Cumming from the anticipation

[minx1]

I can do it when we have been playing and there has been a build up in tension and other indirect, usually verbal stimulation.

And I can do it on my own from scratch, but that really takes some concentrating! Actually that was the first time I ever discovered I could acheive an orgasm without direct stimulation *giggles*

 

[catalina_francisco]

finally people agree with me that you can do without direct stimulation I can remember when I last brought it up.. everyone said I was full of it,..

Why? I must have missed that one of I would have backed you up.

Catalina

 

[SubKekiLee]

Why? I must have missed that one of I would have backed you up.

Catalina

it was when my Sir and i first got together and he made me orgasm without touching myself..... and i got blasted that it was impossible . If you look back in my postings youll see.. .=0) but it is okay, I know it can happen cause when we just together he did it again never directly touching me and made me shake and shiver.... and cum without touching me..

 

[catalina_francisco]

it was when my Sir and i first got together and he made me orgasm without touching myself..... and i got blasted that it was impossible . If you look back in my postings youll see.. .=0) but it is okay, I know it can happen cause when we just together he did it again never directly touching me and made me shake and shiver.... and cum without touching me..

I think there is a lot of skepticism around the topic. Partly IMO this arises as it is not something everyone is able to enjoy, certainly not near as many as can orgasm in the more accepted ways, and that is then counteracted by often when the subject comes up, a high percentage of people saying they can do it. It sort of contradicts other discussions and indeed research which shows orgasm for women is not always easy or happening, so when a huge amount claim an ability that is seen as even less likely or possible, it is natural to wonder which ones can and which feel pressured to say they can to save face, please another, or just feel one of the crowd, or if it is possible if never experienced. Believe me, some find it questionable I have had unexpected orgasms from music. I can understand it as the first time sort of caught me completely by surprise as well, but the important thing is I know it is possible and hope those doubters also find a way to experience something so wonderful for themselves some day.

Catalina

 

[SubKekiLee]

I think there is a lot of skepticism around the topic. Partly IMO this arises as it is not something everyone is able to enjoy, certainly not near as many as can orgasm in the more accepted ways, and that is then counteracted by often when the subject comes up, a high percentage of people saying they can do it. It sort of contradicts other discussions and indeed research which shows orgasm for women is not always easy or happening, so when a huge amount claim an ability that is seen as even less likely or possible, it is natural to wonder which ones can and which feel pressured to say they can to save face, please another, or just feel one of the crowd, or if it is possible if never experienced. Believe me, some find it questionable I have had unexpected orgasms from music. I can understand it as the first time sort of caught me completely by surprise as well, but the important thing is I know it is possible and hope those doubters also find a way to experience something so wonderful for themselves some day.

Catalina

yes I agree, Catalina... I hope that those that are skeptic are able to experience it someday, I couldnt do it previously, Sir has opened my mind so much I always ask him how he does it to me and his anwser is always the same, Pet you opened your mind to me.... but it blows my mind I am able to get to that point with him.... I agree with you that I hope everyone experiences it.....

 

[JamieB]

Believe me, some find it questionable I have had unexpected orgasms from music.

Catalina

Just out of curiosity...what music?

J

 

[catalina_francisco]

Just out of curiosity...what music?

J

LOL, a particularly beautiful guitar riff of Chris Isaak...sure made sitting in the car on a 36C day in a traffic jam much more bearable.

Catalina

 

[BiBunny]

Yes! Finally, a kindred spirit who understands.

Marry me

When I post about my ability to come multiple times it always has to be posted as a positive thing because otherwise I'll get flamed for my ingratitude to whichever deity decreed that I should come an average of 6 times during intercourse.

For me, coming many times often reduces the strength of each climax quite considerably. I find it frustrating in almost the same way as some women do who very rarely cum at all.

It's like trying to scratch an itch with a feather.

Oh, I totally know what you're talking about. Usually, what happens to me is that quantity decreases quality. Unless I'm with a really good sadist.

Errrr...lemme try to explain. All orgasms are not the same, as I'm pretty sure we all know. I have small ones, medium-sized ones, and Holy Shit ones. I can have hundreds of small ones, but those only serve to frustrate and annoy me. Most men think they're God if they get three (small) orgasms out of me, I guess because most women can't even have that many small ones. Big freaking deal. I can give myself three small orgasms just by accidentally brushing my hair over my collarbone the right way.

A good sadist *evil grin* won't allow me to have small ones. I'm pretty good at controlling them if I'm told to. Holding back the small ones allows me to have medium-sized ones. The appropriate pain/pleasure mix applied after a couple of medium-sized ones produces Holy Shit ones, where I squirt and appear to be having a Grand Mal seizure.

The most Holy Shit orgasms I've ever had in one day was about 10, one right after the other. I promptly rolled over and passed the fuck out when it was over.

Oh, and more to the point of the thread, the orgasms I have without being touched are usually small ones and occasionally medium-sized ones.

*Sigh* Yeah, being too multi-orgasmic is a pain.

 

[Bandit58]

I wonder what the difference is between those women who can cum without stimulation vs those that have to have direct touch of either clit or G spot

Is it different nerve connections? More imagination? Hypnotic suggestion? I can't imagine being able to orgasm without direct contact.

No worries though, I'm just really happy that I'm able to orgasm with Sir Considering that before we met I had great diffuculty orgasming with a partner - although when masturbating alone I was able to cum perhaps 80% of the time. Plus an orgasm isn't a necessary thing for me to enjoy sex anyway

 

[FurryFury]

I wonder what the difference is between those women who can cum without stimulation vs those that have to have direct touch of either clit or G spot

Is it different nerve connections? More imagination? Hypnotic suggestion? I can't imagine being able to orgasm without direct contact.

No worries though, I'm just really happy that I'm able to orgasm with Sir Considering that before we met I had great diffuculty orgasming with a partner - although when masturbating alone I was able to cum perhaps 80% of the time. Plus an orgasm isn't a necessary thing for me to enjoy sex anyway

Usually I'm a clit stim only girl. I have come from words on the screen alone. That's happened a few times now. I've also come from anal once and G spot once.

 

[EmpressFi]

only one time have I orgasmed from absolutely no direct contact to any errogenous zone (other than my mind) and that was listening to the song #1 Crush by Garbage. I was driving and had to pull the car over.

 

[catalina_francisco]

only one time have I orgasmed from absolutely no direct contact to any errogenous zone (other than my mind) and that was listening to the song #1 Crush by Garbage. I was driving and had to pull the car over.

LOL, maybe given both our experiences we should start a research project to see if it is the combination of cars and good music which trigger the orgasm response.

Catalina