Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[Fugu_B]

Is there a chubby mouse, named Gus Gus?

I can bring cherry and grape tomatoes from my garden.

Just bring cherries. Too much grape on party nights, lately.

It’s your birthday??? When???


*raises my voice*

Oh Casssss...we’re going to need a nice decadent chocolate cake to celebrate this beauty

My blood sugar has already peaked due to all of the sweetness I’ve been fed lately. I’ll just take a little slice when it’s ready. Thanks!

 

[barefootgirl69]

It’s your birthday??? When???


*raises my voice*

Oh Casssss...we’re going to need a nice decadent chocolate cake to celebrate this beauty

Noooo, lol my birthday is in my profile.
Just two family members, born 69 years and 1 day apart.

I want pineapple upside down cake on my birthday, though.

 

[Fugu_B]

Noooo, lol my birthday is in my profile.
Just two family members, born 69 years and 1 day apart.

I want pineapple upside down cake on my birthday, though.

*Taking notes and measurements*

 

[barefootgirl69]

*Taking notes and measurements*

Remember - measure twice, cut once.
Or something like that.

 

[LurkingLazarus]

Noooo, lol my birthday is in my profile.
Just two family members, born 69 years and 1 day apart.

I want pineapple upside down cake on my birthday, though.

Mmmm. Pineapple.

 

[Fugu_B]

Remember - measure twice, cut once.
Or something like that.

It’s exactly like that.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Is there a chubby mouse, named Gus Gus?

*Takes a strawberry* Thank you!

Yes, but he's shy and you have to be very, very quiet before he slips out.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Bought myself a wondrously soft, deliciously warm wool throw


Not as fantastic as a cuddle with a 'wee lamb' or the embrace of an adoring little girl, but it should be enough to keep me happy on the long cold nights to come.

Hope that every is having a fantastic weekend!

 

[Fugu_B]

Okay, someone teach how how to be a wimp and to be able to drink hard liquor straight up


Cause I’m out of sugar free cranberry juice and I have nothing else to mix my alcohol with that doesn’t have sugar

It depends on the liquor

My drink of choice used to be gin and tonic with 2 limes. No sugar.

No ‘clear’ soda/diet?

 

[BadAmy]

Okay, someone teach how how to be a wimp and to be able to drink hard liquor straight up


Cause I’m out of sugar free cranberry juice and I have nothing else to mix my alcohol with that doesn’t have sugar

Vodka shot with a pickle juice chaser.

Trust me.

 

[LurkingLazarus]

wonders about the pickle juice chaser...intriguing!

I'll stick to my bourbon...

 

[LostGirlTink]

Vodka shot with a pickle juice chaser.

Trust me.

*gags*

 

[barefootgirl69]

I know he'll hear because he listens with his heart

*climbs to the rooftop*

*whispers*

Daddy

 

[Cthulhu1138]

That sounds lovely, the throw

I hope it keeps you warm, handsome man

Thank you so much my sweet girl!


My time here has been wonderful, and the throw will be a lovely souvenir of this experience.

Time will tell how I fare this winter.
The weather says that I may be lucky enough to return to the same weather that I left...

 

[Moochienanu]

I have an actual topic, if I may work a talking point into this conversation:

In your experience, how do you tell the difference between a real Daddy Dom and someone who just wants/likes to be called “Daddy?” This can be an online relationship or in real life.

My first experience with the DD/lg dynamic was with *cough* someone who just liked younger girls to call him ‘Daddy.’ We were strictly online, so I did research and would bring up other aspects of the power dynamic I was interested in, but he never seemed to grasp the entire concept of the “Dominant” part of being a Daddy. I cared for him very much, but never felt like he listened to me or my needs.

I am now with someone who is the perfect mix for me of nurturing and Dominant. He listens, hears, and reads me better than I do myself sometimes. There is such a difference between this, healthy relationship and the one before.

Has anyone else had similar experiences with semi-Daddy-wannabe-types?

 

[BadAmy]

*climbs to the rooftop*

*whispers*

Daddy

So so very much this.


Sometimes. They can hurt us. (And not Daddy but everything else)

 

[barefootgirl69]

I have an actual topic, if I may work a talking point into this conversation:

In your experience, how do you tell the difference between a real Daddy Dom and someone who just wants/likes to be called “Daddy?” This can be an online relationship or in real life.

My first experience with the DD/lg dynamic was with *cough* someone who just liked younger girls to call him ‘Daddy.’ We were strictly online, so I did research and would bring up other aspects of the power dynamic I was interested in, but he never seemed to grasp the entire concept of the “Dominant” part of being a Daddy. I cared for him very much, but never felt like he listened to me or my needs.

I am now with someone who is the perfect mix for me of nurturing and Dominant. He listens, hears, and reads me better than I do myself sometimes. There is such a difference between this, healthy relationship and the one before.

Has anyone else had similar experiences with semi-Daddy-wannabe-types?

I don't think you can tell the difference except by talking and getting to know someone...which is why it's important to get to all those conversations as soon as possible.

The part I put in bold...I felt that talking to someone. It's a red flag for me. But, you never discover these things until you're talking and getting to know someone.

