* * * D/s & LDR's - Revisited * * *

[myinnerslut]

i wear one of his shirts

or cuddle with the stuffed puppy that he gave me for our six month anniversay. a puppy for his puppy.. he thought it was cute

 

[ecstaticsub]

You have my appreciation for your intimate contributions here.
For those of you in LDR's w/ D/s it would seem that the need for contact would be the only downside to it. And I can empathize with you greatly concerning this single but deeply important aspect.

Now I will go one step further by asking more of you. (always the boundries, hmm?)
I wonder if there might be a pyl/Pyl out there secetly following this string wondering if we'll touch upon ways to ease that ache of empty arms when the need for that attention is felt the most.

I know I might be requesting too much this time. Details aren't the focus of my question. Even a simple worded answer such as "hugging tightly to a plush" that was given as a gift or "a favorite pillow" often used as pelvic support during play that has a link to Him/Her.

What do YOU do?

As always.....I ask only for what can be given. Nothing more.

Since I am married also i don't feel that ach very often. I usually have someone to hold me. The hardest times has been when my husband has been deployed and my Daddy is on vacation with his family and thus is unavailable to me. But fortunately I have children to hug and make me laugh. Not exactly the same but I get loved.

WHen I am aching just for my Daddy I reread emails and IM he has sent me. I save all the sweet loving ones just for that reason.

 

[EmpressFi]

I save all the sweet loving ones just for that reason.

I do this too. I have a folder of saved private messages just for that very reason

 

[HottieMama]

I do this too. I have a folder of saved private messages just for that very reason

Me three...Mine are all converted to text format and saved on a memory stick...works great and ultimate privacy for me.

 

[sureibu]

Video sharing for dummies...

The best purchase I ever made was my little Sony cybershot camera that can do video clips. At least 3 or so times a week I send him pictures and video. Sometimes the video is sexual and sometimes it is just me talking to him. I don't do this because he has ordered me to do it, I do it to make him happy. Sometimes he will ask that I do certain types of pictures or video but most of the time I just do what I think make him smile.

Can I ask how you share the videos? I've tried emailing but the file size is often too big for that. Is there a video sharing site you can upload them to and keep them completely private except for those you have chosen to share them with? I'm not too worried about the just talking ones as I can upload them to photobucket, but what about the sexual ones? Thanks in advance.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Can I ask how you share the videos? I've tried emailing but the file size is often too big for that. Is there a video sharing site you can upload them to and keep them completely private except for those you have chosen to share them with? I'm not too worried about the just talking ones as I can upload them to photobucket, but what about the sexual ones? Thanks in advance.

They are usually too big to send through email. I can transfer even my larger files (30 min of video) through yahoo messenger, but not as an off-line. The other option is to resize them using windows movie maker and email them.

 

[serijules]

I go make something fabulous that he'd be proud of, and for him to be proud for me when I sell it.

I do this too.

 

[sureibu]

They are usually too big to send through email. I can transfer even my larger files (30 min of video) through yahoo messenger, but not as an off-line. The other option is to resize them using windows movie maker and email them.

Ah, OK thanks.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

One thing cannot be overstated: COMMUNICATION. Whenever we have had problems come up, it has been because of diminished communication.

We have been in an LDR for four years. The LD part of our relationship, is mercifully drawing to a close...

One thing that my rose does that I love is she will send me text messages at work just cuz she misses me. Sometimes she even sends pics But little things like that really go a long way.

Oh yeah, because it can not be overstated COMMUNICATION is the key.