear men saying they would be ok with it as long as 'X'. Whatever 'X' can be a problem. As the husband you have to accept that you can't control the circumstances and neither can your wife. You have to trust her to manage these dynamics and you have to know and accept that other men will provide something that you cannot. It may be simply the newness of a new relationship or a simple matter of variety as opposed to the other man being "better", but it is what it is. I try to think of it as being similar to being with one of her girlfriends - at that moment in time that is where she wants to be and would rather be there than with me. That doesn't mean she is rejecting me. It just means she is enjoying someone else right now and my role is to be supportive.

 

[policywank]

Agreed. And presumably having a husband that is accepting facilitates the wife getting comfortable in this type of relationship. I often hear men saying they would be ok with it as long as 'X'. Whatever 'X' can be a problem. As the husband you have to accept that you can't control the circumstances and neither can your wife. You have to trust her to manage these dynamics and you have to know and accept that other men will provide something that you cannot. It may be simply the newness of a new relationship or a simple matter of variety as opposed to the other man being "better", but it is what it is. I try to think of it as being similar to being with one of her girlfriends - at that moment in time that is where she wants to be and would rather be there than with me. That doesn't mean she is rejecting me. It just means she is enjoying someone else right now and my role is to be supportive.

While I generally do not think of any of the other men as being "better" it is probably best that the husband accept that possibility because it is almost inevitable. I mean in the sense of being "better" in one or more specific ways as opposed to overall. And he may only be regarded that way from the husband's perspective, but the feelings will be real.

Even very compatible couples will have some differences in interests and aptitudes. If the wife loves ballroom dancing and the husband does not it is only logical that another man who shares this interest may appeal to her. Chances are that he will be a better dancer than her husband and that may well have a strong visceral sexual appeal to her.

Meanwhile the natural inclination to explore a variety of sexual experiences may lead the wife towards lovers that have different characteristics than her husband (or one another). It is prudent to expect that she or her husband may find that her lovers are better on specific criteria. For instance, my husband is a very generous and gentle lover strongly oriented towards a romantic approach to sex. I love it. But there are times that I want to be almost man handled by a strong physical man and engage in almost animalistic sex. I don't prefer one over the other overall, but on the night that I am seeing that other man because I want to be fucked in that aggressive way - the way that he fucks me and my husband does not - it will feel like I am selecting something "better" to my husband and it doesn't help to deny that (even if I did stay at home with him last night because I wanted the gentle romantic sexual experience he provides).

And yes most wives will at least consider the novelty of being with a man who is more generously endowed. Even if she honestly doesn't find it "better" it is a natural curiosity and a genuine source of variety. When she is in the mood for that it is not realistic to think that the husband won't be feeling like she sees the other man as "better". Truth is that in that moment she does, but that doesn't mean better overall.