Cuckoldry and humiliation: a thread for women as well as men

I've been seeing a Taiwanese couple in their early 30s for just over a year. They've been together since they were 18 and entered the lifestyle because of him asking her if she regretted not having sexual experience with anyone else. He was her first boyfriend, first kiss and first lover.

Initially, he would watch us have sex. Then one day his wife asked if she could place our cocks side by side. When we did that she giggled and even he laughed. He's 5 inches erect, I'm 8. After that she would speak to him while we played, asking if his little thing was hard.

Over a year this has progressed to him wearing a cock cage and panties while I have sex with his wife. She is his key holder and degrades him while we play. She tells him he isn't a man, that her pussy belongs to me now etc.

They both admit loving the turn this has taken.
almost like us exactly
 
I was thinking about this recently because of a situation that may be unique to Taiwan.

It's not uncommon for employees of large companies to be sent to China to work for a year or more. It's almost always the husband. In that case his wife usually stays in Taiwan so as not to disrupt the family because their kids are in school etc...

This means there's a not inconsiderable group of wives here in their 40s who are in love with their husbands, have a passionate sex life and are suddenly sexually marooned.

For one couple I have played with this was their entree to hotwifing. Her husband told her he loved her, was so proud to be her husband....and in the next sentence told her he wanted her to take a lover while he was away for the next 10 months. He knew she had needs and at 43 was in her sexual prime.

After a solid week of constant duscussion she admitted it made sense. And so after 16 years of monogamy she was going on dates, dressing to attract her date's attention and eventually taking men into her bed. All with the love and support of her husband. She's continued dating even though her husband is now back home permanently.

Sometimes life circumstances get the hotwife
when we was in the army my buddy went on reforger to germany for 6 months. he was married to my old girlfriend who was once a best friend to my wife in school. we all grew up together and went to the same school. she stayed with us for quite a while when he first left. and later right before he came back. little one bedroom apartment we all got looser about what we wore. i told her it would be much easier if we didn't try to keep everything hid so we all just started going nude a lot. she was horny from him not being around so I started fucking her too. it turned into a full time FMF threesome. and during the day when I was gone they took care of each other. one more reason my wife didn't mind me sucking cocks because she had so much pussy for herself.
 
One thing I like about her going and fucking him is it is at the casino. She said he almost always takes her to the bar before they go up to the room. And when they get through he takes her to Chilis there to grab a bite. Lots of people we know go there. She is bound to be seen with him. And if they see them getting on the elevator it only goes up to the hotel rooms. She likes that about as much as I do.
 
This is such an interesting topic. When we met in college my wife was very sexy and rather promiscuous. I was more than happy for her to fuck other guys and she did fuck a lot of my friends. Ther was never any sense that she went with other guys becyI was sexually inadequate. She just loved enjoying and being enjoyed by men who took her fancy. I loved that. I was proud of her sexiness and of her promiscuity, and I was always happy for other guys to know that I knew they had fucked her. I didn’t at the time think that it was humiliating for me that she gave herself to these other men and that they enjoyed her and, to be honest, used her as a cumdump (literally- this was pre AIDS and she was always on the pill and loved to be fucked bare and to take a guys semen into her body)

But… looking back now, many decades later, as I reminisce about our youthful adventures, ( and yes, of course, masturbate as I do so) I find I am very turned on by thinking about how humiliating it was for me that my gf was so easy to get into bed, that she was so willing to open her legs and guide a guys hard cock into her open eager cunt, and I wonder whether all those guys, friends of mine, enjoyed mounting her and riding her and cuming inside her (or all over her tits) all the more because they were enjoying my gf and therefore humiliating me. And I find that I really hope they did, and that they still do as they think back and enjoy the memory of fucking my wife.

So yes, for me humiliation has late in life because a big part of the pleasure of wife sharing!

Does this ring any bells for anyone?
 
So yes, for me humiliation has late in life because a big part of the pleasure of wife sharing!

Does this ring any bells for anyone?
I was in high school the first time a date dumped me to go fuck another guys. I left the club angry and by the time I got home and in bed, found out I was incredibly aroused. I think it was a fetish from that time onward, but I was in my 30s before I really understood that I had a fetish for humiliation.

So the realization came much younger for me than you. I'm pretty sure I was cheated on from time to time in my adult relationships, and my 3rd wife actively engaged in the cuckold dynamic for a short while— before she left me for her stud.

However, I never had a wife or girlfriend like yours. I envy you. And yes, I think you can rest assured that at least some of those guys, if not all, laughed at you behind your back— maybe laughed with her about you. What I wonder is did she continue her wanton ways after you married?
 
I was in high school the first time a date dumped me to go fuck another guys. I left the club angry and by the time I got home and in bed, found out I was incredibly aroused. I think it was a fetish from that time onward, but I was in my 30s before I really understood that I had a fetish for humiliation.