 

[Nzerxx]

*climbs to the rooftop*

*whispers*

Daddy

Wraps BFG in a hug when she comes down off the roof

 

[Fugu_B]

*climbs to the rooftop*

*whispers*

Daddy

*crawls under the warm blankets after a long walk in the cold*

Good morning, Little One.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I have an actual topic, if I may work a talking point into this conversation:

In your experience, how do you tell the difference between a real Daddy Dom and someone who just wants/likes to be called “Daddy?” This can be an online relationship or in real life.

My first experience with the DD/lg dynamic was with *cough* someone who just liked younger girls to call him ‘Daddy.’ We were strictly online, so I did research and would bring up other aspects of the power dynamic I was interested in, but he never seemed to grasp the entire concept of the “Dominant” part of being a Daddy. I cared for him very much, but never felt like he listened to me or my needs.

I am now with someone who is the perfect mix for me of nurturing and Dominant. He listens, hears, and reads me better than I do myself sometimes. There is such a difference between this, healthy relationship and the one before.

Has anyone else had similar experiences with semi-Daddy-wannabe-types?

It seems to me you answered your own question: "He listens, hears, and reads me better than I do myself".

There are some of us that get off on age difference and play, some of us that are just natural DDs, some that are just into the dom part of it, and some that are in the process of learning of what a true DD is. Quite honestly, in my own case, it started as the former - she was a fantasy teenager and when she looked up and called me "daddy" I exploded with pleasure. But then she demanded from me so much more and together we learned and developed our own dynamic. In short, some (probably many) of us don't fully get the DD/lg dynamic, of what it truly means to be a DD. Some are in it for the power and control, some are in it for the fantasy, but some do have the capacity to listen, to change, and to care about you.

I'm rambling, but I do think that is the difference - the power-trip and the fantasy guys are in it for themselves, a true DD is in it for you. Given each little has her own desires and needs, her own understanding of what it means for her to be a little, a DD has to adapt, has to listen, has to learn from you what you desire and aspire in a relationship. There is no fixed model to be imposed. Power-trip and fantasy guys work from fixed models that are theirs, not yours...

 

[barefootgirl69]

Wraps BFG in a hug when she comes down off the roof

Thanks for making sure I got down safe *hugs*

*crawls under the warm blankets after a long walk in the cold*

Good morning, Little One.

Good morning

I'm up and ready to start our day.

I hope everyone has a good day, I've got a little trip planned. See you later.

 

[DarkSimian]

Thanks for making sure I got down safe *hugs*



Good morning

I'm up and ready to start our day.

I hope everyone has a good day, I've got a little trip planned. See you later.

Where ya going?

 

[LostGirlTink]

I have an actual topic, if I may work a talking point into this conversation:

In your experience, how do you tell the difference between a real Daddy Dom and someone who just wants/likes to be called “Daddy?” This can be an online relationship or in real life.

My first experience with the DD/lg dynamic was with *cough* someone who just liked younger girls to call him ‘Daddy.’ We were strictly online, so I did research and would bring up other aspects of the power dynamic I was interested in, but he never seemed to grasp the entire concept of the “Dominant” part of being a Daddy. I cared for him very much, but never felt like he listened to me or my needs.

I am now with someone who is the perfect mix for me of nurturing and Dominant. He listens, hears, and reads me better than I do myself sometimes. There is such a difference between this, healthy relationship and the one before.

Has anyone else had similar experiences with semi-Daddy-wannabe-types?

The part I bolded, I'm so happy to hear that. Isn't it amazing the difference a healthy relationship makes? I have a lot of thoughts on this, so I'm going to put them below once I finish thinking my way through it.

I don't think you can tell the difference except by talking and getting to know someone...which is why it's important to get to all those conversations as soon as possible.

This is important, but to me? I think it's less about what they say, and more about what they actually do. Is there substance behind the pretty words? Do they actively show who they are through their actions? Their follow through? Their promises? Or do they give lip service to what they think you want to hear?

I'm rambling, but I do think that is the difference - the power-trip and the fantasy guys are in it for themselves, a true DD is in it for you. Given each little has her own desires and needs, her own understanding of what it means for her to be a little, a DD has to adapt, has to listen, has to learn from you what you desire and aspire in a relationship. There is no fixed model to be imposed. Power-trip and fantasy guys work from fixed models that are theirs, not yours...

Say it again for the people in the back!!!

The DD/lg dynamic is complex. We've seen and talked about a million or more times (ok, maybe not quite THAT many) that it means so many things to different people. That every lg has different needs, that every person with even a bit of little to them, has different needs, and it's perfectly natural to assume that the same applies to all DDs as well right?

Ok I was going to say more but I need to think it through first. I'll be back in a bit.
Hope everyone is having a fantastic Saturday

 

[RcyMtnGrl]

Wraps in a blanket and settles into a bean bag chair to wait for the others to get here. Sleep is just not happening tonight.

 

[LurkingLazarus]

Good morning Rcy, I hope you were able to get some sleep.

Sorry no one checked in on you last night, I’ll put some coffee on for ya when you’re ready

It's Sunday...there will be coffee on all day, and breakfast/brunch on demand.

I am not an amazing cook, but I *do* like making breakfast for an appreciative (and hungry) woman...