Cumming on command

Can you cum on command?


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I'm thinking this would be EXTREMELY fun to do. Out shopping. You're buying some new clothes. Master walks up behind you, says CUM. Saleslady gives you freaked look.

oh yeah. hes done that too. ive gotten odd looks, and even if nobody saw ive gotten embarrassed an tried to hide my face in his shirt. he's also gottn some pretty evil glares that way.

and oddly enough, my "touch spot", as called by cutie, wasnt something he created, just something he found. even more odd is nobody else can do it, viv has tried.
 
I'm thinking this would be EXTREMELY fun to do. Out shopping. You're buying some new clothes. Master walks up behind you, says CUM. Saleslady gives you freaked look.

*hoping Master doesn't see this one...hides it in CutieMouse's Frozen Foods Aisle*
 
I can, anytime he wants. But I will say that a.) I am one of those incredibly multi-orgasmic people who can cum just from feeling the ends of my hair brush against my collarbone (one of my super hot spots) when I toss my hair back over my shoulder, and b.) I have such a high sex drive that I am always in at least some low-grade level of arousal.

There really wasn't a whole lot of training involved. I think it's because of those two factors I mentioned up there. It doesn't take much to make me cum, period, so this wasn't terribly complicated, either. Also, I tend to be a rather aural person. The sound of his voice is a huge turn-on to me, so that definitely makes it easier.

I will say that although I can do it, they aren't usually mind-blowing, just little flutters that make me want more. Because I am so multi-orgasmic, I can have tiny annoying orgasms all day long that do nothing to satiate my desire. In fact, they make it worse. I have to be tortured hard and played with a lot to have the kind of mind-blowing orgasms I need.
 
nope. can't even begin to fathom such a thing. but my guess would be that this sort of thing can only really be possible for those who are easily and highly orgasmic, like Bunny. i'm at the opposite end of the spectrum...almost non-orgasmic. it's been many years since the last time i had one, and when they happen it's always just one very mild, fleeting flutter, sort of a butterflies in the tummy feeling and nothing more. so doing so on command...or even at will...is pretty much completely out of the realm of possibility.
 
Because I am so multi-orgasmic, I can have tiny annoying orgasms all day long that do nothing to satiate my desire. In fact, they make it worse. I have to be tortured hard and played with a lot to have the kind of mind-blowing orgasms I need.

oh my god, yes. Master does this almost every time we are in walmart (long story) any many other places as well. he likes that i can cum and end up more needy then when we started.

sigh. im so predictable.
 
It's happened a couple of times, but I have to be really aroused and the session has been really intense for it to happen. I really doubt that I would be able to orgasm just from Him telling me to, with no warmup.

Remember this post is from a woman who had never climaxed with a partner up until Sir, so as far as I'm concerned any orgasm with Him is something special :cattail:
 
I can't cum on command. Sometimes it takes me enough work just to cum lol.

But I think Sir plans on trying to train me to do it.
 
Once I've had my first orgasm of a session I can cum again whenever he commands. I have never cum on command without some sort of buildup. Getting an unexpected phone call and hearing his voice will make my clit tingle, but not to the point of orgasm.
 
If you find the school you must share. I am sure mine would love to do that while I am grocery shopping or making diner for the family.

........So he could laugh and do it again. ahhh the love :cathappy:
 
Don't think this technically counts, but me and my gf had had loads of sex one day and I made her cum about 5 times an hour for 8 hours (this wasn't just sex though, licking and fingering too) and her last few orgasms got closer and closer until they blended into one for about 20 minutes. For about an hour or two after that, just touching her kneck back or shoulders with a single finger mad her cum with a twitch and a judder accompaniment. That was a good sunday :D
 
I voted Obligatory Other just to mess with you.

Me too. Convenient that.

In my own case, my orgasm is frequently elusive. Anyway, training is an important thing here, and the vast majority of it is mental. It is a matter of association, as Cutiemouse says. And, yes, it really does help to be multi-orgasmic. That said, it is not like one is multi-orgasmic or not with no chance of change. viv had trouble reaching climax when we met, and I fixed that problem quickly. Then started working on making her multi-orgasmic.

