HumpDayHoratio
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I went through this with a certain sex act with my wife. We both had fantasized about it and enjoyed it when we started. Then the doubt crept in. For her mainly then for me when I’d gently pressure her to do it. This was a cycle that was on and off as we would go through periods where we both enjoyed each other then a cycle of the guilts.
I finally sat her down and had a long talk and we both accepted that that is just how I’m wired and it’s just a normal part of our sexual cycle in our lives. We‘re not hurting anyone much less each other. We ultimately love each other and just want pleasure for both parties.
This took time though. I know it’s easier said than done but you‘ll have to accept your sexuality for what it is. Also, masturbation is a NORMAL sex act and way to explore your body and what turns you on. Porn can be another story though.
If you can’t help yourself in this endeavor then as others have posted seeking professional help is your best bet. Good luck. Please continue to use this forum as an outlet also. Lots of smart people here.
I finally sat her down and had a long talk and we both accepted that that is just how I’m wired and it’s just a normal part of our sexual cycle in our lives. We‘re not hurting anyone much less each other. We ultimately love each other and just want pleasure for both parties.
This took time though. I know it’s easier said than done but you‘ll have to accept your sexuality for what it is. Also, masturbation is a NORMAL sex act and way to explore your body and what turns you on. Porn can be another story though.
If you can’t help yourself in this endeavor then as others have posted seeking professional help is your best bet. Good luck. Please continue to use this forum as an outlet also. Lots of smart people here.