Indeed and each to their own.I don't mind a threesome but have no desire for humiliation or lowering my status in a trio. I think it's the subjugation that just doesn't fit with me.
I've played the game before, it doesn't sit well with me any more. I'm a sexual being as it my partner. We work on 100% trust and honesty and our relationship is all the stronger for it.
But the cuckold and cuckqueans (female equivalent) are entitled to play the game their own way. You may not like the idea of being humiliated, but it's not your place to judge those that do. We all get off in the way that works best for us as individuals and couples.
Vive la difference? I respect your viewpoint and would never try to change it, any more than (I hope) you would ever want to change mine.