"w", my ex, was the same way. She explained that she rarely came from intercourse, almost always having to touch herself afterwards to get off. I got her to the point where it took perhaps a few minutes work to achieve orgasm. This was not exactly a plus though, as she was hyper sensitive afterwards, and could not stand to be touched there, let alone continue to have sexual congress.

Some women will be anorgasmic, and there is naught to do about it, but many others can achieve greater arousal, greater enjoyment, etc with a properly skilled and attentiive partner. Same can be said for orgasming on command.

That said, it is not a guarantee. "w" never got to that point, and I did not push as I knew she was highly unlikely to. Given a few years, maybe. As is, in three months, I'd lowered her refractory period significantly, and gotten her to the poitn where she could stand to have sex multiple times in a given day. It was difficult, and, to be honest, not terribly pleasant after the second time or so, but it was working.

The core issue, and necessary feature, is great desire on the part of the pyl. She must not only want to please, but need to, and be prone to suggestion, as CM noted. And, frankly, it takes time and effort. It is not something to be done in casual relationships, at least not in my experience.
 
I need to play at least *a little* for it to be possible. Then He can tell me to come and sometimes I'll do it right away and sometimes it might be five seconds later. But I would really love to be able to do it just when He says the word. I agree with Bunny though on the voice thing. His voice *always* turns me on. And He wonders why I get all horny when all He said was "How are you?" I have a pretty high sex drive most of the time too and it doesn't take me long to come. I just really want to learn what MIS can do. :p
 
BiBunny said:
I can, anytime he wants. But I will say that a.) I am one of those incredibly multi-orgasmic people who can cum just from feeling the ends of my hair brush against my collarbone (one of my super hot spots) when I toss my hair back over my shoulder, and b.) I have such a high sex drive that I am always in at least some low-grade level of arousal.

There really wasn't a whole lot of training involved. I think it's because of those two factors I mentioned up there. It doesn't take much to make me cum, period, so this wasn't terribly complicated, either. Also, I tend to be a rather aural person. The sound of his voice is a huge turn-on to me, so that definitely makes it easier.

I will say that although I can do it, they aren't usually mind-blowing, just little flutters that make me want more. Because I am so multi-orgasmic, I can have tiny annoying orgasms all day long that do nothing to satiate my desire. In fact, they make it worse. I have to be tortured hard and played with a lot to have the kind of mind-blowing orgasms I need.

I voted B

BB and I have commiserated (kinda) before on this one. I don't orgasm throughout the day like she does but it takes very little to get me off. This can be frustrating as it's so difficult for me to work up to a more satisfying climax without it dissolving into a string of little ones that only tease. OTOH it means that I can cum for Master with very little stimulation/provocation. It's not like MIS where he can walk up to me and demand it or drop it into an innocuous conversation but after some measure of verbal and/or physical arousal I can climax on command and more than once too. It's usually the case where he'll force me to hold off rather than keep ordering me to climax.

In my case, there's a semi-plausible reason for all this. I was in a road accident and suffered a skull fracture at age 17 and only since then have I been both epileptic and multiply orgasmic. It appears to be some kind of neurological karma in return for the not so fun aspects of permanent epilepsy like grand-mal seizures and no hope of a driver's licence.
 
I come on command.

But only with Him, only through my submission to Him. Whether it's a verbal command or one that is so subtle only i understand it, He makes me come when HE wants me to. No touch, no overt sex is necessary. We can be doing the most mundane things and He can make me come instantly. My body responds even before my mind can grasp the command.

He's the only man with that power over me. He loves that and come to think of it, so do i! :)
 
Hell no. I take antidepressants.

That said, I had a dry spell of about 3-4 months with no sex, and then on my birthday my wife was able to make me come just by rubbing my clit, which almost NEVER happens. It takes a goddamn production to make me come. I don't know if it was the dry spell, the fact that I'd missed my meds for a night or two, or just luck. But it was fun. :)
 
Obligatory Other

Hmm, back in the day when I was in training as a submissive, I could. It took almost a year to learn but eventually, I could. However, that was only for her and never when there was anyone around. (Even then, I had to control SOMETHING.)

This is now about 12-14 years later. I don't know if I can anymore. I know my baby girl can because I taught her to. I know my previous pet~lings could because I taught them to. As for me, I don't think I can. Don't really care to find out either.
 
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