So the realization came much younger for me than you. I'm pretty sure I was cheated on from time to time in my adult relationships, and my 3rd wife actively engaged in the cuckold dynamic for a short while— before she left me for her stud.

However, I never had a wife or girlfriend like yours. I envy you. And yes, I think you can rest assured that at least some of those guys, if not all, laughed at you behind your back— maybe laughed with her about you. What I wonder is did she continue her wanton ways after you married?
Thanks for this response! I haven't had as much experience of this as you have as I have only had the one partner/wife [though an earlier gf cheated on me which and did make me realise I had this kink.] But yes, Kate did fuck other guys after we were married - not as many as in her student days, but still enough to keep things interesting! Then she stopped when kids came along and started again in her late 40s for a few years. The dynamic was different then - she had a few longer affairs not just one night stands with acquaintances.

Yu raise a really good point when you ask whether Kate laughed with her lovers about me behind my back, maybe even when they were fucking her. She never said she did, but she did tell me that a lot of the guys sho'd been with had asked her if I knew that she was letting them fuck her and she told them I did, and that i didnt mind. So it is very likely that they had a laugh about that at my expense. I hope so! I find the idea very arousing!
 
Humiliation has been a turn on for me since I hit puberty. Having a defect in my penis since birth and it being far smaller than normal has only driven this fact home. High school gym class was delicious torment for a young confused crossdresser. It still is that way today.
There seems to be a very lively interest in many threads about cuckoldry & cheating, and all their various ass-pects. So I thought I'd post my own question. I’d love to hear from both women with step out on their own, and the men who love them for it.

My question is about humiliation. I myself have had a lifelong kink for humiliation, and I think the humiliation that I've experienced in cuckold-type situations is what first turned me on to it. There are other things about it that also turn me on, but humiliation is by far the biggest factor. How about you?
Does humiliating him, or being humiliated by her, turn you on?
Or is it just the general sexiness and freedom from constraints that does it for you? Or something else?
 
I have found I like public humiliation. When I was 18 I had a daddy that made me wear panties and girls shorts to show off my smooth sissy legs. I would never done that on my own but he forced me to. I loved the sex we done and I knew if I didn't I would loose it so I done it. It was even more embarrassing when friends seen me. But mentally I enjoyed it. I am sure they thought I had turned queer but wasn't absolutely sure. Then later on after me and my wife started doing threesomes I was sissifed by a kinky bull we had. He claimed me as his girl too and required me to come dressed. He locked me in chastity so my wife would be ready for him. He enjoyed my humiliation. I found we did too.
 
Thanks for this response! I haven't had as much experience of this as you have as I have only had the one partner/wife [though an earlier gf cheated on me which and did make me realise I had this kink.] But yes, Kate did fuck other guys after we were married - not as many as in her student days, but still enough to keep things interesting! Then she stopped when kids came along and started again in her late 40s for a few years. The dynamic was different then - she had a few longer affairs not just one night stands with acquaintances.

Yu raise a really good point when you ask whether Kate laughed with her lovers about me behind my back, maybe even when they were fucking her. She never said she did, but she did tell me that a lot of the guys sho'd been with had asked her if I knew that she was letting them fuck her and she told them I did, and that i didnt mind. So it is very likely that they had a laugh about that at my expense. I hope so! I find the idea very arousing!
They probably were more relieved than laughing.
 
Humiliation has been a turn on for me since I hit puberty. Having a defect in my penis since birth and it being far smaller than normal has only driven this fact home. High school gym class was delicious torment for a young confused crossdresser. It still is that way today.
And are you or have you been in a cuckold relationship?
 
I am a firm believer in the benefits of a loving cuckold relationship. I think i have been a cuckold my entire life. My first girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend after I passed out. When I woke up she told me. Instead of freaking out we had sex. My next serious relationship girl cucked me as well. My first wife asked for permission when my boss was to drunk to drive after a party. She told me if I let her she would make love to me after. He became her frequent lover for almost a year. I openly encouraged my second and current wife to cuckold me when we first got married. That was 1997. Humiliation is a personal thing. Yes, I have and do enjoy mild humiliation. The fact that my wife now needs other bigger men is life and normal for us.
 
I didnt really realize it years ago we was seeing a man a little older than us. my wife loved fucking him and he was kinky. he had fucked me and made me start wearing dresses for him. He got me a chastity cage and had her lock it and give him the key. We gave our wedding rings to him and he had a set for him and her. We all signed a piece of paper saying I gave my wife to him and he owned us both. He was a govenor of the rotary club and would pimp us to other rotarians I suppose. They was always older nice dressed men. My wife seen the guy that owned the city cleaners in the larger town next to us. She recognized him from the newspaper. I never did go see anyone. She got sent out a couple of times. She liked being whored. I found I liked it too. So that was like being cucked before we really got into it on our own.
 
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